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You’ve said nothing about The Truth. You’re just talking about your parish.
Originally Posted by Emese View Post
I don’t think the priests here will know where you live.
We are not talking about the “truth” we are talking about the difference in practises within the C. Church.

I’m sure you are aware that according to the teachings of the catholic church baptism removes the original sin which would prevent us from going to heaven. So denying an innocent child the sacrament of baptism is like putting his/her soul’s eternal life in danger. So yes, it is a serious matter.

I just stated to you that I WAS talking about the TRUTH. God Bless, Memaw
 
Originally Posted by Emese View Post
I don’t think the priests here will know where you live.
We are not talking about the “truth” we are talking about the difference in practises within the C. Church.

I’m sure you are aware that according to the teachings of the catholic church baptism removes the original sin which would prevent us from going to heaven. So denying an innocent child the sacrament of baptism is like putting his/her soul’s eternal life in danger. So yes, it is a serious matter.

I just stated to you that I WAS talking about the TRUTH. God Bless, Memaw
I’m sorry, how does this “prove” that you are talking about the Truth? I know you keep saying that you are talking about the truth, but you actually said NOTHING about the truth so far.

Onto a different subject. What is the purpose of the parent’s baptism class? I can see new converts benefiting from it as they are still learning the faith, but what do you teach that can be actually new to a practising catholic who’s been through these classes before anyway. It might be useful to go through the order of service but that should only take about five minutes.
 
That is not a rabbit hole. It is part of the narrow gate.
But beyond the scope of the topic. And it leads to ever more topics. I didn’t want to comment on it here. I’m well aware of prominent Catholic cardinals who rejected the apocrypha right up to and including at Trent. I can p(name removed by moderator)oint all the logical fallacies in the line of argument. We clearly don’t have to thank Rome for our OT canon, so it’s strange to think we’re indebted to Rome for the NT canon. And no, Hippo and Carthage were not binding on the whole church, and the question of the twofold canon was open until Trent. Which came after Luther’s Bible. But that’s a big topic and it doesn’t really belong on this thread.

But conceptually, your position is flawed. You want me to accept papal authority because I accept Scripture… but does the Church establish Scripture, or does the Scripture establish the Church? Because the presupposition behind your comment and PRmerger’s, is the first one - that the Church decides what is Scripture. A Catholic will even deny the perspicuity of Scripture in one breath, and the next, try to justify the very idea of the popes from Scripture. Being consistent, no Catholic should do that. If one’s authority is Rome, then Scripture is rendered useless because any interpretation of any passage of Scripture must await adjudication for one to *know *what Scripture is saying. When you argue from Scripture you deny the need for an infallible magisterium to interpret it for you. Not a good option for a Catholic. The alternative is to point to Rome apart from Scripture, and to prove the papacy by an appeal to the papacy - but then you show yourself to be a blind follower of something in the face of Scripture. It’s an irreconcilable tension.

And that blind faith dovetails with the previous claim on this thread that the Catholic church rejects fideism. I accept that God’s existence can be demonstrated by reason, and I believe that Jesus Christ really died and really resurrected. That’s a starting point for personal trust in Christ. But the Marian dogmas, for example, cannot be proved from reason. In fact, the fall-back defence is invariably “well, you don’t know she wasn’t assumed”. It shifts the burden of proof and asks those who object to it - me for example - to prove a negative. In informal logic, it’s the argument from ignorance. So to call a spade a spade, many distinctive doctrines of Catholicism are certainly a form of fideism. They cannot be proved, and will only be accepted by someone who already implicitly believes Rome. (The profession of faith: “I believe and profess all that the holy Catholic Church believes, teaches, and proclaims to be revealed by God.”) That’s fine. Wear it on your sleeve. Embrace it. Just don’t say it’s not blind faith.

