First Time Attending Mass... Help!

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I’m quoting scripture to show that I am a serious believer who has also studied Scripture and I understand it. Differently, yes, but I understand it. I only asked to see what the opposing view is.

Thank you for making this a safe space in which I can ask valid questions and receive answers, whether or not I choose to accept them as truth.
 
Dude, don’t scare the OP away when she’s asked a perfectly fine question along with some follow up questions.
 
Do you recall the wedding feast at Cana - Mary was aware that they had run out of wine, and she told the servants to “do whatever He tells you.” So ask yourself, did she instruct them? Did she mediate?
 
In the Catholic faith, we believe that when the priest prays the words of consecration, the host and wine are transubstantiated into the true Body and Blood of Christ, under the form of bread and wine. We get this from the Last Supper, and from John 6, I’m not sure of the exact verses since my bible app does not have the numbers of he verses.

“I am the living bread which came down from heaven.
If any man eat of this bread, he shall live for ever: and the bread that I will give is my flesh, for the life of the world.
The Jews therefore strove among themselves, saying: How can this man give us his flesh to eat?
Then Jesus said to them: Amen, amen, I say unto you: except you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, you shall not have life in you.
He that eateth my flesh and drinketh my blood hath everlasting life: and I will raise him up in the last day.

For my flesh is meat indeed: and my blood is drink indeed.
He that eateth my flesh and drinketh my blood abideth in me: and I in him.
As the living Father hath sent me and I live by the Father: so he that eateth me, the same also shall live by me.
This is the bread that came down from heaven. Not as your fathers did eat manna and are dead. He that eateth this bread shall live for ever.
These things he said, teaching in the synagogue, in Capharnaum.

Many therefore of his disciples, hearing it, said: This saying is hard; and who can hear it?
But Jesus, knowing in himself that his disciples murmured at this, said to them: Doth this scandalize you?
If then you shall see the Son of man ascend up where he was before?
It is the spirit that quickeneth: the flesh profiteth nothing. The words that I have spoken to you are spirit and life.
But there are some of you that believe not. For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were that did not believe and who he was that would betray him.
And he said: Therefore did I say to you that no man can come to me, unless it be given him by my Father.
After this, many of his disciples went back and walked no more with him.”

The parts in bold are there for emphasis; Jesus said his flesh was true meat and his blood true drink. Christ was very figurative in his preaching, and had to explain many of his parables. But, when his disciples began to leave, he did not say, “wait kidding I was just using figurative language here let me explain.” He let them go, because he understood that they would find this concept very weird, and not pleasant.

The reason why non-Catholics cannnot receive the Eucharist is because you must believe that it is the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of Christ contained in the Host, which is the wafer of bread after it has been consecrated. The Precious Blood is the wine, and is also the body blood soul and divinity of Christ. If you do not truly believe this, than the you could not have the proper reverance and humility due Him when receiving communion. To be Catholic is to say you believe this.
 
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Thank you for your reply! I seem to have misunderstood, I thought that Mary was supposed to be intercending to God on our behalf. I will have to reconsider and study scripture to adjust to this view. Contrary to some people’s opinions, I am asking with an open mind!
 
At the Mass, they will recite the Lord’s Prayer and everyone might hold hands. Do what you are comfortable with. Just note they will stop after “deliver us from evil.” The Priest will say something, then you will finish with, “for the kingdom and the Power and the glory are yours now and forever.” Also will use the word trespasses instead of debtors. Enjoy the experience.
 
We consider Mary first among saints. But when it comes to the saints, it is not either Jesus or the saints, it is both Jesus AND the saints. After all, we hope to join the communion of saints and be one mystical body with Christ.
 
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I think the OP is sincere. They want to understand proper etiquette for a non-Catholic at Mass. If I were attending a religious service I was not familiar with, I would want to make sure I did not do anything offensive while not compromising my Catholic faith.
 
Catholics use the word “pray” as in the 1300’s type English, where it means to ask. “Pray tell, where have you been?” We ask Mary to pray to God for us, since we believe her to be in heaven, and wouldn’t a mother have the most influence on her son, if she asked him to do something for her, as Mary did at the Wedding of Cana?
 
This is very helpful! Thank you! At my church we do use the word trespass[es/ors] but we don’t have a pause in the middle, so that will be great to know! 🙂
 
it is pretty easy to attend a religious service & follow along with the crowd

even if you don’t believe that particular faith system is “correct”
 
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It comes from 1 Corinthians. For what it is worth, Catholics can’t receive either if they commit a mortal sin or don’t fast an hour before receiving.
 
When you pray for someone you are technically being a mediator.
 
Thank you for this very detailed reply, I appreciate how much time you took to answer me! I think I understand the Catholic view of communion much more clearly now. I suppose the only difference is that I view the act as a symbol or representation of the death of Christ, and a moment of deep self-examination and repentance before accepting it. But this makes it much more understandable as to why everyone is warning me not to take part! I will be respectful and not go forward, but I will still remain reverent and in an attitude of self-examination and repentance. That would be acceptable, I think?
 
I think I’ve accidentally deleted your comment but I don’t know how! I’m so sorry! I’m new to the site and not sure how to undo it. I do appreciate your response!!
 
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