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Would you say something similar to this about the Pope (Alexander VI) who was op;enly living with his mistress and had four children? And what about the bishops who made no move to have him take a leave of absence?
We should really end this conversation now. He is no longer Roman Catholic. He has already joined the Episcopal Church, so he is therefore a heretic and no longer a priest, so let’s all get over it. He is never coming back!!.
 
Would you say something similar to this about the Pope (Alexander VI) who was op;enly living with his mistress and had four children? And what about the bishops who made no move to have him take a leave of absence?
It’s like straining a gnat and swallowing a camel. In today’s language: penny wise and pound foolish. Condemning Fr. Alberto is like arresting a pot smoker and letting a drug dealer go free. The guys at the top break all the rules and no one says anything. That goes for all big institutions. If I can’t pay my mortgage I lose my house. If the bank can’t pay they get all they need from the government.
 
A FEW BRIEF THOUGHTS
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1. Fr. Cutie should have kept his vow of celibacy. However, numerous other priests have violated that vow, some of them with fellow priests or other men, some even exploiting altar boys and such. So, to aim so much abuse at Fr. Cutie seems rather hypocritical, even cruel, especially since so many of those other vow violators were  shielded by the hierarchy until the media finally brought the scandal to public attention.

2. Marriage is a healthy institution created by God. So, once Fr. Cutie had broken his vow, it's best that he does get married. What % of men in today's society experience sex before marriage? Probably 90% or more? I always feel good about those who follow up premarital sex with marriage. What about you?

3. The Episcopal Church (I am not Epsicopalian) has its serious problems like the Catholic Church has. One theory I have is that both groups are especially attractive to gay priests. This is partly because of the aesthetic emphasis on vestments and other rather feminine characteristics. In the case of Catholicism, I also think that a lot of young gays go into the priesthood because they hope it will overcome their same-sex attraction or at least camouflage it. Who asks a Catholic priest why he's not married? Moreover, priests are granted considerable respect and this can be a major pull toward the priesthood. I don't criticize the gay priests who do remain celibate. I'm sure that God honors them, also.
I’m more critical of those bishops and others who did all they could to protect predatory priests and tried to silence, bribe, or even defame victims who dared speak up.
4. Why don't we leave Fr. Cutie alone? His action will be judged fairly by God who understands us better than we understand ourselves. He apparently fell in love, and I find that hard to fault. The world needs a lot more love, even between husbands and wives. May he and his bride have many years of happiness together. He is human, like the rest of others, and let him who is without sin cast the first stone.
 
Bro.JR, OSF: I came from the Philippines, the only country in the Far East with the highest catholic population. But the problem is our catholic faith is inherited from our parents and parents’ parent with no full understanding of the faith. It’s just like a seed sown on a very shallow soil - no deep foundation and can easily be uprooted or die when calamities arrive. A deeper foundation is needed for this faith to survive when being challenged. It bothered me when I saw church buildings of other denominations are growing like mushrooms all over the place - Mormons, Jehovah’s witness, Iglesia ni Kristo, etc. At one point I was even questioning the rationale why the Philippines is sending so many SVD priests to other countries on a mission while the Catholics are losing ground in their own backyard. I remember the late Phil. Senator Benigno Aquino in his speech at the Ohio State University when I was still a student there. This was in reference during the WWII saying, “America was sending American soldiers to Europe to save their cousins, while their own daughters were being raped by the enemies (Japanese) in their own back door”. The Philippines then was a territory of the US. Now I understand, SVD Priests are for missionary work. I don’t intend to go back to formal schooling. I’m too old for that. I already spent over 20 years of my life in college education, though I inquired at Liberty University on their graduate program in theology. I intend to do it informally. I’ll bring video and audio materials from the US as my tools for teaching. With this method I’m sure I’ll be bringing to them the right info from reputable theologians, apologists, bible scholars and missionary priests. I’ll supplement my teaching materials with my basic knowledge of the scripture I acquired during my bible studies. And I can always ask the priest to help us out. I have a lot of teaching materials. I used to teach in informal classes when I was a Rice Specialist. I plan to coordinate with local priests and organize small study groups to discuss important issues in QA format. Probably I’ll start with the priest we sent to the seminary. I believe my experience in Mental Health Nursing will help me cope and understand the ups and downs of this mission. I plan to start my work late next year. Please pray me.
It sounds like a great plan. If I can be of help, please let me know via PM or other means.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Would you say something similar to this about the Pope (Alexander VI) who was op;enly living with his mistress and had four children? And what about the bishops who made no move to have him take a leave of absence?
“God judges the heart, and will reward each, according to his deeds…” this applies to
Pope AlexanderVI, Bishops, priests, Fr.Cutie, protestants, the laity, you and me.
As far as what actions the Church should take-we’re** all** in need of renewal-daily. Beginning with a return to the Sacrament of Reconciliation, and then to conform ourselves more to Christ, so that someday, His broken “Mystical Body” on earth…will become** His glorified Bride**, washed in the Blood of the Lamb, at the
** eternal** wedding feast of** Heaven.**:grouphug::harp::heaven:
 
