Filipina cancer mother sacrificed life for unborn baby

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LONDON (AFP) - A British-based Filipina mother who found out she had cancer after becoming pregnant sacrificed her life for her unborn baby by refusing an abortion and chemotherapy, a British newspaper said last Friday.

Devout Catholic Bernadette Mimura known as Milai shunned the potentially life-saving treatment because doctors told her it would kill the child, regional daily the Northern Echo reported.

The 37-year-old, who lived near Stockton-on-Tees, northeast England, with her British partner, Adam Taylor, survived long enough to see the birth of their son, Nathan.

But soon after seeing him baptised, she was transferred to a hospice and died about a week later.

“Being a Catholic, for her abortion was out of the question,” Taylor told the newspaper. “It was a tough decision but the decision was we could not give up on Nathan.”

The youngster now four-months-old was premature but was born fit and healthy.

The baby, whose mother was given a mild form of chemotherapy to suppress her breast cancer, had to be induced after she developed complications.

Priest Alan Sheridan, who performed the baptism, told Britain’s domestic Press Asssociation news agency: "Bernadette said the most important thing was the birth of her baby and she would not do anything to harm him.

"Having an abortion was never a consideration. I know she talked it over with Adam and because she was a Catholic, there was no way she would have done it.

“She had to judge which life was more important and she just prayed there would be a cure for cancer.”

Sheridan is spearheading an appeal to raise 3,700 pounds (5,492 euros, 6,490 dollars) to repatriate Mimura’s body to the Philippines for burial.

Money left over will help her other three children from a first marriage.

The priest said he hoped the Manila government would help with a grant to fly the three youngsters from Britain for the ceremony.
 
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LONDON (AFP) — A British-based Filipina mother who found out she had cancer after becoming pregnant sacrificed her life for her unborn baby by refusing an abortion and chemotherapy, a British newspaper said Friday.

Devout catholic Bernadette Mimura — known as Milai — shunned the potentially life-saving treatment because doctors told her it would kill the child, regional daily the Northern Echo reported.

The 37-year-old, who lived near Stockton-on-Tees, northeast England, with her British partner, Adam Taylor, survived long enough to see the birth of their son, Nathan.

But soon after seeing him baptized, she was transferred to a hospice and died about a week later.

“Being a Catholic, for her abortion was out of the question,” Taylor told the newspaper. “It was a tough decision but the decision was we could not give up on Nathan.”

The youngster — now four months old — was premature but was born fit and healthy.

The baby, whose mother was given a mild form of chemotherapy to suppress her breast cancer, had to be induced after she developed complications.

Priest Alan Sheridan, who performed the baptism, told Britain’s domestic Press Association news agency: "Bernadette said the most important thing was the birth of her baby and she would not do anything to harm him.

"Having an abortion was never a consideration. I know she talked it over with Adam and because she was a Catholic, there was no way she would have done it.

“She had to judge which life was more important and she just prayed there would be a cure for cancer.”

Sheridan is spearheading an appeal to raise 3,700 British pounds ($6,490) to repatriate Mimura’s body to the Philippines for burial. Money left over will help her other three children from a first marriage.

The priest said he hoped the Manila government would help with a grant to fly the three youngsters from Britain for the ceremony.
 
I have a friend who was pregnant and discovered a lump in her breast that was particularly aggressive. She was told to abort however, she is a practicing Catholic and had had numerous miscarriages so she sought a second opinion. She went through chemo and a masectomy while she was pregnant. Her baby is 4 1/2 and fine and so is she.

I wonder why this woman couldn’t have taken the same route and this poor baby wouldn’t be motherless?
 
In the Roman Catholic Church, if a person dies a martyr’s death, doesn’t that martyr’s death automatically make the person a Saint with a capital “S”? I don’t think the Roman Catholic Church requires miracles in the case of a martyr. I think all it requires is proof that the person died a martyr.
 
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I have a friend who was pregnant and discovered a lump in her breast that was particularly aggressive. She was told to abort however, she is a practicing Catholic and had had numerous miscarriages so she sought a second opinion. She went through chemo and a masectomy while she was pregnant. Her baby is 4 1/2 and fine and so is she.

I wonder why this woman couldn’t have taken the same route and this poor baby wouldn’t be motherless?
Not all breast cancer is alike, so it’s possible that hers wouldn’t have responded to the course of treatment your friend received. The article does say that she was given chemotherapy, though. As for a mastectomy, I don’t really know why this wasn’t looked at as an option, unless the mother decided that the fetal risk in such a procedure was too great. If the cancer had already metastasized, she may have decided that the benefit didn’t outweigh the risk. Who knows?
 
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