I understand perfectly what an ideal mass is supposed to be like. I also understand that there is a difference between the ideal and the reality. Unfortunately, some seem to think that all Catholics walk into mass in a perfect state of mind, worshipping our Lord in spirit and in truth, and all Protestants walk into their church service just wanting to be entertained.
I think the focus has been taken somewhat off of the focus of the topic- baptism. I also think that my point of view is being understood a bit wrong, so I would like to apologize for any confusion, as well as make it clear what my experience has been.
I fully believe that many Evangelicals are worshiping God in their services. Whether God is pleased with it, accepts it, works through it, I will leave up to God to say, because I cannot say for certain, but I do know that without the foundation set for me by my Evangelical Churches, I would never have found the Catholic Church.
I fully acknowledge that many Catholics attend mass for the wrong reasons. I have no ignorance that everyone in the catholic church is doing things for the right reasons.
Perhaps my problems are more with the large Mega Churches I have attended verses smaller churches that I do not know as much about, although one Baptist church I attended that was small (about 300 people), seemed to be much more in line with the Gospel than the mega churches (they worshiped, recited the creed, communion every Sunday, very active in the community, multiple preachers instead of one Super Preacher, etc…)
What I saw in my Mega Churches, were churches that started out with good intentions, then became huge. As they became big, the focus turned (unofficially of course) from God and serving the community, to building up the church programs and buildings. When one pastor left, many people left with him and followed that pastor to his new (often bigger) church. Then the church went on a big search to get the next dynamic preacher to keep the seats filled. That was the focus, and unfortunately it is not the right focus.
I guess my problem lies with the Evangelical System that allows this to happen, and is fundamentally broken because of this. I look and see the Catholic Church as huge as it is, and with the problems it has too, and yet I see a system of checks and balance between the parishes, diocese, conferences, vatican, etc… and I more importantly see parishes that are geographically set up to serve that area. They are not set up as simply a place for like minded people to go and hear the greatest preacher.
Hopefully that makes sense, and I am serious in wanting to discuss this without offending anyone, but at the same time I want to speak the truth about my experience as a devout Evangelical in some prominent Evangelical Churches over 30 years.