Ex-Mormons: Why Did You Leave the Mormon Church?

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I’m not the one who’s obsessed with God having to have the right organs. I think the Incarnation is an astonishingly profound subject. God became a human being in order to save us. That is staggering! How tragic to miss the entire point by obsessing over Jesus’ gender, as if that matters the least little bit.

You ask “Why does an all male priesthood matter?” I don’t think it does. I think in modern society an all male priesthood is a harmful practice. Looking at the damage it has done to the reputation of the Catholic Church should be proof enough of that. Although I am not Roman Catholic, I certainly don’t wish the Church of Rome any harm. Nobody speaks for Christianity with a louder megaphone than the Pope, and, surprisingly often, that’s a good thing. But you’re destroying every Christian’s reputation. Claiming that Christ can only be respresented by a secretive all-boys club that looks out for its sinful members makes it really hard to present Christianity as a credibly virtuous institution in an increasingly anti-religious world.
I propose you are projecting your obsession onto Catholicism. At any rate, I can see you have an interest in standing on a soap box, which isn’t dialogue. Here to “fix” the whole of Christianity, if only those papists would get it right?

Have a good evening.
 
If all you can do is call people names, you’re unworthy of the debate. Sorry that I won’t respond any further. I have to assume my original post hit too close to home. God bless you.
I saw no name calling. I am assuming the real arguments were too much for you. You leave one splinter to join another and believe all is hunky dory

very odd
 
I could never be Episcopalian. I would have a hard time belonging to a church that has it very original origins in a King’s desire to divorce someone to have sex with another.

But that is just me.
 
I propose you are projecting your obsession onto Catholicism. At any rate, I can see you have an interest in standing on a soap box, which isn’t dialogue. Here to “fix” the whole of Christianity, if only those papists would get it right?
“Papists”? Wow – no need to get defensive or put words in my mouth. That’s not a word I would ever use. The facts speak for themselves. An all-male celibate priesthood is an objective mistake, a bad policy that should be abandoned. And I’m not out to “fix the whole of Christianity”; Christianity is taking care of itself quite nicely. 60% of American Catholics favor the ordination of women, and unless those believers leave the church, it’s unlikely that this number is going to decrease.

You never did respond to any of my actual arguments. Why is Jesus’ maleness fundamentally connected to his divinity in a way that femaleness never could be? Why pick out maleness as the sole decisive attribute, rather than his ethnicity or language background, that all priests need to mimic? These are valid questions to which there is no answer.

By teaching that only males can be the vehicle of holy things, you have allowed a cultural bias to overturn the principle in Genesis that men and women are both created in the image of God.

We no longer live in a world where most people are unprepared to accept ministry from a woman. It’s only a matter of time before the Church abandons gender-based ordination, and that “infallible” doctrine goes the way of other “infallible” teachings like Unam Sanctam, into the bin reserved for retired and outdated teaching.
 
“Papists”? Wow – no need to get defensive or put words in my mouth. That’s not a word I would ever use. The facts speak for themselves. An all-male celibate priesthood is an objective mistake, a bad policy that should be abandoned. And I’m not out to “fix the whole of Christianity”; Christianity is taking care of itself quite nicely. 60% of American Catholics favor the ordination of women, and unless those believers leave the church, it’s unlikely that this number is going to decrease.

You never did respond to any of my actual arguments. Why is Jesus’ maleness fundamentally connected to his divinity in a way that femaleness never could be? Why pick out maleness as the sole decisive attribute, rather than his ethnicity or language background, that all priests need to mimic? These are valid questions to which there is no answer.

By teaching that only males can be the vehicle of holy things, you have allowed a cultural bias to overturn the principle in Genesis that men and women are both created in the image of God.

We no longer live in a world where most people are unprepared to accept ministry from a woman. It’s only a matter of time before the Church abandons gender-based ordination, and that “infallible” doctrine goes the way of other “infallible” teachings like Unam Sanctam, into the bin reserved for retired and outdated teaching.
ah…so you believe in a “majority Rules” God.

Interesting.

I guess God needs to start reading polls.
 
“Papists”? Wow – no need to get defensive or put words in my mouth. That’s not a word I would ever use. The facts speak for themselves. An all-male celibate priesthood is an objective mistake, a bad policy that should be abandoned. And I’m not out to “fix the whole of Christianity”; Christianity is taking care of itself quite nicely. 60% of American Catholics favor the ordination of women, and unless those believers leave the church, it’s unlikely that this number is going to decrease.

