Ladybug42:
Teachings on merits donāt make sense to me. I think people should do good things, or suffer through the bad, for Godās glory alone. Adding it to Christās sacrifice somehow less-]o/-]ens or degrades Christās saving power.
No Catholic person lessens or degrades the saving power of Christ. We do not add to Christās sacrifice in the way that you think we do. But God does allow us to participate along with Jesus in our own sacrifice as we are to give our lives to God.
6 I planted, Apollos watered, but God caused the growth.
7 Therefore, neither the one who plants nor the one who
waters is anything, but only God, who causes the growth.
8 The one who plants and the one who waters are equal,
and each will receive wages in proportion to his labor.
9 For
we are Godās co-workers; you are Godās field,
Godās building.
1 Cor 3:6-9
We are all in the priesthood of Jesus Christ. But of course not as Ordained Priests because we cannot change the bread and wine into the Body & Blood of Jesus. But nonetheless we are all part of the priesthood in Jesus. Why? We can offer our own lives to God. We can offer sacrifices of our own. I donāt know if youāve ever heard a Catholic say, āoffer it upā or not, but thatās what it basically means, to offer up their own sufferings and sacrifices for God. There is nothing lacking, as far as His saving power, in the Passion of Christ but we can certainly add for the sake of the Body of Christ, the Church. We are to offer supplication on behalf of sinners in the hopes of their conversion. Of course we all know that only God the Holy Spirit can convert anyoneās heart.
24 Now I
rejoice in
my sufferings for your sake,
and
in my flesh I am filling up what is lacking in
the
afflictions of Christ on behalf of
his body,
which is the church
Col 1:24
We also pray the
Divine Mercy Chaplet where we offer to God, the Body, Blood, Soul & Divinity of His only Son, our Lord Jesus Christ, in atonement for our sins and those of the whole world.
Ladybug42:
And teachings on purgatory. Why in the world would God decide to somehow speed up someoneās time in there just because of a prayer, or our āmeritsā? Why wouldnāt he want to speed it up anyways? God wants us to pray for our own sakes, not to aid Him in any way.
Our prayers never āaidā God in any way and Catholics know this. We pray for each other because itās scriptural and Jesus told us to pray for each other. So I obey. Just because a soul is in Purgatory does not mean that they are actually dead. Their souls are alive, they are called the āChurch Sufferingā and I certainly advise to pray for them as Jesus commanded that we pray for all our brothers and sisters.
As far as further conversation about Purgatory, a
thread already exists on this subject.
Ladybug42:
I know that according to His own revelation to us in the Scripture, He is All-Just and All-Merciful. We will be purged of sin, and done so without unnecessary sufferingāto do otherwise would make God other than All-Just and All-Merciful. He doesnāt need us to devote our earthly suffering to that purposeāHe does that anyways.
Yes He does that for us but since sin entered into the world, we are to suffer. Just knowing that we suffer we should take advantage of that and offer all of our sufferings to God. See Colossians verse above.
Ladybug42:
These are issues that prevent me from becoming Catholic.
Only
you are preventing you from becoming Catholic. Just keep your heart open and let the Holy Spirit guide you to where God wants you to be. Pray, pray and pray some more.

You are certainly in my prayers as Jesus is thirsty for your soul so that you can receive His true body & blood in the Catholic Church.