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I have a secular friend, a very nice, likeable person with strong and high values, despite being secular, who’s confused in her love life, largely because of problems of her own making (a mixture of insecurity, immaturity and perhaps trying to play games, possibly rooted in childhood, but that’d be a far guess and I’d rather not ask). I would love for that friend to find God and to find a good guy she could settle down with, and of course to quit hurting herself and other people in the process. Meanwhile she has a ton on her professional plate, and she’s got a rough deal so far despite extraordinary qualifications and competence (as in a woman just embarking on her thirties, with several respectable, degrees, two fluent foreign languages, attractive past employment history etc., still struggling to find any decent work).