“God judges the heart, and will reward each, according to his deeds…” this applies to
Pope AlexanderVI, Bishops, priests, Fr.Cutie, protestants, the laity, you and me.
As far as what actions the Church should take-we’re** all** in need of renewal-daily. Beginning with a return to the Sacrament of Reconciliation, and then to conform ourselves more to Christ, so that someday, His broken “Mystical Body” on earth…will become** His glorified Bride**, washed in the Blood of the Lamb, at the
** eternal** wedding feast of** Heaven.**:grouphug::harp::heaven:
It did not happen with Pope Alexander VI.
 
I’m not sure of the accuracy of this blog post. Does anyone from the Miami area have an idea how true it is?

Florida’s Kissing Priest Ignites Catholic-Episcopal Row
“This truly is a serious setback for ecumenical relations and cooperation between us,” observed Archbishop of Miami John Favalora about a May 28 press conference featuring the smooching priest and his new supervising prelate, Episcopal Bishop of Southeast Florida Leo Frade. “The Archdiocese of Miami has never made a public display when for doctrinal reasons Episcopal priests have joined the Catholic Church and sought ordination. In fact, to do so would violate the principles of the Catholic Church governing ecumenical relations. I regret that Bishop Frade has not afforded me or the Catholic community the same courtesy and respect.”
So the Archbishop was surprised when Cutié and a smiling Miss Canellis, whom some press reports describe as a fiancée, appeared at a lavishly covered press conference with Episcopal Bishop Frade and his own beaming wife. The two couples, appearing outside Trinity Episcopal Cathedral in Miami after Cutié’s reception into Episcopalianism, more resembled a presidential ticket than parties to a transfer of ecclesial allegiance. “We welcome Father Alberto into the ministry of the Episcopal Church,” gushed Bishop Frade, whose flashy purple and red vestments, with towering miter, were perhaps more suited to a medieval pope consecrating a Holy Roman emperor than a Miami press conference. Surrounded by 50 clamoring reporters and photographers, Bishop Frade dressed the part for what was undoubtedly the media zenith of his church career. “Our ministry has centered on spiritual growth, love, forgiveness, and a sense of community,” Frade pronounced. “Guided by a spirit of fellowship and understanding, the Episcopal Church remains a beacon of hope and faith for all.”
An Episcopal News Service report was enthusiastic about Cutié’s transfer. “He and Mother Angelica, they are the Roman Catholic televangelists,” pronounced one Episcopal Church official. “This is like Joel Osteen [a popular Christian preacher, author and televangelist] changing faith, abandoning ship.” Another quoted Episcopal official was equally excited, calling Cutié “very good looking,” “eloquent,” and “charismatic,” who’s “hung out with stars,” befriended Gloria Estefan, and now, himself a “celebrity,” is “very boldly go[ing] against his promise to the church and its teachings.” Bishop Frade credited the media frenzy to there being “nothing like a priest committing a sin, as seen by Rome; a good looking man finding someone he loved.” The bishop claimed: “We were hoping that it would be low key, but that was impossible.”
spectator.org/archives/2009/06/09/floridas-kissing-priest-ignite

Is there now a rift between the Catholic Church and the Episcopal Church in the Miami area?
 
