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Don’t answer a question with a question just answer it or can’t you? You await the gymnastic preformance, good one but I don’t have to resort to stupid comments like that I’m a better person than that and have more respect than that. Paul wrote that some christians took communion in an unworthy manner 1 Chor 11:27-30, Ananias and Sapphira were struck dead when they lied to God Acts 5:1-11. Blasphamy against the Holy Spirit results in spiritual death of the person who turns against Christ Heb. 6:4-6.
John was probably referring to the people who had left the christian fellowship and joined the antichrist. By rejecting the only way of salvation, these people were putting themselves out of reach of prayer. However in most cases if we knew waht the terrible sin is we woild have no sure way of knowing whether a certain person had committed it.This verse differs widly in the thoughts about what this sin that leads to death is and whether the death it causes is physical or spiritual.
So what is mortal sin?
Mortal refers to a sin that causes spiritual death, requiring one to be restored to spiritual life. As you well know the labels we apply to many teachings even among Protestants are not found in the Bible. Trinity for one. However we do see in the Scripture I asked you to explain that the supposition that all sins are equal in their gravity is anti-biblical. If some sins cause death in the Believer, and others don’t, (Some being Mortal and others not).

What the Catholic Church, with the teaching authority given it by Christ has done in defining Mortal and Venial sins is clarify what we find in Scripture. Why clarify it? Well simply because errors like the Protestant error of one sin is as bad as the other, and Eternal Security raised their heads, and people were being fed the poison of error. The Trinity would still exist even if the Catholic Church had not defined it against the Anti-Trinitarian errors of Nestorius and Arius, Mortal and Venial sins would exist if the Catholic Church had not had to face the errors of those who denied the truths, given to us by word or letter.
 
I think it is you that cannot see clearly what I wrote. I never denied what you said was not true. Re-reading my posting without the acrimony you have for the Catholic Church, you will see that it ain’t a Catholic thing, as you claim. I can remember when corporal punishment was banned in schools (Public and Private) throughout the USA, some States banned it earlier than others. All the assaults you make against the good Sisters, (Nuns live in a cloister) and the Catholic Church are simply a poor excuse for leaving the Church. It is really hard to understand why you really left the Church, as your postings contradict each other, but the reality is it was not just Catholic Schools who used corporal punishment. Nope I did not mention what I or others went through in Grade School, because you either deal with the way things were then, or you make it an excuse for your anger and misery.

Your silliness is not based on any corporal punishment that you had, but your misrepresenting it as being a Catholic thing. I was paddled by my grandparents and parents in front of other children on the block and I was raised a Jew. I went to Public Schools, and to Schools on Military Bases when my father was stationed oversees, and the paddle, as well as public corporal punishment was inflicted by people who’s religion I never knew. The silliness of your posting is not that you were punished, but that you use it as a reason for rejecting the Catholic Church. So if you are going to attack the Catholic Church, do so honestly, not because of something that anyone who grew up in the same era shared in public or parochial schools. You admit you are ignorant of what happened in other schools, do a little internet search of corporal punishment in U.S. Schools. But don’t be dishonest and use what happened everywhere to prejudice you into an attack one group.
Sorry you can’t accept the truth. Misrepresenting it as being a catholic thing, thats the only place it happened to me was there so hows that misrepresenting it as a catholic thing?
This is the truth. Don’t say I’m ignorant I told you I was between the ages of 4-13 and at that time I knew nothing except the catholic school. That is not the only reason if you read the posts I state that so I don’t beleive they contradict eachother. I remember when corpral punishment was abolished in both public and privite schools and it was well after the 60’s.
Are you me? Don’t tell me my reasons. I don’t care if someone who grew up in the same era shared it does that make it ok. UNDERSTAND it happened to me, me, It happened to me and thats what matters is it happened to me. Who are you to tell me that my reasons are not real.
Believe what you want to believe I know what happened to me you don’t. The nuns are to love the children not abuse them, thats the difference. They represent God and the catholic religion. The difference is I know God won’t do that but the nuns proved they will. They were good examples. Your grandparents are not religious figures the nun are.
So if you never knew the other religions then you must be as ignorant as you claim I am for not knowing about the other schools.
I use it to reject the catholic church,tell me is that what the catholic church teachs to do that to children? See the difference is you went to public school with no religious figure, I went to catholic school with all religious figures. See the diffenence?
So tell me why did you leave the Jewish faith?
 
