Following Church teaching on homosexuality leads to collateral sin?

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No thanks - let us leave it at that.

You are not going to answer my specific points. Your church is right - you think.

Fine it makes you a pleasant and, in most situations, a good person. So far as gay sex is concerned however you and your church are morally blind monsters denying goodness that is before your eyes because a medieval doctrine - which you have not been able to defend - tells you so.

A great pity but there you are - no doubt there were plenty of ‘nice people’ who owned slaves, thought women inferior, were colour prejudiced… so no surprise that homophobia still lurks in this fair Isle but, thank God, it is on its way out.

Cheers and glad to have talked to you.

Laurie
 
Don’t confused a behavior (homosexual acts) with intrinsic characteristics of being like race and sex. Don’t be a fool Laurie
 
Dear Laurie,

Many thanks for your reply.

It would appear that I have been unable to produce an impressive enough argument to persuade you that homosexual genital acts are not only unnatural but on that account wrong also. Perhaps I have not presented my case as effectively as I could have done, in which case I can only apologise for my ineffectual debating skills. Nevertheless arguments I certainly have given (e.g. the parity of reasoning with beastality), it is just that, for whatever reason, these have failed to bowl you over.

Laurie, I really do not believe that someone is suddenly going to present you with an unanswerable argument that proves that homosexual deviant acts are wrong, thus causing you to have a radical change of heart. Such a radical conversion of viewpoint would, incontrovertibly, prove very costly to you in terms of your very close relationship with your daughter and possibly others as well. Without in any way wishing to sound awfully patronizing, I fully appreciate the domestic issues that are involved and clearly your position is problematic to say the least. What I am trying to say my dear fellow is that you have very good reasons for wanting to reject any argument that might demonstrate that homosexual deviant acts are wrong and immoral, be they from revealed religion or natural law.

You say that you do not accept the authority of conscience because there is no certainty that it is correct. That is why we urgently need an authoritative arbiter to declare what the truth is as to faith and morals, otherwise we are all on a subjective path that ultimately leads to quagmire of competing opinions. In other words hopeless moral relativism where everybody is right and nobody is wrong and the only sin is intolerance!

However, be that as it may, everyone will admit not only the existence of conscience but also its authority. In this age of rebellion against and doubt about nearly every authority; in this age in which the very word authority has changed from a word of respect to a word of scorn, one authority remains: an man’s conscience. Almost no one will say that one ought to sin against one’s conscience. Disobey the Church, the state, parent’s, authority figures, but on no acount disobey your conscience. Thus people usually allow, though not usually in these words, the absolute authority and binding obligation of conscience

As for consciences being influenced by what was told them in childhood, this is nothing more than a variation of the societal argument and therefore meets with the very same objection. Society, in this instance the people who influenced us in our formative years, are still just people like myself. So again I must ask, What authority do they have over me?; are they always right?; must I never disobey them?

There can be no ‘scientific explanation’ to conscience because conscience has absolute, exceptionless, binding moral authority over us, demanding unqualified obedience. However, only a perfectly good, righteous divine will has this authority and a right to absolute exceptionless obedience. Therefore conscience is no other than the voice of the will of God.

As regards your haircut problem, I have addressed the issue several times but, alas, my reasoning has fallen on stony ground. No man sins by having his head shaved since no issue of natural morality is involved, no more than an issue of morality is involved in using the bridge of one’s nose to hold glasses in place. One could argue that it is a ‘wrong’ use of the nose to use it to hold glasses and therefore a violation of natural law, but no one uses such silly reasoning do they? It is resorting to rather absurd analogies that no one would ordinarily employ unless they were desperate to uphold a particular argument for polemical purposes. Since neither illustration is an issue of natural law morality they are utterly worthless as comparisons. Moreover, the use of such analogies clearly shows that one is not getting a correct and sensible view of the relative importance of things.

