Ever been denied Holy Communion for kneeling while receiving?

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Interesting stuff. When I get to take communion I am going to do whatever is the norm. I dont think I’ve seen anyone kneel. But some take in the hand and some take it on the tongue. I’m going to trust The RCIA class.
 
youtube.com/watch?v=j0yfdbxr7qM

At 0:11 you can see the Bishop speaking to a woman who is kneeling and makes her get up to receive communion.
This is an old video. It shows that it was uploaded to YouTube in 2006. I have seen a article published in 2004 that referred to this event and I have seen another item mentioning this happening in November of 2002. Rather than continuing to rehash this sad event, I would be more interested to know if this is still happening since the Congregation of Divine Worship and Discipline of Sacraments has responded to the question about this and made the clarification regarding posture while receiving Communion.
 
I’m with you, Bill! We are just so darn thrilled to even be able to attend Mass at all, we’ll take whatever we can get and just try to do whatever makes Father most comfortable. My husband and I both converted as adults, and as is typical nowadays, our RCIA and subsequent parishes are all very liberal. So taking in the hand is what we were taught.

Once were able to dash into a more traditional church in the city once, and we a bit surprised to see everyone lining up to kneel along the altar step – new to us. We just sort of looked and shrugged and fell in line. It was lovely!

But like I said, whatever makes the Priest more comfortable, we just conform. Going to Mass is a very great privilege, and unfortunately, we can attend only seldom due to my husband’s work schedule and lack of transportation. We just wouldn’t dream of making his job any more difficult or making any kind of a scene.

I do try to do a brief genuflection while the person in front of me is receiving – it doesn’t delay the line or interfere with anything. Our Pastor has to dash to 4 different Masses in 3 different churches, so it just isn’t right to do anything that will hold him up. But since I have to shepherd my special needs son in front of me, I can’t always do that, either. In hand or on the tongue - it is all such an incredible blessing, how can one possibly complain???
 
Most people at my home parish don’t receive kneeling. My daily parish there are those that kneel just before communion but then stand up and receive on the tongue and there are those that kneel on the first step and receive. I’m never seen anyone denied communion.
 
This is an old video. It shows that it was uploaded to YouTube in 2006. I have seen a article published in 2004 that referred to this event and I have seen another item mentioning this happening in November of 2002. Rather than continuing to rehash this sad event, I would be more interested to know if this is still happening since the Congregation of Divine Worship and Discipline of Sacraments has responded to the question about this and made the clarification regarding posture while receiving Communion.
Well I never checked the date, and it’s the only video I know of of someone being denied. Even if it’s old you should not forget, but remember so that this will not happen again. It happen, so learn from it and just continue life, but don’t forget or pretend it never happen.
 
Well I never checked the date, and it’s the only video I know of of someone being denied. Even if it’s old you should not forget, but remember so that this will not happen again. It happen, so learn from it and just continue life, but don’t forget or pretend it never happen.
I hope you were making a statement in general and not directing that comment toward me.
 
My Parish is moderate, however by no means traditional. I am the only Parishioner (that I have seen) that has received the Most Blessed Sacrament kneeling. I did it however, on one knee as to avoid holding up the line. The Priest that was distributing the Most Blessed Sacrament was caught by surprise, although he knew I was a traditional Catholic.

He paused a moment but placed the Blessed Sacrament on my tongue. I avoided him after mass. I am an Altar Boy (server) at that Parish, I am a bit worried that if they get a bit too bothered by how I go about things, that I might be asked to leave. We’ll see.

About a year ago, however, at a different Church, I attempted to receive the Most Blessed Sacrament kneeling. I was denied by a very elderly Priest, and I went without. After Mass, and on my way down the aisle after my post-mass prayer, the Priest caught up to me and explained himself, he apologized and said he had a bad back and even worse knees. He was going to distribute the Most Blessed Sacrament with me standing, but I left to early.
 
An older couple that I am friends with were denied communion by the priest in a local OF parish for kneeling to receive. They were told to “stand and hold out your hands”. At which they were so angry that they felt unworthy to receive so the crossed their arms in front of themselves and left the church. That weekend they wrote to the Archbishop and within two weeks they received a letter from the local priest apologizing for “giving them the wrong impression”.

Nothing more was said about the incident but the couple found the parish that I now call my default OF parish. At least at this parish anyone can receive on the tongue and kneeling.
 
I hope you were making a statement in general and not directing that comment toward me.
The first part about me not checking the date was direted towards you. The rest was just general statement, so relax, sorry if you felt I was directing it towards you.
 