You never did respond to any of my actual arguments. Why is Jesus’ maleness fundamentally connected to his divinity in a way that femaleness never could be? Why pick out maleness as the sole decisive attribute, rather than his ethnicity or language background, that all priests need to mimic? These are valid questions to which there is no answer.

By teaching that only males can be the vehicle of holy things, you have allowed a cultural bias to overturn the principle in Genesis that men and women are both created in the image of God.

We no longer live in a world where most people are unprepared to accept ministry from a woman. It’s only a matter of time before the Church abandons gender-based ordination, and that “infallible” doctrine goes the way of other “infallible” teachings like Unam Sanctam, into the bin reserved for retired and outdated teaching.
so, if it was reported next week that 60% now believe that Jesus was not really God…would you jump on that bandwagon, too?
 
You never did respond to any of my actual arguments. Why is Jesus’ maleness fundamentally connected to his divinity in a way that femaleness never could be? Why pick out maleness as the sole decisive attribute, rather than his ethnicity or language background, that all priests need to mimic? These are valid questions to which there is no answer.
but there are answers. That is the cool thing about being Catholic.

It is just sad how Protestantism has rejected one Christian teaching after the next to be “modern” that they are not able to stand up to sin without looking foolish. Then non-Christians lump the Catholic Church in their foolishness.
 
so, if it was reported next week that 60% now believe that Jesus was not really God…would you jump on that bandwagon, too?
They have rejected the teachings of St. Paul to have a “modern” clergy, so rejecting Christ’s divinity could also be put up for a vote.
 
They have rejected the teachings of St. Paul to have a “modern” clergy, so rejecting Christ’s divinity could also be put up for a vote.
I guess a religion tht does that would be pretty cool. Pretty soon, there would be votes to have polygamy and other stuff…

oh wait…that has already happened…
 
I don’t think you can distinguish that easily between arbitrary tradition and prejudice on the one hand, and an “unchanging moral law” on the other. The “arbitrary tradition” that led first generation Christians to regard gentiles as impure and unclean was rooted in Scripture; if you weren’t circumcised, you weren’t among God’s people. The OT is quite clear on that. But the Church began, slowly, to understand that this moral law needed to be changed. And it was changed. (And by James, not Peter… but that’s another story. 🙂
If you are a moral voluntarist that believes the good is whatever God says it is and can change, then morality truly is arbitrary from our perspective, but if the good is unchanging as God is, then it may be possible to discover a litmus test of sorts by which one is able to discern between prejudice and actual immorality. Compare a person’s race or sexual orientation, and and the actual act of homosexual sex for instance. In the case of the first two there is no action taking place; a person cannot help their race or sexual orientation and there is no action taking place that can be called moral or immoral, therefore excluding someone solely based on something they can’t help would be wrong. That being said, a person can choose whether or not to engage in a sexual act. Because there is an action taking place morality comes into play. It can be asked whether the action is good, bad, or neutral. How to determine “the good” is a big topic in itself and I will not go into it here. I believe I have demonstrated the distinction between non-moral factors and moral factors.
What “unchanging moral law” are Christians under? The unchanging moral law is this: Love your neighbor as yourself, and do unto others as you would have others do unto you.
In the context of early 21st century society, you have to really split hairs to maintain the anti-gay position. The argument that “we don’t condone violence or prejudice against gay people, but we do maintain that they are evil, wicked and far more sinful than we are,” is a dangerously precarious position. “Discriminate against them but don’t hate them” is an incoherent stand.
This is a complete straw man. The Catholic Church does not hold that gay people are any more evil, wicked, and sinful than anyone else. I am called to see myself as the chief of sinners. Further, “Love your neighbor as yourself” is not synonymous with “allow your neighbor to live as they please and don’t oppose their lifestyle.” Our opposition to evil comes from love. We oppose cancer because we love those it afflicts. Likewise we oppose immoral sexual acts because of the effect such practices have on society and the individual, and we love society and the individual.
These men – thousands upon thousands of them – find that desires that should be able to express themselves in open and loving relationships and even marriage, can only be expressed in secrecy or, far worse, in abusive situations.
Why exactly should they be able to express such desires? What is your moral basis?
Yes, but when you say “God became man in Jesus Christ,” do you mean God became incarnate as a human being, or God put on a beard, a deep voice, and a penis?
I think it is obviously both.
Jesus was not simply a man; he was an Aramaic-speaking Jewish man. Should we conclude that all priests and bishops need to be Aramaic-speaking Jewish men?
It comes down to a question of necessary and accidental attributes and which category Jesus’ masculinity falls into. Would the fundamental nature of who Jesus is, God and man, be changed simply because his ethnicity and language change? Absolutely not, since he would still maintain what it is to be divine and what it is to be man. Would instead being God and woman change his nature? This depends on whether you believe a person’s sex makes them distinct from the opposite sex in ways extending beyond appearance.
If someone has never been around ordained women, I can totally understand how it would freak them out. It’s new. It’s unusual. It’s awkward if you haven’t seen it before. It’s like watching a birth for the first time. You’ll see God can come crashing into our lives in ways that surprise us.
I was Episcopalian for a year. Seeing women as pastors does not intimidate me or make me feel uncomfortable. I also do not deny that God can come crashing into our lives through women. The only question to ask here is whether women ought to be priests. Here is another link on the matter from C.S. Lewis:

