**Centos, youhave been kind in explaining things. May be I missed the points or did not read your post with care. But I have my own problems. I am not joking or trying to disturb you intentionally. I honestly see that you people are not realistic. You have terms which are not real. The terminology that the world is using is different to what you are using. yet you accuse me of shaking / stirring the pot.
Our terms are real. You just don’t understand them. And you refuse to learn what the terms mean.
None of these terms are confusing once you know what they mean. If you continue to refuse to learn, you will always be confused. That is your own fault. There is no fault in Catholic terminology. The fault is in your refusal to learn. **
I do not see any unmarried mothers in the world (except as there are many illegal sinners now available every where). We normally do not expect any un-married father. Do you understand me please. So who is making things complicated (un-real).
Respecting that English may not be your first language, I find it very funny that someone uses the term “illegal sinners”, which has no clear meaning in English, would complain that the word, father, is confusing.
If you use too many unreal terms (relations) then it becomes difficult to understand your system and difficult to discuss with you. You will be taking all sorts of liberty and no use discussing properly.
Well, you are the one discussing our religion. If you want to understand it, you will have to learn what the terms mean and stop insistiing that they mean what you wrongly think they mean. You will have to stop insisting that we have to change our religion because you are confused.
If you are truly confused, study more.
May be I am wrong and I have to understand your point of view. You may present it again.But before that,please tell me, have you understood my point of view.? thanks.