Whatever your feelings are as a man or woman is correct for you and your birth gender. There is no right way to feel as a man or woman.
You’re missing something key here.
Their/our feels
ARE this way from birth. The feelings I had since I was born was that I was wrong. I’ve never not questioned the gender I was assigned as a child. The instant I became aware of speech, my parents were horrified at the questions I asked and my mother was a nurse, so it wasn’t just because they were bothered by the medical/anatomy questions. I questioned before I even knew what sex was, how the birds and the bees worked, before anything other than I have this one thing, and others have this other thing between their legs. This persisted through therapy from about the age of 8 until I was kicked out of the house at 18 because I refused to continue the therapy.
I hated my clothes, I hated having to play with the boys, I hated the sports my parents forced me to play, I learned to be quite solitary and distant literally at the age of five. I had one friend of any meaning of the word, and no more for the entirety of my primary/secondary schooling. I have very few happy memories of a child, despite growing up in a relatively normal family otherwise. I tried, thankfully very unsuccessfully, to kill myself at the age of NINE, again at twelve, and again at seventeen.
You are trying to put yourself in our shoes, and that’s noble, but what you’re missing is that since you are not transsexual you can only empathize so far. You cannot speculate on being raised the wrong gender because you weren’t. It’s like trying to speculate on what it’s like to be blind, or deaf, or missing a leg. You can think pretty hard about it, but can you really, honestly, truthfully say you ‘understand’ on any level of meaning?
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Great pun on a typo, it took me a little bit to figure it out! I am getting slower. 