But of course:
You can ask one of the priests on this forum if you are interested in the truth.
Is the infallible guide away? 🙂 The sales pitch is that Catholicism offers certainty. Well, does it? How are you better off than a Protestant asking his minister? I’m not setting out to offend for it’s own sake. It’s just that Rome doesn’t have what it claims, and truth matters. Someone must ask these questions. I know you don’t, in practice, have an infallible guide. Or a perspicuous guide.

God bless
Stephen
 
I’m sorry, how does this “prove” that you are talking about the Truth? I know you keep saying that you are talking about the truth, but you actually said NOTHING about the truth so far.

Onto a different subject. What is the purpose of the parent’s baptism class? I can see new converts benefiting from it as they are still learning the faith, but what do you teach that can be actually new to a practising catholic who’s been through these classes before anyway. It might be useful to go through the order of service but that should only take about five minutes.
This isn’t addressed to me, but if I were asked that question I would reply that catechesis in this country at this time is woefully inadequate - for children and for everyone. Hardly 20% of those registered in our parish would be able to answer basic doctrinal questions correctly, or much less, have a clue how to bring up their children IN THE FAITH. Only about 40% of the parish attend Mass on Sunday, and it’s likely more than that practice contraceptive birth control and take communion without more than a blink of concern for whether they are in a state of grace when they do, much less even consider that concept! With 15,000 church members and probably less than 100 confessions a week, not much else is needed to make the point. So the occasion of a baptism happens to be one of the first and most important events where something meaningful can be communicated to a young family…
 
What I have found it is out of fear, ignorance or being hurt somehow by someone in the CC.

Or they blame the CC for human sins.
Indeed. Often, there is a confusion over orthopraxy vs orthodoxy.

Bad behavior, in their mistaken logic, equates to bad teaching.
 
The alternative is to point to Rome apart from Scripture, and to prove the papacy by an appeal to the papacy - but then you show yourself to be a blind follower of something in the face of Scripture. It’s an irreconcilable tension.
Or a third possibility is to point to Rome by history, which seems to me would relieve the tension.
 
We clearly don’t have to thank Rome for our OT canon, so it’s strange to think we’re indebted to Rome for the NT canon.
There is no other way for you to know that Hebrews is inspired and the Shepherd of Hermas is not…

save by your tacit submission to the authority of the Catholic Church…
and by your tacit submission to Sacred Tradition.

For if you say, “Well, the Shepherd of Hermas contains things which are not part of the gospel”, then that is testimony to the fact that you believe in the paradosis (IOW: Sacred Tradition).
 
I’m glad a RC said that. The 13th rule for thinking along with the RCC, in the Spiritual Exercises of Ignatius of Loyola:

“To be right in everything, we ought always to hold that the white which I see, is black, if the Hierarchical Church so decides it…”

With Ignatius at least, and he seems to be a good Catholic in this regard, critical thinking is discouraged and implicit faith is encouraged. We Protestants are allowed the use of private judgement (salvation is, after all, personal) but a Catholic must presuppose. In fact, that Catholic attitude toward truth and error is reason enough for a well-catechised cradle Catholic with no bad experiences to question their faith. I’m not trying to be antagonistic, it’s perfectly fair comment that Rome encourages and requires fides implicita.
I think the deeper issue here pertains to what the decisions of the Hierarchical Church are.

By way of example, when the Council of Chalcedon issued its decisions, basically everyone who considered it an ecumenical council agreed with its decisions – that is to say, people who disagreed with it didn’t consider it an ecumenical council.
 
This isn’t addressed to me, but if I were asked that question I would reply that catechesis in this country at this time is woefully inadequate - for children and for everyone. Hardly 20% of those registered in our parish would be able to answer basic doctrinal questions correctly, or much less, have a clue how to bring up their children IN THE FAITH. Only about 40% of the parish attend Mass on Sunday, and it’s likely more than that practice contraceptive birth control and take communion without more than a blink of concern for whether they are in a state of grace when they do, much less even consider that concept! With 15,000 church members and probably less than 100 confessions a week, not much else is needed to make the point. So the occasion of a baptism happens to be one of the first and most important events where something meaningful can be communicated to a young family…
Thank you, as my Mom used to say, “Some people wouldn’t know the truth if it bit them on the nose.” The past 50 years have been very hard on the Church, as well as those in it. God Bless, Memaw
 