Mortal refers to a sin that causes spiritual death, requiring one to be restored to spiritual life. As you well know the labels we apply to many teachings even among Protestants are not found in the Bible. Trinity for one. However we do see in the Scripture I asked you to explain that the supposition that all sins are equal in their gravity is anti-biblical. If some sins cause death in the Believer, and others don’t, (Some being Mortal and others not).

What the Catholic Church, with the teaching authority given it by Christ has done in defining Mortal and Venial sins is clarify what we find in Scripture. Why clarify it? Well simply because errors like the Protestant error of one sin is as bad as the other, and Eternal Security raised their heads, and people were being fed the poison of error. The Trinity would still exist even if the Catholic Church had not defined it against the Anti-Trinitarian errors of Nestorius and Arius, Mortal and Venial sins would exist if the Catholic Church had not had to face the errors of those who denied the truths, given to us by word or letter.
Well I can see that we don’t see eye to eye on this so you believe what you want to and I’ll believe what I want to. See problem solved.
 
I’m sorry, and this is not an attack, but your grammer and syntax don’t reveal a Catholic education. So I’ll try and reply to the posting above.

A review of your postings reveals someone who is all over the map when it comes to your purpose here. One posting attacks Purgatory and the authority of a priest to absolve sins. Both which are Biblical. Then we get, I have nothing against the Catholic Church I just do things differently. Next we see you telling us that you left the Catholic Church because “Nuns” are mean and pattled you, and your kid peed his pants. Now you are in a Church where everyone loves each other. How could anyone be in a Church where the :“Nuns” are mean, and paddle someone in the Principles office? If you cannot see why there is confustion over why you come to the forum, or my difficulty in understanding what apprear as major contraditictions in where you stand, illuminate me. I’d be willing to read something that is consistant, and thought through.
Oh well you know what I really don’t care what you think. If you take it as a attack then do so I really don’t care. If my grammer and syntax don’t reveal a Catholic education then blame the nuns who tought me. Yes I have nothing against the church its called forgiveness. As far as the nuns go that is one reason yes and they embarraced my son infront of the whole class,and I will not let the same thing happen to him as it did me, and he because of his experence he will not go catholic his decession not mine his alone and this happened in 1st grade and he remembers it to this day and the age of 14 good teachers there. The principles office leaves a lasting impression on a kid. I don’t think I attacked purgatory or the priest authority I just said I don’t beleive in them, don’t see a attack there. As far a my church its true, they really do love eachother sorry if you cant accept that. I went through my postings here and I don’t see what you see. I see different reasons on different posts that lead to my reasons. In post 269 I said that was not the only reasons. ya failed to see that didn’t ya.
If you don’t like my writing then don’t read them. I really don’t care. Have a good day.
 
Sorry you can’t accept the truth. Misrepresenting it as being a catholic thing, thats the only place it happened to me was there so hows that misrepresenting it as a catholic thing?
This is the truth. Don’t say I’m ignorant I told you I was between the ages of 4-13 and at that time I knew nothing except the catholic school. That is not the only reason if you read the posts I state that so I don’t beleive they contradict eachother. I remember when corpral punishment was abolished in both public and privite schools and it was well after the 60’s.
Are you me? Don’t tell me my reasons. I don’t care if someone who grew up in the same era shared it does that make it ok. UNDERSTAND it happened to me, me, It happened to me and thats what matters is it happened to me. Who are you to tell me that my reasons are not real.

