I agree with Karl, and this goes beyond a technicality about rubrics. This omission DOES change the meaning. Bro. Dan, your point is right on! Who is the “us”? It sounds like only those in the room. (That was my thought the first time I heard this done in a church.) But it could also be interpreted as only those in the parish? Or, how about just everyone on the planet, in which case does this include animals, or trees, or “spirits”? By being deliberately vague, the true meaning is lost, not enhanced!
“Us men” clearly refers to humanity, and that’s probably why it’s specifically stated that way.
Language should be used to make things more clear, not less. When language is altered or manipulated, not to improve communication, but to convey a political viewpoint, that is moving in the direction of deceit. I think this priest might have good intentions (in a cowardly, appeasing way) but has not carefully thought through what he is doing by messing with this very important phrase, that has a very specific meaning.
I have seen it in many churches. I believe it could possibly be considered “liturgical abuse”? Also, it’s not unusual to change the words in songs too, sometimes also ruining the meaning, or at least the rhythm!
Get this: recently I visited a supposedly conservative Catholic Convent (order shall remain nameless to protect the innocent, but a highly respected and very old one). On the first night we had a prayer gathering outdoors to bless a new field being planted. The prayer included invoking not only God the Father, but “the Earth, our Mystical Mother.” (I KID YOU NOT, that’s an exact quote!)
These Sisters also have gone way beyond what this priest did (apparently with the complete cooperation of the local abbott who says their masses; he’s from a nearby monastery). They have changed several phrases in the Mass. Any possible mention of “he” or “him” that could be rearranged to leave out the masculine gender has been done. After a few days, I was surprised they left the “Father” in the “Our Father” instead of saying “Our Parent”!
I asked one of the Sisters why they seemed to have an aversion to masculine pronouns. I was told to “show solidarity with women who have been abused.”
I did not know what to think…!