Communion while kneeling has not been banned. However, there are some very practical reasons why a pastor may ask his parishioners to stand only. I have to admit that just as some people may have seen one or the other pastor get into silly power struggles with the person who wants to kneel, there are also lay people who get into equally silly power struggles over the same issue. I know a parish where some people refused to attend mass there, because the pastor asked that they no knee when he celebrates the mass. His reason is on the list of valid reasons. Anyway, here’s my list.
The priest has a handicapping condition that does not allow him to reach down to the person who is kneeling.
Accidents have happened where the person behind was not expecting it and has trampled the person who is suddenly kneels.
People have grabbed on to the priest, to help them get up again, which can cause the priest and the communicant to end up on the floor.
In some places, the space is tight. People can’t maneuver around a person who is kneeling.
If it’s a religious house, it may not be the custom of that religious community. In those houses (friaries, college chapels, retreat houses or other religious houses) the custom of the religious who own the house prevails over the universal law. Such houses are not bound by the universal law, unless Church law applies to them or they are required by their own laws.
This being said, I know a priest who has a handicapping condition. He stands with crutches. When he distributes Holy Communion, he reaches his station and props himself up. The deacon then brings him the ciboria. Even with all of these visual cues, some people (I’m talking about four people) were very upset when he was appointed pastor, because he asked parishioners not to knee. He can’t lean forward or he’ll lose his balance. He holds the ciborium with his hands and props his elbows on his crutches to keep him up. You’d think that anyone with some common sense, who is watching this will figure out that kneeling is a bad idea. Nahhhh!
There are stubborn people on both sides of the communion line. I was in the mission in the Amazon. That particular diocese did not have CITH. I was distributing communion when an American or Canadian came and put his hands out. I simply gave him communion. They man was passing through. I was most likely that he did not know the local rules. In the Amazon you get many scientists and tourists who are just coming through.
We also have custom in our chapels. We genuflect before receiving Holy Communion. Often, a layperson may ask to stay for mass. They don’t genuflect. We don’t make an issue of it. The communion station is not the place for a battle of wills.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF