I don’t disagree on that, but unlike the Russian Orthodox who definitely want to hear who you are and know you’ve just gone to confession, I have in my experience around here found the EC clergy generally more like the Latins-- if someone presents themselves for Eucharist it is trusted they are properly disposed to receive. I suppose if someone was acting peculiar during the rest of Liturgy something might be asked at the chalice.
I consider you fortunate to have clergy who make a point of this. Someone in my parish happened to mention to me that he/she had never been to confession. He/she was received into the Church in our parish years ago. Thankfully there has been more emphasis on receiving confession the past year. It’s not the laity’s fault, they haven’t been catechized.