Finally, no Catholic condemns any man to eternal punishment for that is the Almighty’s perogative alone. Men condemn themselves by persisting in sin to their life’s end without penitence.

That all for now. Goodnight Laurie.

Warmest good wishes,

Portrait
 
Coleski,

Thanks for your comments
Sorry though I cannot have a conversation with you beyond this post because I only have time to talk to Portrait.I will make one comment

Being gay is not something a person chooses to be. Go and talk to gay people and see what they say. Have you done that?

Regards

Laurie
 
Hi Portrait,
You are polite and persistent, so I will try to be so too. Thanks for reply.

We are in danger of chasing too many hares here. We cannot possibly follow up all the topics you raise. I hope you do not mind if I select three and perhaps we can stick with them for a while? I will write a post on each. Below is the first.
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UNNATURAL**

You say;

It would appear that I have been unable to produce an impressive enough argument to persuade you that homosexual genital acts are not only unnatural but on that account wrong also. Perhaps I have not presented my case as effectively as I could have done, in which case I can only apologise for my ineffectual debating skills. Nevertheless arguments I certainly have given (e.g. the parity of reasoning with bestiality), it is just that, for whatever reason, these have failed to bowl you over.

Faithful gay sex is between two consenting adults using it to express their love. Bestiality involves no consent and is not expressing love – that is what makes it wrong NOT the fact that it is unnatural. Therefore there is no parity of reasoning.

Apart from that bestiality point I do not think you have given me any reasons why, because something is unnatural, it is also wrong. All you seem to have done is to explain in detail why gay sex is unnatural. But that is not the issue; I fully accept that it is unnatural in the sense that you understand this term. That is why [bestiality aside] I said that I do not think you have given me any arguments to explain why unnatural => wrong. So it is not a case of you arguing poorly or me being obdurate - no arguments have been actually produced.

Perhaps I am mistaken. If so please tell me again in simple terms – ‘if something is unnatural, why is it wrong?’

Please, please, try to do this old friend, so we can take this matter further.

With good wishes,

Laurie
 
For Portrait,

CONSCIENCE
You say;

There can be no ‘scientific explanation’ to conscience because conscience has absolute, exceptionless, binding moral authority over us, demanding unqualified obedience. However, only a perfectly good, righteous divine will has this authority and a right to absolute exceptionless obedience. Therefore conscience is no other than the voice of the will of God.

This comment illustrates where we disagree about conscience. You see I do not see my conscience [or anyone else’s] as being ‘exceptionless’ or ‘requiring unqualified obedience’. The reasons being that [1] people’s consciences disagree, [2] examples from the past show it can be mistaken, so therefore conscience is potentially fallible. It is not useless but I do not see it as having binding authority.

Given that, I see no reason to explain it by reference to God and think it much more likely that it can be explained scientifically. Not being a scientist I would not venture to say more than that. Except to note the fact that the conscience rarely contradicts the mores of one’s own society suggests it is formed by socialisation.

Best regards

Laurie
 
For Portrait

HAIRCUTS

You say:

As regards your haircut problem, I have addressed the issue several times but, alas, my reasoning has fallen on stony ground. No man sins by having his head shaved since no issue of natural morality is involved, no more than an issue of morality is involved in using the bridge of one’s nose to hold glasses in place. One could argue that it is a ‘wrong’ use of the nose to use it to hold glasses and therefore a violation of natural law, but no one uses such silly reasoning do they? It is resorting to rather absurd analogies that no one would ordinarily employ unless they were desperate to uphold a particular argument for polemical purposes. Since neither illustration is an issue of natural law morality they are utterly worthless as comparisons. Moreover, the use of such analogies clearly shows that one is not getting a correct and sensible view of the relative importance of things.

This reply shows that you are missing my point – but in another way you do actually get it!

Of course, haircuts have nothing to do with morality, are absurd, silly and any other words you want to use. I quite agree – that is the point!

Natural Law morality says that to frustrate the purpose of a bodily function is wrong. Haircuts do just that, therefore haircuts are wrong. Impeccable reasoning!

