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prodigalson12
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I’m totally fed up with the lack of focus, and lack of action the vast majority of my local parishes take with serious issues, leaving the homeless to die in the street, while they live comfortably in their mansions, enjoying a happy family while others are being torn apart, living full lives while death and destruction and the rest of what is mentioning, is going on in their very neighborhoods.
It’s time we pulled our heads out of the sand, church help or not, we must take action and affect change. The previous posters are right, change within first, for without, no actions can be taken, and that is of course natural, who they look up to and listen, the church leaders themselves, and if they are not willing to step up to the plate, we must do so without them, sending a message to them that we no longer desire to be patronized, no longer desire to have a pat on the back for doing what trivial things we have offered, just to keep us in attendance.
A previous poster stated, speak up, and this is mandated by all participants here. If you are praying and the congregation is gabbing away, tell them to shhhssh, even if you are telling the clergy themselves, if you see someone that’s obviously alone, extend a warm hi and invite them to join you in prayer or something, if you say hi and they just look at you weird, in a condescending manner, or in that can’t be bothered, speak up and tell them this is not the shopping market or freeway, this is our Lords house and they are your brother or sister…And as stated with that post, you may not make friends at first, yet as I am thinking about it, I feel you will if you remain bold enough.
It’s time we helped our Lord separate the wheat from the chaff, it’s time we no longer accept a luke warm perspective as being the norm. I’m boycotting my old parish for this very reason, can’t wait to visit them next, during non mass hours to tell them in person to take me off of their registration, and explain in full as to why, it will send a message to them, to look into themselves and their actions, and be forced to realize, they aren’t doing quite so well in this race we are on and that they are horribly misrepresenting our faith, that when I mention that parish to anybody that has experienced it, they all say “it’s cold”, and I feel embarrassed to even be associated with it, especially when I am among other parishes.
It’s time we pulled our heads out of the sand, church help or not, we must take action and affect change. The previous posters are right, change within first, for without, no actions can be taken, and that is of course natural, who they look up to and listen, the church leaders themselves, and if they are not willing to step up to the plate, we must do so without them, sending a message to them that we no longer desire to be patronized, no longer desire to have a pat on the back for doing what trivial things we have offered, just to keep us in attendance.
A previous poster stated, speak up, and this is mandated by all participants here. If you are praying and the congregation is gabbing away, tell them to shhhssh, even if you are telling the clergy themselves, if you see someone that’s obviously alone, extend a warm hi and invite them to join you in prayer or something, if you say hi and they just look at you weird, in a condescending manner, or in that can’t be bothered, speak up and tell them this is not the shopping market or freeway, this is our Lords house and they are your brother or sister…And as stated with that post, you may not make friends at first, yet as I am thinking about it, I feel you will if you remain bold enough.
It’s time we helped our Lord separate the wheat from the chaff, it’s time we no longer accept a luke warm perspective as being the norm. I’m boycotting my old parish for this very reason, can’t wait to visit them next, during non mass hours to tell them in person to take me off of their registration, and explain in full as to why, it will send a message to them, to look into themselves and their actions, and be forced to realize, they aren’t doing quite so well in this race we are on and that they are horribly misrepresenting our faith, that when I mention that parish to anybody that has experienced it, they all say “it’s cold”, and I feel embarrassed to even be associated with it, especially when I am among other parishes.