Here is a letter I read on this topic that might give some insight.
ewtn.com/library/SCRIPTUR/FRFOR.TXT
Here is a highlight to your direct question:
This part of the link really spoke to me.
That said a lot to me. I deal quite often with the once saved always saved crowd and their theology never makes sense to me. What Father says here says so much more, God will forgive us but we have to take that forgiveness into our hearts for it to take hold.
God Bless
Hope this helps.
**God bless MT,
I agree with you MT, we need to keep our forgiveness in our hearts.
Every child of God takes their forgiveness into their hearts and they keep it in their hearts.
According to RCC teaching the names of every child of God stands written in the Book of
Life and they are all predestined to heaven.
Only the names of the reprobates have been taken out from the Book of Life from all
eternity for their vehement rejection of God and His grace.
They are all end up in hell. – This is DE FIDE RCC Dogma.
When I read the following RCC teaching it was really helpful to me. Maybe help you too.
The Catholic Church affirms predestination as a *DE FIDE *Dogma (the highest level of
binding theological certainty).
CATHOLIC ENCYCLOPEDIA
THE CATHOLIC DOGMA. – The predestination of the elect
Consequently, the whole future membership of heaven, down to its minutest details, has
been IRREVOCABLY FIXED FROM ALL ETERNITY. Nor could it be otherwise. For if it
were possible that a predestined individual should after all be CAST INTO HELL or that
one not predestined should in the end REACH HEAVEN, then God would have been
MISTAKEN in his foreknowledge of future events; He would NO LONGER be omniscient.
God’s unerring foreknowledge and foreordaining is designated in the Bible by the beautiful
figure of the “Book of Life” (liber vitæ, to biblion tes zoes). This book of life is a list which
contains the names of ALL THE ELECT and admits NEITHER ADDITIONS NO ERASURES.
(2) The second quality of predestination, the DEFINITENESS of the number of the elect,
follows NATURALLY from the first. For if the eternal counsel of God regarding the
predestined is UNCHANGEABLE, then the number of the predestined must likewise be
UNCHANGEABLE and DEFINITE, subject NEITHER to ADDITIONS nor to
CANCELLATIONS. Anything indefinite in the number would eo ipso imply a lack of
certitude in God’s knowledge and would DESTROY His omniscience.
End quote Emphasize added.
CCC 1994 “… It is the opinion of St. Augustine that "the justification of the wicked is a
greater work than the creation of heaven and earth," because "heaven and earth will pass
away but the salvation and justification of the elect … will not pass away. …” End quote.
God bless
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