But this conclusion is obviously absurd! What can we say then? Well you cannot just decide that Natural Law Morality applies in one case and not the other. Why is Natural Law morality not interested in the function of my hair but is in my sex organs? How can it pick and choose?

Here is the actual answer. Natural Law Morality is mistaken. So far as haircuts are concerned the fact that they are unnatural does not make them wrong. Hold on then – so if something is unnatural it might not be wrong? So far as haircuts are concerned there is something about them, as yet to be explained that allows them to escape this iron rule that you have applied to assiduously elsewhere.

As faithful gay sex expresses, you agree, a wonderful life-enhancing relationship, perhaps it too can escape this unnatural => wrong rule too. [A rule which you have yet to justify anyway.]

Looking forward to your response, [and having a haircut!]
Laurie
 
Hi Portrait,
You are polite and persistent, so I will try to be so too. Thanks for reply.

We are in danger of chasing too many hares here. We cannot possibly follow up all the topics you raise. I hope you do not mind if I select three and perhaps we can stick with them for a while? I will write a post on each. Below is the first.
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UNNATURAL**

You say;

It would appear that I have been unable to produce an impressive enough argument to persuade you that homosexual genital acts are not only unnatural but on that account wrong also. Perhaps I have not presented my case as effectively as I could have done, in which case I can only apologise for my ineffectual debating skills. Nevertheless arguments I certainly have given (e.g. the parity of reasoning with bestiality), it is just that, for whatever reason, these have failed to bowl you over.

Faithful gay sex is between two consenting adults using it to express their love. Bestiality involves no consent and is not expressing love – that is what makes it wrong NOT the fact that it is unnatural. Therefore there is no parity of reasoning.

Apart from that bestiality point I do not think you have given me any reasons why, because something is unnatural, it is also wrong. All you seem to have done is to explain in detail why gay sex is unnatural. But that is not the issue; I fully accept that it is unnatural in the sense that you understand this term. That is why [bestiality aside] I said that I do not think you have given me any arguments to explain why unnatural => wrong. So it is not a case of you arguing poorly or me being obdurate - no arguments have been actually produced.

Perhaps I am mistaken. If so please tell me again in simple terms – ‘if something is unnatural, why is it wrong?’

Please, please, try to do this old friend, so we can take this matter further.

With good wishes,

Laurie
Dear Laurie,

Cordial greetings and a very good day to you. Yes, I quite agree, my posts were waxing rather cumbersome and that is clearly not conducive to clarity as well as being unfair to you. Your suggestion of selecting one topic per post is indeed wise and so I will endeavour not to raise too many hares in one post.

To say that the want of consent/love is what makes beastality wrong is merely your opinion and how can one know for sure that this is true? However, the issue of consent is not the primary problem, if in fact it is a problem at all, but rather that such an aberrant act, by general consent, is indisputably unnatural* and on that account plainly wrong* Men have a basic ethical intuition that such behaviour is wrong because it is decidedly contrary to nature; man perceives that the natural sex partner of a human is another human and not an animal. In any event with something that is so obvously unnatural and improper the issue of consent is surely neither here nor there.

Now by parity of reasoning the same applies to homosexual genital acts. The natural sex partner of a man is a woman and vice-versa. Thus men have the corresponding intuition with homosexuality that they do about beastality, namely,* that it is plainly wrong *because it is unnatural. As J.R. Porter says, “Homosexuality and beastality bring about uncleaness because they are a violation of nature; men should only have intercourse with women and human beings with human beings” (The Cambridge Bible commentary, Leviticus, CUP 1976).

Quite frankly I do not see how any man could seriously contest this unless, of course, he was desperate to legitamize and rationalize homosexual aberrant acts for some polemical purpose.

