Yes,
LilyM, you’re right. But He also expects us to be human & thus to fail & fail a heck of a lot of times before we meet Him face to Face.
But, there is a big difference between inadvertent failure & out-and-out deliberate sin. It seems to me that very many of the posts in this thread are all too quick to accuse
newone of a mortal sin, and to do so is being no different than the Pharisees. Plain & simple: only God is the Judge.
In addition, I don’t believe that in any of my posts I advocated that
newone should not confess it. If I had received Communion in exactly the same circumstances, I would have confessed it. But I would not have deemed it to be a mortal sin since no sacrilege, nor mortal sin, was intended.
From the Catechism:
Q. 282. How many things are necessary to make a sin mortal?
A. To make a sin mortal, three things are necessary: 1.a grievous matter, sufficient reflection, and full consent of the will.
Q. 283. What do we mean by “grievous matter” with regard to sin?
A. By “grievous matter” with regard to sin we mean that the thought, word or deed by which mortal sin is committed must be either very bad in itself or severely prohibited, and therefore sufficient to make a mortal sin if we deliberately yield to it.
I find it difficult to believe that so many feel the remnants of milk, which may or may not have remained in the stomach of one who wasn’t even sure how long before he drank it would in any way, manner, shape or form, constitute matter “grievous” enough to be a mortal sin, especially in someone who loves the Lord enough to receive Him in Holy Communion, and who has not stated in any way that he meant any form of disrespect or sacrilege!
Q. 284. What does “sufficient reflection and full consent of the will” mean?
A. “Sufficient reflection” means that we must know the thought, word or deed to be sinful at the time we are guilty of it; and “full consent of the will” means that we must fully and willfully yield to it.
Likewise, I find it hard to believe that the last minute *“Oh gosh! What time exactly did I drink that milk?!?” *as people are lining up to receive Communion, would constitute the “sufficient reflection” needed for a mortal sin. Additionally, when one’s love for the Lord & desire to receive Him is so strong, that might also affect the "full consent of the will needed for a mortal sin.
If I were a priest confessor hearing
newone’s confession, I would judge this to have been a slight offense rather than a major one.
Q. 292. Can slight offenses ever become mortal sins?
A. Slight offenses can become mortal sins if we commit them through defiant contempt for God or His law; and also when they are followed by very evil consequences, which we foresee in committing them.
There isn’t a hint of “defiant contempt for God and His law” in
newone’s post, and I doubt that his receiving the Lord was followed by “very evil consequences”.
However, when in doubt,
Q. 291. Can we always distinguish venial from mortal sin?
A. We cannot always distinguish venial from mortal sin, and in such cases we must leave the decision to our confessor.
Why?
Q. 288. Why is it wrong to judge others guilty of sin?
A. It is wrong to judge others guilty of sin because we cannot know for certain that their sinful act was committed with sufficient reflection and full consent of the will.
Q. 289. What sin does he commit who without sufficient reason believes another guilty of sin?
A. He who without sufficient reason believes another guilty of sin commits a sin of rash judgment.
Newone, I suggest you go to the EWTN Q&A Forum and ask the same question, including the circumstances around it. See what one of the priests there tells you. If they say you committed a mortal sin, I will stand corrected; although I will still lean towards the goodness and mercy of God. Also, as I said, when you do have the opportunity to go to Confession, don’t only say that you didn’t fast for the hour, explain the circumstances. The priest will be able to make the decision of how serious a sin it was, or even it would be considered sinful in such circumstance.
“I wish that my heart could beat, that I could live and breathe only for Jesus, I wish that my tongue could utter no other name than that of Jesus; that my eye could see only Jesus; that my pen could write only about Jesus, and that my thoughts could soar to nothing but Jesus. O Jesus, seek me in love; I no longer possess anything; you have stolen my heart…” -
St. Gemma Galgani