episcopalnet.org/TRACTS/priestesses.html
 
“Papists”? Wow – no need to get defensive or put words in my mouth. That’s not a word I would ever use. The facts speak for themselves. An all-male celibate priesthood is an objective mistake, a bad policy that should be abandoned. And I’m not out to “fix the whole of Christianity”; Christianity is taking care of itself quite nicely. 60% of American Catholics favor the ordination of women, and unless those believers leave the church, it’s unlikely that this number is going to decrease.

You never did respond to any of my actual arguments. Why is Jesus’ maleness fundamentally connected to his divinity in a way that femaleness never could be? Why pick out maleness as the sole decisive attribute, rather than his ethnicity or language background, that all priests need to mimic? These are valid questions to which there is no answer.

By teaching that only males can be the vehicle of holy things, you have allowed a cultural bias to overturn the principle in Genesis that men and women are both created in the image of God.

We no longer live in a world where most people are unprepared to accept ministry from a woman. It’s only a matter of time before the Church abandons gender-based ordination, and that “infallible” doctrine goes the way of other “infallible” teachings like Unam Sanctam, into the bin reserved for retired and outdated teaching.
Celibacy became the governing rule of religious because of the first great “priestly sex scandals” of the early Middle Ages–where adultery and concubinage were cultural norms and evidence of manhood and priests, being products of their culture, were tempted. Celibacy has served the Church well–but remember that it is a discipline, not a dogma. It is subject to change, though change is improbable.

Ordination of women, on the other hand, has been dogmatically define as impossible, just as it is dogmatically impossible for a validly-married person to receive a divorce and thereafter remarry while his/her spouse yet lives.

The Church has not changed it’s dogma on marriage and divorce in five hundred years. She has willingly allowed those who reject Her teaching to depart from Her and place themselves in danger of eternal damnation.

She has faced ridicule and persecution in many times and places for standing up for what She knows to be supernaturally revealed eternal Truths. Unlike the LDS Church, which on two well-known ocaisions, caved after two decades of active persecution (in the case of plural marriage), and two decades of fairly mild ridicule (in the case of admitting Blacks to the LDS Priesthood).

Why imagine you that the Roman Catholic Church will change, now, for you?

And what has any of this to do with the topic of why persons may have left the Mormon Church?
 
“Papists”? Wow – no need to get defensive or put words in my mouth. That’s not a word I would ever use. The facts speak for themselves. An all-male celibate priesthood is an objective mistake, a bad policy that should be abandoned. And I’m not out to “fix the whole of Christianity”; Christianity is taking care of itself quite nicely. 60% of American Catholics favor the ordination of women, and unless those believers leave the church, it’s unlikely that this number is going to decrease.
Your arguments are obviously the same as any who would call us papist. Rooted in the same place.

I am not that easily influenced by popular media. You, like the media, are focusing on a small percentage of priests. I hope one day you meet a good man, who has chosen to serve God. Maybe then you’ll stop lumping every priest into a stereotype that doesn’t match to reality.

I also think you are making a correlation that isn’t a causation. All you need to do is look at the world outside of Catholicism. Then explain how celibacy causes sexual abuse. Sin is more complicated than that. I see your argument the same as those who would say homosexuality is the cause of the priest scandal. The statistics are clear, the abuse was by far a male preying on a male. Should I believe homosexuality causes sexual abuse? (I don’t, by the way.)