By the way the Concise Oxford Dictionary defines the word “unnatural” as “contrary to nature; abnormal”. Thus it is perfectly reasonable to contend that a negative connotation can hardly be avoided. Thus people would say, for example, that paedophilla is “contrary to nature; abnormal” and hence wrong and improper on that account. The issue of consent is irrelevant since paedophilla is wrong per se, thus there can be no valid consent. Likewise, the issue of consent in homosexual liasons is totally irrelevant because such liasons are contrary to nature and abnormal per se and hence wrong on that account also, again there can be no valid consent.

Warmest good wishes,

Portrait
 
Thanks once again.

1] Yes, obviously one of our consciences is not working correctly re faithful gay sex. So we need to find a way to decide between them.


All the best,

Laurie
We could perhaps try a Darwinian argument. While there are (very rare) documented cases of gay couples occurring among some species, homosexuality is not a very good idea from an evolutionary viewpoint, and also from the viewpoint of the preservation of a given society.

Individuals engaging in homosexual behavior loose the opportunity of having children, thereby limiting the gene pool. The same goes for incest or abortion. Incest reduces biological diversity; abortion reduces the gene pool. (From this perspective, euthanasia might not be as deleterious as the others, because it applies to humans past their reproduction age. I would attack euthanasia with other arguments.) But encouraging “unnatural” acts like those mentioned might reduce the vitality and variability of the human species.

This effect is also highly operative when there are rival societies: those with stricter regulations of sex relations should, over time, dominate the others because they avoid all “distracting” activities regarding reproduction.

On the contrary, if you cut your hair in a certain way, depending on the culture you’re in, you might mate more or less easily and have offspring. It follows that there is no obvious rule to enact.

From the strict viewpoint of the preservation of the species and the society, while in particular instances being unnatural is not necessarily wrong, if you have to make a law regulating relations among people, you’re probably not going to encourage unnatural behavior. Perhaps this is why, safe a few normally exaggerated cases, homosexuality has always been relegated to strictly private and informal arrangements, and not to the public sphere.

There might be other effects at work that improve the case for homosexuality. For instance, it could be the case that the typical member of a gay couple had creativity significantly over and above his/her creativity as a single or hetero-married. This could make up for the loss of his/her genes by benefiting the society at large. In this particular case, it is difficult to see why this would be the case; but if it were the case, perhaps the optimal thing to do (from the society viewpoint) would be to force him/her to marry and have children (because he/she is creative!) while letting him/her engage privately in homosexuality. This reinforces the argument, actually.

There you are: a simple and totally godless argument about why an “unnatural” act might actually be “wrong”.
 
For Portrait,

Thanks again – this is becoming an interesting discussion.

Bestiality. You see I do not think that it is wrong because it is unnatural; I think it is wrong for other reasons. It takes us too far off track to discuss these other reasons. Sufficient to say that for me being unnatural is not enough to condemn it.

I agree that most people have a feeling of revulsion when they consider bestiality but that is not enough to say it is wrong. You see I get a feeling of revulsion when I consider the eating of raw oysters but that does not entitle me to say it is wrong.

I also agree that many people have an intuition that, if something is unnatural, it is also wrong. [It seems to break a natural law if you like]. But we are debating whether this intuition is correct or not and to decide that we need to answer the question; ‘OK it is unnatural but why is it wrong?’

Finally you correctly point out that the dictionary definition of ‘unnatural’ has a negative flavour. True but in the everyday sense of the word lots of unnatural things are perfectly fine when you think about it – cars, spectacles, fidelity, loving ones enemies… [Don’t go into these – just take the point, in the usual sense of the term you certainly may not say, ‘unnatural = wrong’.] So we cannot rely on the dictionary to help us here.

With best wishes,

Laurie
 
Thanks Autunessa,

Your argument would be fine if we were part of a small band of hunter gatherers whose survival was in jeopardy. In such a band they would have to maximise their reproductive potential. So it would be wrong not to have the largest possible number of children. Not getting married, limiting one’s family, gay sex, etc would all be out.

However we live in a world where most people are not gay and one major problem we have is over-population.

