Living in a gay relationship is an arrangement the state chooses to support as one of a number of perfectly fine options (though morally we disagree).
The state is not merely “supporting” gay marriage. It has essentially declared that marriage is a fiction that can be changed by the state. The state used to RECOGNIZE marriage. Now it defines it and legally declares a false “right” to marriage along with authentic marriage. As Catholics, we should not be okay with the state declaring a same-sex sexual union marriage. Marriage and the family are the fundamentals of society.
“Gay Marriage” is not just another option. It is one of the PRIMARY ways in which the radical atheist humanist activists are attacking and undermining Christianity. You simply are not allowed to even suggest you don’t approve of same-sex marriage, lest you risk your livelihood and social standing.
If I owned a rental property (and I don’t mean a granny flat in my back yard), I would find it hard to find a basis to rule out gay couples because they’re gay. The people need to live somewhere.
What if it was a father and daughter having an incestuous relationship? Or a polyamorous group, were the whole group, men and women were sleeping with each other?
Yes, people need to live somewhere, and I personally would probably not bar someone from renting my property because they lived a homosexual lifestyle. But being gay is a CHOICE. And if a landlord simply doesn’t like someone, he has a natural right to deny that person the use of his property. Now, if there were only one or two properties in town- that would be a different matter. That would fall into monopolistic behavior.
Anyway, good ruling mostly. I have a gay son and he and his husband have run into minor issues before but nothing crazy.
I say this respectfully and charitably: Your son is gay because he chooses to be gay. It is a choice. He may not be able to choose his disordered attraction, but he can choose to reject it and travel the better path. As his father, it is your job to spiritually support your son, no matter what age, which also means letting him know that his current lifestyle is wrong and will being him great suffering and negative emotional, psychological and spiritual consequences. That doesn’t mean turning him away. I don’t think a parent should ever turn a child away. But if you truly believe in a moral God that is anything like the Christian God, then it is your duty to at least advise him and lend him support to get on the right path towards God.
I don’t believe any business has the right to discriminate against anyone (a baker shouldn’t be able to deny service to a gay couple, since the wedding cake they order is just a wedding cake, not a gay wedding cake).
If your a business owner and a customer with a bad attitude walks in the door and demands a cake, do you have to make it? What if he has a nice attitude, but just wants you to contribute to something you want no part in, like the Planned Parenthood Abortion Milestone Party, which wants a cake with little baby parts decorating it and a a pair of forceps sticking out from it.
Most business owners want business and they aren’t eager to reject customers without reason, including those who live the homosexual lifestyle. However, there is a line that conscientious people don’t cross: When you’re asked to use your skills to put out a message you fundamentally, morally disagree with. It’s not the cake. It’s how its decorated. And its about your simple freedom as an individual, as a business, especially a small business which reflects the owner a lot more than big businesses, to reject service for whatever reason to whoever you don’t want to serve.
Serving customers is not compulsory, it’s a right- a right that is violated when certain groups say “No, you MUST serve me, whether you like it or not- otherwise I will have the government shut you down, fine you or put you in jail!” This is an aggressive and uncalled for use of force. You are forced by the government to start a bakery. If the government has no moral or legal right to force you to open a bakery, or any other business, at all, then what on Earth gives it the moral right to force you to serve any particular group, make any particular pastry or decorate in any particular way??
Not the same as businesses, which remain operational thanks to tax dollars that fund the infrastructure, water and electricity that the local citizens pay for, including LGBT ones.
So your argument is that because business receive benefits from the taxes that they and others pay that they should be forced to adhere to the government’s business ideology and serve products the way in which, and to whom which, the government feels they should? In that case, then wouldn’t that apply to everyone, since we all “benefit” from general government welfare? But then, that means that the government gets to control you just because they manage all the resources. I suggest you rethink this argument.