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How do sexual orientation laws and policies affect ex-gays?****
Ex-gays are subject to an increasingly hostile environment where they are labeled as perpetrators of hate and discrimination against homosexuals simply because they advocate for or live out a different view of homosexuality. Since the early 1990s, gay activists have focused on the creation of a situation in which everyone who does not accept the notion that homosexuality is in every way equivalent to heterosexuality is labeled as a bigot whose attitudes equate to racism.
**Alternatives to homosexuality are interpreted as harassment **against gays, even though the individuals seeking to leave behind their same sex attractions are merely exercising a freedom to reaffirm the gender of their birth. Sexual orientation laws are interpreted to silence the ex-gay community and their supporters. Consequently, sexual orientation laws legitimize intolerance against former homosexuals. Indeed, fighting hate and discrimination against gays has become a euphemism for attacks against ex-gays.
For example, David Ott of Madison, Wisconsin, was charged with a hate crime because he stated his own experience as a former homosexual that homosexuals could change their sexual orientation. The Gay, Lesbian and Straight Educational Network (GLSEN) distributed a booklet in the schools accusing former homosexuals of “harassment” because ex-gay groups want the same access to public schools as gay groups. Equality Virginia, a gay rights group, demanded that Metro remove PFOXs subway billboards advocating tolerance for former homosexuals.
**Cornelius Baker, the executive director of an AIDS clinic (Whitman-Walker) that receives federal funding, labeled ex-gays as **political extremists who tortured and brainwashed teens, although he endorses gay outreach to questioning youth. After receiving threats, insults and brutal letters for running an advertisement for an ex-gay book, Psychology Today Editor Bob Epstein acknowledged the dark, intolerant, abusive side of the gay community. Facing pressure campaigns, Detroits three major television networks refused to run ads featuring ex-gay men.
**Orlando Commissioner Patty Sheehan denounced her fellow commissioner for issuing a proclamation honoring an ex-gay organization even though she herself freely makes proclamations celebrating **Gay Days every year at Disney World. Ms. Sheehan, an open lesbian, went so far as to compare the ex-gay organization to the KKK, thereby demeaning African-American ex-gays. The list is endless because every day brings new hostile acts against the ex-gay community.
Ex-gays must be included in the formation of public policy because they have much to contribute to the understanding and application of sexual orientation. They are living proof that homosexuality is neither genetic, inborn, or immutable. Without testimony from all sectors of society, public policy on this issue is seriously flawed.