I have written
a short series on the homily on my blog. There are three posts, and they cover who can give it, when it should be given, and what its purpose is. You might want to check it out; it is simply a collection of various excerpts from Church documents (such as
Redemptionis Sacramentum – abbreviated as RS – and the General Instruction of the Roman Missal – abbreviated as GIRM) that answer the questions. There is virtually no opinion in the posts, simply Church law and teachings.
If there is no deacon, the Book of Gospels may be processed in at the beginning of Mass by a lector (and placed on the altar).
Purple is the correct color, blue is incorrect, but I’m sure you knew that already.
The Eucharistic Prayer is reserved solely to the priest. It is an abuse to permit the laity to recite part of it (cf.
RS, n. 52).
Glass is not permitted (cf.
RS, n. 117).
TOTALLY INAPPROPRIATE, as it is an abuse directly against the Precious Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ. This practice “is completely to be avoided, lest anything should happen that would be to the detriment of so great a mystery” (
RS, n. 106).
There is a “Book of Blessings”, and I’m sure it contains such things… however, these types of things (in my opinion) are best done privately, or, if the must happen at Mass, after the prayer after Communion (when announcements are to be given).
The presence of extra people in the Sanctuary is frowned upon; only those people who need to be in there should be there, and only then when they are needed. There is nothing that calls for the altar to be kissed by anyone other than the priest and deacon (cf. GIRM 49, 90). There is no reason for them to be kissing the altar.
Wrong.
Ugh. Very wrong. At the very least, kneeling is required during the Eucharistic Prayer, as well as during the line “By the power of the Holy Spirit, he was born of the Virgin Mary, and became man” during the Creed on Christmas and Easter.
Regarding the content of her “homily”… she’s “looking for [hope] in all the wrong places”. Perhaps she should read the Holy Father’s latest encyclical,
Spe Salvi, in which he writes about the only true and lasting hope humans can have. Instead, she talked about giving people false hopes: letting them do things that break the rules, which they then become accustomed to, and when that rule is finally enforced, they feel hurt because they can no longer do the thing they liked; letting them embrace their sins despite what the Church says, because people support their sinful lifestyles; making people think “old church documents” (like… the Bible, maybe?) are not useful anymore and can and should be supplanted by newer, modern, liberal documents; and finally, by giving them the wrong impression about the rules and regulations of the Church today (such as that only the ordained may give homilies).