In any case gay couples can have children by artificial insemination and/or adoption but this makes Catholics froth at the mouth even more!

Best wishes

Laurie

PS I am quite busy talking to Portrait so may not have time to follow up if you reply, hope you understand.
 
For Portrait,

Thanks again – this is becoming an interesting discussion.

Bestiality. You see I do not think that it is wrong because it is unnatural; I think it is wrong for other reasons. It takes us too far off track to discuss these other reasons. Sufficient to say that for me being unnatural is not enough to condemn it.

I agree that most people have a feeling of revulsion when they consider bestiality but that is not enough to say it is wrong. You see I get a feeling of revulsion when I consider the eating of raw oysters but that does not entitle me to say it is wrong.

I also agree that many people have an intuition that, if something is unnatural, it is also wrong. [It seems to break a natural law if you like]. But we are debating whether this intuition is correct or not and to decide that we need to answer the question; ‘OK it is unnatural but why is it wrong?’

Finally you correctly point out that the dictionary definition of ‘unnatural’ has a negative flavour. True but in the everyday sense of the word lots of unnatural things are perfectly fine when you think about it – cars, spectacles, fidelity, loving ones enemies… [Don’t go into these – just take the point, in the usual sense of the term you certainly may not say, ‘unnatural = wrong’.] So we cannot rely on the dictionary to help us here.

With best wishes,

Laurie
Dear Laurie,

Thankyou for your reply old chap.

Regarding beastality, you say that you believe it is wrong, not becuase it is unnatural, but for other reasons and that its unnaturalness is, for you, insufficient to condemn it. Now that is merely your private opinion; what authority do you have and who is to say that you are correct? If beastality is unnatural, as you freely admit, then it most decidedly cannot be right and morally permissible, therefore it must clearly be wrong and morally improper. As far as I can see it is impossible to occupy a midway position in this matter, it is either right or wrong on account of it being unnatural.

Whether repulsion is one’s response to the thought of beastial behaviour is really neither here nor there. Certainly, if a man’s moral consceince is functioning properly he should indeed find such conduct repulsive, but that is a subjective consideration and not to the point. It is its unnaturalness that renders it wrong and improper conduct.

If you acknowledge that people have an ethical intuition which instinctively tells them that certain sorts of unnatural conduct are wrong, then you must then ask from whence this innate faculty to distinguish right from wrong comes. To date you have provided no satisfying answer to this most crucial of questions.

On the contrary, the dictionary definition helps us immensely because it clearly shows how the word is ordinarily understood by the vast majority of people. That ‘unnatural’ has chiefly a negative import admits of no doubt and that is how your average man on the London Underground would so understand it. They would not readily apply the term ‘unnatural’ to the examples that you cite; imagine a man saying about another man wearing glasses, “I say that fellow is unnatural using his nose as a rest for his spectacles, that is contrary to the proper use of his nose, how very strange”. However, in contradistinction, the terms ‘unnatural’ and ‘morally wrong’ would easily come to mind in your average person when thinking about homosexual genital acts and beastality.

One of the primary arguments, from natural law reasoning, against homosexual deviant acts is the biological argument. Purely from a biological standpoint, those of the same sex are not designed for intimate ‘face to face’ coitus, physically or genetically. Who would seriously deny that the female vagina is intended to accommodate the male penis? Moreover, the vagina has natural lubrication and multiple layers of skin cells that the anus does not have, hence the hazards of infection and disease from sodomy are patently obvious. That condoms have to be used to reduce this risk only further highlights the unnaturalness (and wrongness) and dangers involved in such sexual deviancy. Now these biological considerations alone should suffice to flash up the warning cones with regards to homosexual aberrant acts. That they do not is unmistakeable evidence of man’s fallen estate and his revolt against not only the natural law, which clearly informs him that such deviant acts are wrong and unnatural, but also, more importantly, the moral law of God.