Communion while kneeling has not been banned. However, there are some very practical reasons why a pastor may ask his parishioners to stand only. I have to admit that just as some people may have seen one or the other pastor get into silly power struggles with the person who wants to kneel, there are also lay people who get into equally silly power struggles over the same issue. I know a parish where some people refused to attend mass there, because the pastor asked that they no knee when he celebrates the mass. His reason is on the list of valid reasons. Anyway, here’s my list.

The priest has a handicapping condition that does not allow him to reach down to the person who is kneeling.

Accidents have happened where the person behind was not expecting it and has trampled the person who is suddenly kneels.

People have grabbed on to the priest, to help them get up again, which can cause the priest and the communicant to end up on the floor.

In some places, the space is tight. People can’t maneuver around a person who is kneeling.

If it’s a religious house, it may not be the custom of that religious community. In those houses (friaries, college chapels, retreat houses or other religious houses) the custom of the religious who own the house prevails over the universal law. Such houses are not bound by the universal law, unless Church law applies to them or they are required by their own laws.

This being said, I know a priest who has a handicapping condition. He stands with crutches. When he distributes Holy Communion, he reaches his station and props himself up. The deacon then brings him the ciboria. Even with all of these visual cues, some people (I’m talking about four people) were very upset when he was appointed pastor, because he asked parishioners not to knee. He can’t lean forward or he’ll lose his balance. He holds the ciborium with his hands and props his elbows on his crutches to keep him up. You’d think that anyone with some common sense, who is watching this will figure out that kneeling is a bad idea. Nahhhh!

There are stubborn people on both sides of the communion line. I was in the mission in the Amazon. That particular diocese did not have CITH. I was distributing communion when an American or Canadian came and put his hands out. I simply gave him communion. They man was passing through. I was most likely that he did not know the local rules. In the Amazon you get many scientists and tourists who are just coming through.

We also have custom in our chapels. We genuflect before receiving Holy Communion. Often, a layperson may ask to stay for mass. They don’t genuflect. We don’t make an issue of it. The communion station is not the place for a battle of wills.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Communion while kneeling has not been banned. However, there are some very practical reasons why a pastor may ask his parishioners to stand only. I have to admit that just as some people may have seen one or the other pastor get into silly power struggles with the person who wants to kneel, there are also lay people who get into equally silly power struggles over the same issue. I know a parish where some people refused to attend mass there, because the pastor asked that they no knee when he celebrates the mass. His reason is on the list of valid reasons. Anyway, here’s my list.

The priest has a handicapping condition that does not allow him to reach down to the person who is kneeling.

Accidents have happened where the person behind was not expecting it and has trampled the person who is suddenly kneels.

People have grabbed on to the priest, to help them get up again, which can cause the priest and the communicant to end up on the floor.

In some places, the space is tight. People can’t maneuver around a person who is kneeling.

If it’s a religious house, it may not be the custom of that religious community. In those houses (friaries, college chapels, retreat houses or other religious houses) the custom of the religious who own the house prevails over the universal law. Such houses are not bound by the universal law, unless Church law applies to them or they are required by their own laws.

This being said, I know a priest who has a handicapping condition. He stands with crutches. When he distributes Holy Communion, he reaches his station and props himself up. The deacon then brings him the ciboria. Even with all of these visual cues, some people (I’m talking about four people) were very upset when he was appointed pastor, because he asked parishioners not to knee. He can’t lean forward or he’ll lose his balance. He holds the ciborium with his hands and props his elbows on his crutches to keep him up. You’d think that anyone with some common sense, who is watching this will figure out that kneeling is a bad idea. Nahhhh!

There are stubborn people on both sides of the communion line. I was in the mission in the Amazon. That particular diocese did not have CITH. I was distributing communion when an American or Canadian came and put his hands out. I simply gave him communion. They man was passing through. I was most likely that he did not know the local rules. In the Amazon you get many scientists and tourists who are just coming through.

We also have custom in our chapels. We genuflect before receiving Holy Communion. Often, a layperson may ask to stay for mass. They don’t genuflect. We don’t make an issue of it. The communion station is not the place for a battle of wills.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
I agree to all of those, however, when I “kneel” I just take a knee. I don’t go down on both, just one, it helps me get up faster, helps with stability, etc. Also, I have never (though I am positive it has happened) seen a fellow grab hold of the priest. Though as an Altar Boy serving a Confirmation mass, there was an elderly Bishop who, while stepping up a step to where I was almost tripped but he caught hold of me. Thankfully, I didn’t fall down. Long story short, no one fell that day. 🙂

Also, I cannot agree enough to the “Battle of the wills” statement. Though from my own experience, and stories I have heard, the Priest is usually the aggressor, not the receiver.