However, where was the reaction during his lifetime?
I wish I was familiar enough with the historical facts, but I have no doubt that the saints of that period had quite a reaction and offered their severe penances for his soul and the Church’s renewal.
I know how it grieves your heart-as it does mine-to see and hear about the scandals in our world. But “take heart! I have overcome the world…”, Jesus says to all of us, who await His coming with deep longing.
 
I’m not sure of the accuracy of this blog post. Does anyone from the Miami area have an idea how true it is?

Florida’s Kissing Priest Ignites Catholic-Episcopal Row

spectator.org/archives/2009/06/09/floridas-kissing-priest-ignite

Is there now a rift between the Catholic Church and the Episcopal Church in the Miami area?
If you look up Archbishop Favalora’s letter to his people you will see his statement of disappointment.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Would you say something similar to this about the Pope (Alexander VI) who was op;enly living with his mistress and had four children? And what about the bishops who made no move to have him take a leave of absence?
There is no place in Church law for suspending a pope, much less granting him a leave of absence or a dispensation, because the only person who can grant a dispensation is the Pope himself.

That’s why a pope who resigns does not tender his resignation to anyone. He writes his letter of resignation to himself and accepts it on his own behalf. He is the highest authority in the Church.

The only way that a council of bishops can take over from a pope is to prove that the pope is mentally incompetent. In that case, the Chair of Peter becomes vacant.

As long as a pope is mentally competent, even if he’s Alexander VI himself, he remains the Vicar of Jesus Christ, continues to hold the power of infalibility, is the keeper of the keys to Heaven and Hell, and is the only person with the power to bind and unbind.

There is a question among canon lawyers whether a pope can dispense himself from celibacy. There are arguments on both sides using logic. Since there is no clear answer, nothing has been written into canon law for or against it.

The papacy is protected by many rules and apostolic traditions that are beyond the reach the hierarchy and the laity.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
There is a question among canon lawyers whether a pope can dispense himself from celibacy.
That’s interesting. Personally, I would find dubious any unofficial or official declaration of a Pope such as Alexander VI, giving himself the right to marital privileges with a mistress.
 
I admit that while I was away from the Church, I voiced my support of this priest. I can no longer do that as a faithful Catholic. This priest has done wrong and needs to come back to the Catholic Church, go to confession, and be reconciled with the Church. I pray that he someday comes back and repents of his wrongdoing. :crossrc:
 
I admit that while I was away from the Church, I voiced my support of this priest. I can no longer do that as a faithful Catholic. This priest has done wrong and needs to come back to the Catholic Church, go to confession, and be reconciled with the Church. I pray that he someday comes back and repents of his wrongdoing. :crossrc:
wcbstv.com/topstories/archbishop.timothy.dolan.2.991738.html
Timothy Dolan spoke with CBS 2 HD as he settled into his new home.

After a tour of his new office, Dolan answered questions about the issue of priests and marriage.

“Priest celibacy, while a jewel, is not church doctrine. It is just discipline,” Dolan said. "Could discussion lead to a change in discipline? Sure it could.

Here’s my question:
Given the fact that it could change at any time, why should a 40 year old man give up the opportunity to get married and have children if that is what he truly desires and then discover 30 years later, when it is too late, that it is no longer a sin?
 
That’s interesting. Personally, I would find dubious any unofficial or official declaration of a Pope such as Alexander VI, giving himself the right to marital privileges with a mistress.
No no no, the question among canonists has nothing to do with a mistress. The question is whether a pope can dispense himself to marry.

Obviously, a mistress is out of the question. Alexander was in an objective state of sin.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
No no no, the question among canonists has nothing to do with a mistress. The question is whether a pope can dispense himself to marry.

