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Do I have to receive communion every Sunday? I enjoy attending mass, for the most part, but I feel unsafe receiving communion. Since I’m a regular, everyone stares at me because I don’t go up to receive the Body of Christ. I’m wondering if what I’m doing is wrong by not going up. I can’t do it, I just can’t.
 
I see no reason why people would stare at you. :confused:

It is in fact forbidden to take the holy communion If you are in a state of willfull unconfessed mortal sin. So whenever I see someone who usually participates all of the sudden stay behind I see that they know what they’re doing.

I don’t have a source link but I read somewhere that as long as you recieve the eucharist twice a year its fine and I like it that way. 👍

Blessing to you
 
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I see no reason why people would stare at you. :confused:

It is in fact forbidden to take the holy communion If you are in a state of willfull unconfessed mortal sin. So whenever I see someone who usually participates all of the sudden stay behind I see that they know what they’re doing.

I don’t have a source link but I read somewhere that as long as you recieve the eucharist twice a year its fine and I like it that way. 👍

Blessing to you
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Thank you for the kind response. This may sound like a strange question and I’ve tried searching for it but haven’t found anything on this. During the two times a year that I receive communion, is it possible to receive a form of the Eucharist while being unconscious? My fear is to be aware and receive the Eucharist.
 
longingtobefree said:
Do I have to receive communion every Sunday? I enjoy attending mass, for the most part, but I feel unsafe receiving communion. Since I’m a regular, everyone stares at me because I don’t go up to receive the Body of Christ. I’m wondering if what I’m doing is wrong by not going up. I can’t do it, I just can’t.
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The Church strongly recommends you receive Communion often (assuming you are in a state of grace) but you are only required to receive Communion once a year during the Easter period.
Frankly, though I don’t see how the Host presents any unsafe scenario. I am curious to know what you feel is unsafe about that.
 
For most people, who are in the state of grace, would love to receive the Eucharist. It’s more of a phobia that I have.
 
thistle said:
The Church strongly recommends you receive Communion often (assuming you are in a state of grace) but you are only required to receive Communion once a year during the Easter period.
Frankly, though I don’t see how the Host presents any unsafe scenario. I am curious to know what you feel is unsafe about that.
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For most people, who are in the state of grace, would love to receive the Eucharist. It’s more of a phobia that I have.
 
longingtobefree said:
For most people, who are in the state of grace, would love to receive the Eucharist. It’s more of a phobia that I have.
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This may be a medical condition or an evil spirit oppressing you. I would first pray to ou Lord for protection and for your healing. Then talk with your pastor about it. But you may need to receive medical attention, if it is a phobia.

I will pray for you, friend. This is an obsticle in your journey which God. It is not a problem for our Lord. 🙂

Peace be with you,
Michael
 
longingtobefree said:
For most people, who are in the state of grace, would love to receive the Eucharist. It’s more of a phobia that I have.
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Have you discussed this with your priest? Maybe he would have some suggestions to help you with this.
 
Sweet friend, are you certain everybody is staring at you? I think it is more likely that you have that impression but it is likely untrue. Not that I am challenging your validity, just trying to assure and comfort you. We are all brothers and sisters in this one Lord. If you are unfit to receive, the most respect you can give our Lord is abstaining from receiving Him!

God bless you in your journey.
 
When I still was able to attend Mass I did recieve Communion two times a week.

As many did answer you, if not in state of a mortal sin it is OK to recieve Communion many times during the week.

Dear OP,
if you feel shy or are afraid of doing something wrong, don’t worry, easy to say, I know, but that is the truth though. Just join the line, pray if you want, and think about what God will give you, the very Flesh and Blood of Christ, our Savior, and thank Him. I don’t know about the custom in US but in Finland, and I know that it vary from country to contry, is to hold your right hand with your left and then let the priest put the bread in your right hand, pick it up using your left hand and eat, and don’t forget to say “Amen” when you recieve it, and then to vine, which by now is Christ Blood as The Bread is His Flesch, take the chalice with both hands and take a sip, and don’t forget to say “Amen”. So don’t feel shy or be afraid, if you are in state of grace it is OK to recieve it.
 
It sounds wise that you should speak to your priest about this.

The Eucharist, Jesus’ presence in Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity is the source and summit of our Christian life. He loves us so much and wants us to receive Him, love Him back, and be blessed with His grace.
 
longingtobefree said:
Thank you for the kind response. This may sound like a strange question and I’ve tried searching for it but haven’t found anything on this. During the two times a year that I receive communion, is it possible to receive a form of the Eucharist while being unconscious? My fear is to be aware and receive the Eucharist.
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If it is phobic problem, may be that you are afraid people bring attention to yourself so you don’t go?
 