Thank you for your comment though, and God Bless.
 
I agree to all of those, however, when I “kneel” I just take a knee. I don’t go down on both, just one, it helps me get up faster, helps with stability, etc. Also, I have never (though I am positive it has happened) seen a fellow grab hold of the priest. Though as an Altar Boy serving a Confirmation mass, there was an elderly Bishop who, while stepping up a step to where I was almost tripped but he caught hold of me. Thankfully, I didn’t fall down. Long story short, no one fell that day. 🙂

Also, I cannot agree enough to the “Battle of the wills” statement. Though from my own experience, and stories I have heard, the Priest is usually the aggressor, not the receiver.

Thank you for your comment though, and God Bless.
I’m using the term “battle of wills” for both sides. As I said, those who objected to the disabled priest who could not give out communion to those who knelt were being silly. I would be been equally silly to refuse to give communion to the foreigner who put out his hands in a diocese that had a COTT only rule. My superior would have had my head. My logic is simple. Talk about it later, not on the communion line. The only time that I ever denied someone communion was a woman who came up holding a cell phone to her ear. I politely told her to come back to mass when she was not busy.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
It not that standing is not an enforcable law. Its just not a grave enough abuse to not follow the rubrics and be denied Communion. The same thing if you don’t say “Amen”. Its part of the rubrics but when was the last time you knew of someone who was denied? The most I can think of is the priest would not give the Eucharist until the person says “Amen,” but never turn the person away. They will just keep repeating, “The Body of Christ,” until the communicant says “Amen”.
Your statement means that kneeling is an abuse, just not grave enough to deny Communion. The reality is that it isn’t an abuse, it’s perfectly legitimate and nobody who kneels is to be considered disobedient. Rome has made that perfectly clear by actually saying “Indeed, the faithful should not be imposed upon nor accused of disobedience and of acting illicitly when they kneel to receive Holy Communion”.

As for the “Amen”, last Christmas the young priest who was with us to learn English refused to give Communion to an elder in the neighboring native community for just that reason. He was told to stay away from that community after that.
 
That would be my greatly liberal bishop… It’s too bad the video disappeared where he actually physically yanked a woman up to receive stating that we don’t receive that way in his diocese and that she was causing a scene.
One bishop in Canada many years ago had a kneeling family arrested for disturbing a religious ceremony. The case went all the way to the Supreme Court because one of those arrested was a lawyer.
 
No, it is not. I actually kneeled to receive the Most Blessed Sacrament and the Priest did not distribute the Eucharist to me because he could not bend down.
All this didn’t seem like a problem when people knelt to receive communion COTT at the rail on soft padding with a trained server holding a paten under each chin. And without the Amen. The height difference doesn’t seem to matter too much when everyone kneels at the railing.

The funny thing is that no one knows how the practice of standing started in the West. And now there are disobedience issues if you don’t stand?
 
One bishop in Canada many years ago had a kneeling family arrested for disturbing a religious ceremony. The case went all the way to the Supreme Court because one of those arrested was a lawyer.
Wow … there is something gravely wrong with this picture. That’s absolutely horrible that a family would be arrested. Do you happen to have an article or something we could read?

I kneel right before receiving and stand up. I do not feel comfortable kneeling without a rail.

People shouldn’t be denied communion simply because they wish to kneel. Those Priests will have to account for their actions.
 
I returned to the Catholic Church just a few years ago after abandoning the faith as a teenager.

Partly motivated by fear generated through apocalyptic references in certain false Marian apparitions,and by my mom instilling in me the true presence of Christ, I received my first communiuon after maybe 35yrs kneeling and on the tongue.

The priest who administered looked at me sort of disgusted and shook his head.The funny thing is as I first approached him I specifically asked if it was Ok and he said , “yes”. Then when I knelt he just looked very disturbed.

I cried afterwards and sent an email to the younger priest in the parish asking him if it was wrong. He said no,and often priests like the one who administered to me are not used to those “acts of piety” as he referred to it. He said there is a place in the church for the traditional and the modern.As a matter of fact the following week his homily was addressed to that issue,and it seems as if he was speaking to my heart.

Since then I have received from many priests in different parishes and not one has even acted as if it was at all abnormal.Some smile very kindly as they gently place the body of our Lord on my tongue.
 
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