Common enough to be mentioned as such in a book by a priest (albeit from France). I read it a few weeks ago (in French) but alas in a senior moment I can’t remember the title. I work at the abbey’s library once a week as assistant to the librarian (volunteer job!), and it was one that came under my nose that I thought was interesting so the monk who is the main librarian let me borrow it.
I know in Quebec that the annual home visit by the pastor was focused a lot on the reproductive status of the family. There is plenty of anecdotal evidence about this. I’d research the whole Quebec large family thing for you guys but I’m heading to Rome in 3 days and am a bit pressed for time.
Your abbey is such a remarkable place. The esteem I have for it defies words.
The particular assignment I held, over a span of years, took me many times to Quebec.
I will never forget the experience.
I was profoundly touched by the people in a very special way.
I was deeply impressed by the evident influence of Catholic culture on the province.
You have some of the most remarkable figures in Church history…Marguerite Bourgeoys and Marguerite d’Youville in Montreal as well as Marie de l’Incarnation and Catherine de St-Augustin in Quebec City
Who, of course, could not be touched and won by the First Nations woman, Tekakwitha. Knowing the story from Cardinal Leger concerning the Mission Saint Francois-Xavier and the role this small church played in the interventions of
Sacrosanctum Concilium, made spending a day there so important to me.
The plight of the incredible Religious women who were fighting to make a difference in the face of so much oppression – Eulalie du Rocher…Anne Blondin…Émilie Tavernier Gamelin…Élisabeth Turgeon…Marie-Leonie Paradis.
I remember also quite vividly Andre Bessette. In each, one gained remarkable insight into the conflicts and, frankly, horrors in the Quebec Church history, from its beginning but especially in the 19th and 20th century.
I must confess that I was really not prepared to confront how truly horrible was what I would come face to face with – and that is said by one immersed in the history of horrors that had been perpetrated in the name of Catholicism on the continent. The apologies of the Blessed Pope Paul VI, Pope Saint John Paul II, and Pope Francis are an excellent beginning…with an emphasis on beginning…
In the face of incredible individuals who became great saints and who accomplished much good within the Church in Quebec…there were indescribable policies and attitudes that set up a dysfunctional system of horrific and abusive oppression.
One came away from confronting these realities, with human faces behind each instance, profoundly shaken by what had been perpetrated in the name of the Catholic faith in Quebec – but which had done incalculable harm to so many people and families on so many levels. There really are no words
And, at that time, I was meeting with victims of this systematic nightmare they had lived through in the decades before. I knew then that I shall live with those memories of what I saw and heard until my dying day
I grieved for the people whom the Church so afflicted and literally drove from her bosom. It defies words but it is a story the world ought to know and needs to know…as the Church confronts the ugliness of the past.
As Pope Saint John Paul II and Pope Francis have rightly called for…there are sins that must be confessed with weeping in the public square by the Catholics of today who bemoan and declaim the tragedies of yesterday.
I hope the Church at some point can again become an important reality in the lives of the people and the society of Quebec…but there is so much healing that will have to occur.
Far from those who say you have been too hard in what you write, you have actually been exceedingly gentle. The Church in Quebec is moribund for reason…because of what had been done. The people rebelled and abandoned when liberated from oppression.
Those part of its renewal, such as yourself, are to be praised and commended.
I wish you
buon viaggio to Roma. Do have the kindness of remembering me at Sant’Anselmo – at the altar memorably consecrated by the Blessed Ildefonso Cardinal Schuster – and, of course, at Monte Cassino…I don’t make it there as often as I would wish now that I am so impeded.
Hopefully you will have the opportunity to spend quality time with the new Abbot Primate, whom you will find to be an exceptional person of superior qualities. The confederation is blessed at his election as Primate, from everything I know about him.
I wish you could be in Rome for the consistory.