Regarding the posters here - Iād say yes theyāre typical - in the sense that you have people that claim to be Catholic yet their arrogance, ignorance, stupidity and triumphalism because they belong to the club, which somehow engenders the idea they are better than non-Catholics, knows no bounds. It is especially noteworthy that these same posters will never be found on the apologetics forum, liturgy and sacraments forum etc because they know so little about their faith they cannot hold even a decent conversation never mind a debate about matters of faith with someone who actually does, or asks the hard questions. All they can say is āāhey weāre Catholics, weāre the best, youāre going to hell, hahahaha, coz weāre Catholics and youāre not. Oh yeah, and if you werenāt stupid youād be a Catholic tooāā !!! I paraphrase, but that in a nutshell is their entire contribution to an enquirer because they simply donāt know their faith, they just belong to the club. And somehow they look down on you if you are not a member of the club. And heaven help you if you correct their errors. I donāt mean as in disagreeing with their theology, I mean simply correcting things they say that even the Catholic Church doesnāt !!! These posters translate in real life to the Catholics in name only that live with their partners, contracept, watch pornography, donāt believe in the real presence, abort, rarely go to Mass, never fast, donāt keep holy days of obligation, they drink swear and gamble to excess and so on, but proudly write āCcatholicāā on their kids school application form, always nod at āāFatherāā and so on.
Equally, and opposite to this first group of āāclaimantsāā are posters who say they are Catholic and whose posts are erudite, charitable, they correct gently and always with kindness, they are patient with people like me exploring the faith, and you just know that in real life, they walk the walk, not just talk the talk. I have received pmās from such people encouraging me to continue to explore the faith, answering questions in detail and great clarity, and always with prayers. These people are great. Their Catholicism is a living breathing faith that manifests itself in every aspect of their daily lives and interactions with others.
In real live, there is a third group, sitting between these two extremes, the cafeteria Catholics.
I was once touring France on my motorcycle. My friend and I got lost, and stopped in a bar in a one horse village to ask for directions. Weād been riding for 16 hours in nonstop rain (we had a ferry to catch the next day and had dallied too much the previous days because of the awesome roads and scenery). The campsite we were looking for was still miles away. The barman, who was also a biker, told us to follow him. He got on his bike and he led us to his house, not the campsite. He gave us his keys, told us to make his place ours, eat, shower and use anything we wanted, and leave the keys under a plant pot outside when we were ready to go. He made up the spare beds, showed us were the dryer was so we could get our kit dried out. He drew a map of much better roads to take to the ferry than the ones we were thinking of using, real good biking roads, and left us some money for fuel. He even set the alarm clock for us !!! And then he just went back to work his night shift !!!
No idea what religion he was, but he did this for no other reason than he was a biker, and so were we, Thatās all that mattered. We were fellow knights of the road.
If only the Catholic faith could make that same connection in its adherents to the rest of humanity.