If sin is your measurement of what should be abandoned, then the whole of humanity should be abandoned, no? None are without sin. But we have not been abandoned. While it is the Protestant temptation to say Christ has left His Church, it is not the understanding of Salvation for Catholics. Our sins haven’t scared God off. Christ died for us while we were still sinners.
You never did respond to any of my actual arguments. Why is Jesus’ maleness fundamentally connected to his divinity in a way that femaleness never could be? Why pick out maleness as the sole decisive attribute, rather than his ethnicity or language background, that all priests need to mimic? These are valid questions to which there is no answer.
I would think the answer is obvious. Cultural practices are not the same as gender, which is not a cultural practice but a reality of who Jesus is. So I ask again, should I be offended that God became Man? Do you think God went eenie meenie miney moe, I pick, male!
By teaching that only males can be the vehicle of holy things, you have allowed a cultural bias to overturn the principle in Genesis that men and women are both created in the image of God.
No Catholic believes only males are the vehicle of holy things. Why would you? I also recommend that you delve deeper in the doctrine of the communion of saints.
We no longer live in a world where most people are unprepared to accept ministry from a woman. It’s only a matter of time before the Church abandons gender-based ordination, and that “infallible” doctrine goes the way of other “infallible” teachings like Unam Sanctam, into the bin reserved for retired and outdated teaching.
I doubt it. The Catholic Church doesn’t change because culture changes.
 
Perhaps an odd question, but I am curious, since the mormans have to go on mission. Do they physically have to go somewhere, or can they use media.

For example, with the internet, can ‘mission’ be coming to CAF or facebook to defend / explain for x amount of time.

Thanks,
 
Perhaps an odd question, but I am curious, since the mormans have to go on mission. Do they physically have to go somewhere, or can they use media.

For example, with the internet, can ‘mission’ be coming to CAF or facebook to defend / explain for x amount of time.

Thanks,
Most go somewhere, some even come to Salt Lake City. I saw a pair walking down my street yesterday.

They also have missionary callings that are local to where they live. These are mainly retired LDS who serve missions, which is basically a commitment to volunteering in some aspect of the LDS church for 18 months. As an example, my parents were missionaries who worked at an LDS job training center, very close to their home.

There are missionaries who are online. Mormon.org has an area where you can ask questions, with a live person answering on the other end. The live person on the other is an LDS missionary.

As for places like CAF, specifically, I haven’t heard of a mission calling to internet forums. However, all LDS have been advised to get on the internet and proselytize. There are LDS-centric websites with ideas and methods for any LDS to use in proselytizing online. An example is moregoodfoundantion.org, which actively runs a large number of LDS websites in English, Spanish, Portuguese and Italian.
 
I could never be Episcopalian. I would have a hard time belonging to a church that has it very original origins in a King’s desire to divorce someone to have sex with another.
As we both know, his desire was to have a male heir. And it was not, of course, a divorce; it was an annulment – and annulments were routinely granted by the Catholic Church in such circumstances, because the purpose of the marriage was to ensure the proper function of the state. In Henry’s case, however, his wife was Catherine of Aragon, daughter of the King of Spain. And Spain was a major financial backer of the Vatican at the time. So the King of Spain intervened and instructed the Pope to block the annulment. The effect was that the King of Spain now had control over the policies of the government of England. Henry rightfully saw this as an unreasonable interference in England’s internal affairs, and turned control of the English church over to English bishops, thus breaking the artificial and unnecessary subordination of the English clergy to Rome.
 
I would think the answer is obvious. Cultural practices are not the same as gender, which is not a cultural practice but a reality of who Jesus is. So I ask again, should I be offended that God became Man? Do you think God went eenie meenie miney moe, I pick, male!
So you are right back to making the argument that maleness more resembles divinity than femaleness does.
No Catholic believes only males are the vehicle of holy things.
As soon as you allow women to confirm and confect the eucharist, I’ll believe you. But no, they have the wrong parts.
The Catholic Church doesn’t change because culture changes.
It has many times and it will continue to do so. It was barely a century ago that the Church was thundering from the pulpits that religious liberty and secular government were crimes against God. Vatican II abolished any possible appeal to the argument that the Catholic Church doesn’t sway with the cultural winds.

Finally, if you would stop systematically misreading what I wrote, you will see that I am not an enemy of Catholicism. If I were, I would be begging you to continue on the current path of scandal and self-immolation.
 
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