Everytime I see him I want to cry

[silentfactor80]

I’m so done talking to you. I’ve repeatedly said that women are just as capable of wrong-doing as men. The less you listen, the less convincing you are because, yet again, you responded to what you assumed I think. Feel free not to write to me ever again. All you do is repeatedly prove that you resent women and are sexist.

As for the men in prison, news flash: they committed crimes. For the most part, they deserve to be there.

I am sorry you think advocacy for men and holding women accountable for their actions means resentment of women. Next time I see a homeless man with no skill to better himself go to jail for stealing food I will tell him FriendlyFace said he deserves to be there. My father is a retired police officer. Many of the guys he arrested got arrested for silly shoplifting so they could receive medical treatment or something. Some do it just to stay warm in the winter and have food. Sure some need to be in prison but many are just there because they can’t make it any other way. Try not having a husband government to provide for you and you will understand what survival means.

Just as capable and actually doing are 2 different things by the way… Your posts suggest men actually do it while women are just capable of it.

 

[Chantal25]

Maybe I should have left out the details in my op…but my ONLY question was how to get over a guy. Yeah yeah, maybe he likes me…maybe he’s hiding it…maybe he’s being noble…maybe he just isn’t that into me. I think analyzing a situation too much can be a bat thing. I have accepted the situation for how it is, and if the situation changes in the future, I’ll accept it in a new way. Right now, I JUST need advice on moving past a guy who for WHATEVER reason (reason being a moot point!) isn’t going to be with me right now.

Make a list of all the thing that you like about him.

Now see if you have those qualities yourself. If not, then work on it to develop them.

Example. If you find that he is confident and has no fear to express himself. Then see how you can develop those qualities about you.

This is one step because many time we grieves the potential or the aspect that we feel would have complemented us.

Look also at the feel of rejection, such not seeing how a great woman you would have been for him. Offer those feeling, hurt and fear to God and ask him to restore peace in you. Offer all the attachment that you have to pursue a relationship with him and ask God to replace it with peace and freedom. Don’t hold anything back, God knows your heart anyway.

Mentally, forgive him, bless him and move on.

Blessings and love to you!