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Saturday night my guy friend and his cousin decided to go out to this club nearby our area… there’s a couple other bars all right by eachother, so we figure if one is not fun we go to another.
First, we went to this little local bar that has a small dance floor but there was nothing fun going on so we left and went to the other club that is more popular. It was fine at first, but later on it was just getting annoying so I told my friends I was just going to go to this local bar across the street by myself. I kept telling them to just stay it’s not a big deal, i was planning on probably coming back but I just wanted to get out by myself for a little bit bc I wanetd to switch up the atmosphere a little i guess. Anyway, they ended up just following me and came into where I wanted to go. We were having fun in there, until near the end of the night (note: there was a bar fight that they had announced but I did not see it). We ignored it. My friend and his cousin were on the dance floor , but I was just standing watching people dance. I was not looking at them, but all of a sudden I see his cousin holding my friend by the arm and the bouncers talking to him. I was confused, so right when I look at my friend I see a huge black eye. Some random guy just punched him for apparently no reason at all. Anyway, we left and we were all in shock this happened. I was telling him I felt bad because it was my choice to go there. I went to a 24-hour supermarket and got some things to help his eye.
I called him the next day and kept checking up to see how he was doing. I never realized it until today, but he was trying to actually make me feel worse about the whole incident. For example, he texted me a picture of his eye and said “ouch”… I responded with just telling him to use the witch hazel and patches… but he didn’t respond. I told him i felt horrible, and he said “it’s okay”…Later on at night, he tells me the doctor says he might need plastic surgery in the future if it does not go back to normal (but I realize now that I think he said this on purpose, bc honestly his eye was not that bad, i don’t see how any doctor would say he would need plastic surgery). He kept saying things to make me feel bad i feel like.
I didn’t think anything of it, but today I asked if he went to work and he said “no”. I called him and wanted to see why, and he told it’s “none of your damn busienss”. I said, “ok, i’m just asking”… and than he said " i don’t want to ralk to you right now" in a mean voice. and i said “why” , but he didn’t say so I just said “ok” and hung up. A minute later, he texts me a pic of inside his eye and it’s all red and he says “thank you” I started crying because i do feel bad when i saw that, but also because of the fact that he was trying to make me feel bad, when it was not my fault.
What do you all think about this situation? Does anyone think I did anything wrong?
First, we went to this little local bar that has a small dance floor but there was nothing fun going on so we left and went to the other club that is more popular. It was fine at first, but later on it was just getting annoying so I told my friends I was just going to go to this local bar across the street by myself. I kept telling them to just stay it’s not a big deal, i was planning on probably coming back but I just wanted to get out by myself for a little bit bc I wanetd to switch up the atmosphere a little i guess. Anyway, they ended up just following me and came into where I wanted to go. We were having fun in there, until near the end of the night (note: there was a bar fight that they had announced but I did not see it). We ignored it. My friend and his cousin were on the dance floor , but I was just standing watching people dance. I was not looking at them, but all of a sudden I see his cousin holding my friend by the arm and the bouncers talking to him. I was confused, so right when I look at my friend I see a huge black eye. Some random guy just punched him for apparently no reason at all. Anyway, we left and we were all in shock this happened. I was telling him I felt bad because it was my choice to go there. I went to a 24-hour supermarket and got some things to help his eye.
I called him the next day and kept checking up to see how he was doing. I never realized it until today, but he was trying to actually make me feel worse about the whole incident. For example, he texted me a picture of his eye and said “ouch”… I responded with just telling him to use the witch hazel and patches… but he didn’t respond. I told him i felt horrible, and he said “it’s okay”…Later on at night, he tells me the doctor says he might need plastic surgery in the future if it does not go back to normal (but I realize now that I think he said this on purpose, bc honestly his eye was not that bad, i don’t see how any doctor would say he would need plastic surgery). He kept saying things to make me feel bad i feel like.
I didn’t think anything of it, but today I asked if he went to work and he said “no”. I called him and wanted to see why, and he told it’s “none of your damn busienss”. I said, “ok, i’m just asking”… and than he said " i don’t want to ralk to you right now" in a mean voice. and i said “why” , but he didn’t say so I just said “ok” and hung up. A minute later, he texts me a pic of inside his eye and it’s all red and he says “thank you” I started crying because i do feel bad when i saw that, but also because of the fact that he was trying to make me feel bad, when it was not my fault.
What do you all think about this situation? Does anyone think I did anything wrong?