You’re not alone. I wasn’t confused about anything in life until I came back to Catholicism. Now I’m in an identity crisis and don’t know right from wrong anymore. Thanks, JC. :hypno:

I don’t take the Eucharist either, for obvious reasons, and yes, people do stare. If you can resist the urge to punch them in the face, you’re on the right track. I think.
 
I know about fear. Focus on the actual fear. Forget about what those folks may be thinking. You could be staying in the pew because you’re not fasting, but it’s really no one’s business. Your only obligation is receiving Holy Communion once “during the Easter time”. Start going to daily mass and talk to the priest about receiving in your pew. Or in that more intimate setting you might feel safe enough to go up with the others in the line.
 
I know it’s a psychiatric problem; but, there’s really no medication to control it. I dissociate during mass, especially during the consecration. I was part of a satanic ritual, well rituals, when I was little.For the longest time, my family thought I was possessed because I feared the Eucharist so much. It’s the imagery during the victimization that scares me and some of the triggers are the Eucharist, certain sounds,candles, and vessels that remind me of it. Every time I go to mass, I’m afraid to dissociate and create a scene because sometimes I don’t have flashbacks, and other times some are worse than others. The priest I tried talking to was from Nigeria, I don’t know if he misunderstood what I was trying to tell him and there was a language barrier, but I think he thought I didn’t want to go to mass at all. It’s kind of a difficult situation when you have DID and PTSD.
 
longingtobefree said:
I know it’s a psychiatric problem; but, there’s really no medication to control it. I dissociate during mass, especially during the consecration. I was part of a satanic ritual, well rituals, when I was little.For the longest time, my family thought I was possessed because I feared the Eucharist so much. It’s the imagery during the victimization that scares me and some of the triggers are the Eucharist, certain sounds,candles, and vessels that remind me of it. Every time I go to mass, I’m afraid to dissociate and create a scene because sometimes I don’t have flashbacks, and other times some are worse than others. The priest I tried talking to was from Nigeria, I don’t know if he misunderstood what I was trying to tell him and there was a language barrier, but I think he thought I didn’t want to go to mass at all. It’s kind of a difficult situation when you have DID and PTSD.
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My heart bleeds with compassion for you. I take it that you have confessed your sins in the sacrament of reconciliation and turned your life back to God. You have been weakened by your satanic experiences and you, of all people, need the strength of Jesus in you to help you stay on the right path. Your soul was wounded by your experiences and you need the Doctor Jesus to heal your wounds. If I were you I would attend Mass daily and receive Jesus as often as possible. I once was in Mass and debated whether or not I should receive and I heard a voice speak to me and say, “I AM your judge, what are you afraid of?” The One who gave His life to save you is your judge. He is kind and compassionate toward the wounded sinner. Frequent confession and communion for Jesus is your savior! If anyone understands trauma, it is Jesus! Come to Him as you are and trust Him to lift you upon His shoulders.
 
longingtobefree said:
I know it’s a psychiatric problem; but, there’s really no medication to control it. I dissociate during mass, especially during the consecration. I was part of a satanic ritual, well rituals, when I was little.For the longest time, my family thought I was possessed because I feared the Eucharist so much. It’s the imagery during the victimization that scares me and some of the triggers are the Eucharist, certain sounds,candles, and vessels that remind me of it. Every time I go to mass, I’m afraid to dissociate and create a scene because sometimes I don’t have flashbacks, and other times some are worse than others. The priest I tried talking to was from Nigeria, I don’t know if he misunderstood what I was trying to tell him and there was a language barrier, but I think he thought I didn’t want to go to mass at all. It’s kind of a difficult situation when you have DID and PTSD.
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Dear one,

You have revealed something in your above message which sounds like it is the source of your problem. I don’t want to question you about details, but discuss the “being part of satanic rituals” with your priest, and if he does not understand you then contact the chancery office and explain your problem. The Lord wants to rid you of these fears due to what you were exposed to when you were little.
 
You could try speaking to the Priest again and ask if he would administer the Blessed Sacrament to you right after Mass, after everyone has left.(which should be possible since you have already heard the readings and the Gospel)
 
One other thought on this subject: If the people are judging you, let them. Their judgement does not matter, and they WILL be judged accordingly by the One that actually DOES matter.
 
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