This isn’t addressed to me, but if I were asked that question I would reply that catechesis in this country at this time is woefully inadequate - for children and for everyone. Hardly 20% of those registered in our parish would be able to answer basic doctrinal questions correctly, or much less, have a clue how to bring up their children IN THE FAITH. Only about 40% of the parish attend Mass on Sunday, and it’s likely more than that practice contraceptive birth control and take communion without more than a blink of concern for whether they are in a state of grace when they do, much less even consider that concept! With 15,000 church members and probably less than 100 confessions a week, not much else is needed to make the point. So the occasion of a baptism happens to be one of the first and most important events where something meaningful can be communicated to a young family…
Thank you for your reply. I can’t really comment on this. All I can say that I felt that the sacrament preparation courses and all the other classes I used to attend at the church in Europe growing up were very thorough and seemed very effective in bringing people closer to the church and to its teachings. Unfortunately the way Memaw described this preparation course she is conducting in her parish does not seem to serve this aim as it seems to drive people (like that poor woman) away deeply upset and disappointed. And seeing the kind of attitude demonstrated here I can see more and more clearly how and why this can happen.
 
Thank you for your reply. I can’t really comment on this. All I can say that I felt that the sacrament preparation courses and all the other classes I used to attend at the church in Europe growing up were very thorough and seemed very effective in bringing people closer to the church and to its teachings. Unfortunately the way Memaw described this preparation course she is conducting in her parish does not seem to serve this aim as it seems to drive people (like that poor woman) away deeply upset and disappointed. And seeing the kind of attitude demonstrated here I can see more and more clearly how and why this can happen.
This is my post,

Originally Posted by Memaw

No it isn’t, as a matter of fact a priest must be reasonably sure that the baby will be raised in the Church and that the parents take that responsibility seriously or he is not supposed to baptize it. They shouldn’t just baptize a baby nilly willy, no matter what. And it wasn’t the priest that walked away it was the mother. He was willing to work with her. Jesus allowed many people to walk away. If we know our faith, then we know a lay person can only baptize someone in case of emergency and NOT just because you want to. That ladies situation was not extreme.
Dying on a battle field or any where else for that matter is a much different thing. God Bless, Memaw

As I said then the lady walked away from the priest, not me. and I am no longer teaching the Baptismal classes, that was 25 years ago. The parents are required to take the Baptism of their child very seriously, as does the Church. That IS a serious responsibility. And no one is driving anyone away. Some choose to not take it seriously and that is their choice. I don’t know what your problem is Emese, but you seem to have a burr under your saddle, (as my Grandmother used to say) if someone doesn’t agree with you and you have to get rude. God Bless, Memaw
 
This is my post,

Originally Posted by Memaw

No it isn’t, as a matter of fact a priest must be reasonably sure that the baby will be raised in the Church and that the parents take that responsibility seriously or he is not supposed to baptize it. They shouldn’t just baptize a baby nilly willy, no matter what. And it wasn’t the priest that walked away it was the mother. He was willing to work with her. Jesus allowed many people to walk away. If we know our faith, then we know a lay person can only baptize someone in case of emergency and NOT just because you want to. That ladies situation was not extreme.
Dying on a battle field or any where else for that matter is a much different thing. God Bless, Memaw

As I said then the lady walked away from the priest, not me. and I am no longer teaching the Baptismal classes, that was 25 years ago. The parents are required to take the Baptism of their child very seriously, as does the Church. That IS a serious responsibility. And no one is driving anyone away. Some choose to not take it seriously and that is their choice. I don’t know what your problem is Emese, but you seem to have a burr under your saddle, (as my Grandmother used to say) if someone doesn’t agree with you and you have to get rude. God Bless, Memaw
I think you are in denial. I don’t get upset when people disagree, however, I do get upset when people are rude to me, like you are.
 
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