Laurie, it was interesting to read antunesaa’s contribution to the debate. Since we have been debating for some considerable time now, I would be more than happy to bow out so that you can debate with antunesaa, and any others who may wish to join in. Not that I am finding the debate tiresome or stale, on the contrary I am enjoying it immensely and would be more than happy to continue as I have so much more to say (no surprise there!). Well, I’ll leave the decision entirely up you old chap - your wish is my command.

If you do wish me to take my leave then may I thank you for a lively but very good natured debate. We have been able to disagree without being disagreable - so very important on public forums such as this.

Hope that our paths will cross again at another time and another place.

Blessings be upon you and may the peace of God be yours now and always.

Warmest good wishes and prayers,

Portrait:tiphat:
 
Dear Portrait,

Delighted to continue.

BESTIALITY
You say:
Regarding bestiality, you say that you believe it is wrong, not because it is unnatural, but for other reasons and that its unnaturalness is, for you, insufficient to condemn it. Now that is merely your private opinion; what authority do you have and who is to say that you are correct? If bestiality is unnatural, as you freely admit, then it most decidedly cannot be right and morally permissible, therefore it must clearly be wrong and morally improper. As far as I can see it is impossible to occupy a midway position in this matter, it is either right or wrong on account of it being unnatural.

I have read this paragraph a number of times and just do not understand the reasoning… Yes I think that bestiality is wrong and not because it is unnatural. [It is not consensual and it demeans the people involved] How can my view be anything other than my opinion? So is yours and anyone’s! Your third sentence must be a mistake. You baldly state that if bestiality is unnatural that it is ‘clearly wrong…’ BUT THIS IS NOT CLEAR BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT WE ARE DEBATING!!! Finally I have no idea what you mean by a midway position nor why it is impossible to occupy it.

My view is that bestiality is wrong not because it is unnatural but because of other reasons. I do not think that something being unnatural makes it wrong and that is why I ask you for the umpteenth time – ‘why does ‘unnatural’ = ‘wrong’?

REVULSION
We agree about this. Splendid.

INTUITION
As explained I do not accept it as authoritative.
I see no reason to think it comes from God. Not being a scientist I do not feel able to give a full account of its genesis but feel reasonably confident that psychology and sociology will do the trick.

In any case – suppose I agree that intuition does come from God. That is no help at all in finding out whose intuition is correct [and therefore from God] and whose is defective.

MY HEART SANK!
When I read yet again about biology and vaginas and anuses and so on! Again, [can’t you see?], that all this stuff shows is that gay sex is unnatural. BUT I AGREE THAT IT IS UNNATURAL so it is a complete waste of your time to give me all this chunder again. And completely beside the point. I AGREE – GAY SEX IS UNNATURAL! But I am asking yet again – and you are not answering – WHY DOES THAT MAKE IT WRONG?

THE DICTIONARY
The man on the London Underground or the student in my philosophy class does initially take ‘unnatural’ to equal ‘wrong’. Then I ask, “But isn’t it unnatural to use my nose for my spectacles?” “Yes” they reply. “So if something is unnatural it may not be wrong then?” I continue. “Yes” they agree.

That exchange is simple enough. You are much more experienced at reasoning than a 17 year old student – I am surprised that you do not follow it!

A REVIEW
I ask why if something is unnatural it is also wrong?
1] You reply with lots of biology about vaginas etc
No answer. I agree that gay sex is unnatural which is all this is showing.
2] You reply that intuition [your conscience] tells you.
But as different people’s consciences tell them different things why should we take yours as the correct one?
3] You reply that there is parity of reasoning with my condemnation of bestiality.
But I do not condemn bestiality for other reasons not because it is unnatural


OK – so without going down interesting but distracting byways, such as the origin of intuition, can you give me a reason why ‘unnatural’ = ‘wrong’?

I look forward to hearing from you.

And, no, I do not wish to discontinue this conversation because it is slowly making progress.

Every good wish.

Laurie
 
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