Obviously, a mistress is out of the question. Alexander was in an objective state of sin.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
But it would be something similar if a Pope can give himself the right to marry and he has the right to annul any marriage. It goes like this. He declares that he is married to his mistress. Then when he tires of her and desires a much younger woman, he declares the first marriage annulled and marries the second. And since he is Pope, there is no limit to the number of annulments that he could grant to himself???
That seems to me like it is giving the Pope too much power and where I would hope that a Council would declare this to be irregular.
 
But it would be something similar if a Pope can give himself the right to marry and he has the right to annul any marriage. It goes like this. He declares that he is married to his mistress. Then when he tires of her and desires a much younger woman, he declares the first marriage annulled and marries the second. And since he is Pope, there is no limit to the number of annulments that he could grant to himself???
That seems to me like it is giving the Pope too much power and where I would hope that a Council would declare this to be irregular.
Let’s speak hypothetically, because it’s not real. We’re just speculating that a pope can dispense himself from the promise of celibacy. Canonists are discussing this and even they are not very aggressive on this topic, because it’s not a hot one.

If the pope could dispense himself from the promise of celibacy, he would still have to find a way to around the tradition of celibate bishops. For more than 1000 years, bishops have been celibate.

Let’s assume that he can get around that. He now gets married. He can’t dissolve his marriage. An anulment is a decree that the marriage never existed. It is not a disolition of a marriage. If there is really a marriage, the Church cannot dissolve it. A decree of nulity says that it looked like a marriage, but it really was not, because something was missing before the wedding and it was not present at the time of the wedding. Therefore, the couple are not truly married.

If a pope were married, he could not dissolve his marriage. He is bound by the sacrament like any other married person.

Again, we’re are speaking hypothetically. There is not law or theology that says the pope can dispense himself from celibacy.

We also have to keep in mind that there can be another complication. What happens when the pope is a religious? If he is a religious he not only has a promise of celibacy, but he also has a vow of celibacy. Religious make vows of celibacy until death. These vows are solemn, unlike the promise of celibacy that diocesan priests make.

Our current pope is not a religious. He is a secular priest. But we had John XXIII who was a Secular Franciscan and in vows. We’ve had Pius V who was a Dominican and many other popes who were religious or members of secular institutes with vows.

It’s probably best to leave well enough alone. LOL

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Let’s speak hypothetically, because it’s not real. We’re just speculating that a pope can dispense himself from the promise of celibacy. Canonists are discussing this and even they are not very aggressive on this topic, because it’s not a hot one.

If the pope could dispense himself from the promise of celibacy, he would still have to find a way to around the tradition of celibate bishops. For more than 1000 years, bishops have been celibate.

Let’s assume that he can get around that. He now gets married. He can’t dissolve his marriage. An anulment is a decree that the marriage never existed. It is not a disolition of a marriage. If there is really a marriage, the Church cannot dissolve it. A decree of nulity says that it looked like a marriage, but it really was not, because something was missing before the wedding and it was not present at the time of the wedding. Therefore, the couple are not truly married.

If a pope were married, he could not dissolve his marriage. He is bound by the sacrament like any other married person.

Again, we’re are speaking hypothetically. There is not law or theology that says the pope can dispense himself from celibacy.

We also have to keep in mind that there can be another complication. What happens when the pope is a religious? If he is a religious he not only has a promise of celibacy, but he also has a vow of celibacy. Religious make vows of celibacy until death. These vows are solemn, unlike the promise of celibacy that diocesan priests make.

Our current pope is not a religious. He is a secular priest. But we had John XXIII who was a Secular Franciscan and in vows. We’ve had Pius V who was a Dominican and many other popes who were religious or members of secular institutes with vows.

It’s probably best to leave well enough alone. LOL

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
But was it not historically the case that annulments were granted to royalty if their were no male heirs. for example, with Eleanor of Acquitaine and Louis VII of France.
And today, annulments are granted for reasons which are grounded in psycho-babble, such as I didn;t know what I was doing fifteen years ago when I got married and so my consent at that time was defective.
 
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