I use it to reject the catholic church,tell me is that what the catholic church teachs to do that to children? See the difference is you went to public school with no religious figure, I went to catholic school with all religious figures. See the diffenence?
So tell me why did you leave the Jewish faith?
I stand by what I’ve written. It would seem that even when you are exposed to the truth around you, you can only focus on you. I can tell you that you’ve made a big assumption. My grandfather was a Rabbi, I got a bigger paddeling from him than the other kids in his synagogue, at Shabbos School, however what I did not understand as a kid, and do now, is that he did it out of love. He wanted me to understand that when I acted out, or felt that being the grandson of the Rabbi would help me to get away with more was not true. Correcting ones children when they err is done not out of hatred, but out of love, and a desire that they learn good from evil. “Nuns”, Public School teachers, Baptist School teachers etc of days of yore did what they believed to be the way to raise kids. Today many are shocked and indignent, back then parents would have been upset that their kids were not punished. In reality you can hear story after story of kids in any kind of school that got jerked around at school and then again by their parents when they got home. That is the way life was, and with regard to the left handed issue, it is not a Catholic thing either, kids who were left handed had to go through all sorts of physical punishment all over the USA and England to “correct” them.

As far as your question, “…is that what the catholic church teachs (sic) to do that to children?..” Nope, I don’t think you will without God’s grace be able to understand that bad things happened to kids everywhere, that “Nuns” are not the only religious figures who hit kids, and that even where “Nuns” or other Religious Figures punished kids, it is a poor excuse for leaving a Religion.

As to your question about why I left Judaism, I’ve written it on the Forum before, but here it is again.

My family are Sephardim, (Jews with origins in Spain) During WWII my grandparents, aunt and father were given forged documents by Angelo Roncolli, the Catholic Prelate who later became Pope John XXIII, as did many bishops who had been instructed to do so by Pope Pius XII. One of the conditions was that no effort would be made to force conversion on any Jew who was supplied the documents. The USA was refusing entrance to Jews during this time, so the documents said we were Catholic from birth. When we got to the USA, my grandfather, who was a Rabbi in Salonika was hired by a congregation in the U.S. and any connection with the Catholic Church was non-existant, except for being grateful to Cardinal Roncolli and Pope Pius XII, as Gentiles of great mercy and compassion. When I was studing Medicine at a Protestant University, I heard all sorts of anti-Catholic slanders, in part because as a Sephardic Jew I have a Spanish Surname, and most assumed I was a Catholic. I could not reconcile the slanders against the Catholic Church as being consistant with what my family had experienced, so I went to Catholic sources, (Books and a very good and holy priest) to get the Catholic point of view on these anti-Catholic claims. I found them to be untrue, and the Catholic position to not only be contrary to what the Protestants were telling me, but that Jesus was in fact the Messiah we (Jews) had been waiting for. That He did indeed found a visible Church, and that it still exists today. I was the first to convert in my family. Most of my family initially was upset and would not talk to me, except my grandfather, who asked me, “Was it worth it just to have a cheeseburger?” We engaged in many talks about why I converted and he became the second person to convert. Many (not all) converted over the following ten years.

I still light Yorkzite Candles and recite Kaddish on the anniversaries of the deaths of my family who died in the Shoah. As a kid I blamed the German people, now I don’t I’ve grown up and realize that some Germans bought into the Nazi lies, others did so to save their own lives, and still others resisted, some of them died for their resistance. I still celebrate Pesach, but I now understand it as a Christian, and that it prefigures the Sacrifice of Jesus on Calvary, and the Mass.

You can throw a hissy fit, and tell me you don’t care what I think, and I should not read what you post. The reality is you are a Baptist, who is visiting a Catholic forum, and I do care what you write, but what you post just does not add up to me. The Catholic Church is bad because you had a bad experience with a handfull of Catholics. My Baptist Church is good because they are nice to me. I can find just as many Baptist Schools where what we call abuse occured as Catholic Schools, and Just as many welcoming loving Catholic parishes as Baptist. It does not make one superior to the other. What is most important is the moral and dogmatic truth that they teaches. I truly believe that it is found in the teachings of the Catholic Church, and not the Baptist Churches. You believe otherwise, (I think) but your postings really don’t seem to reflect that to me.
 
Well I can see that we don’t see eye to eye on this so you believe what you want to and I’ll believe what I want to. See problem solved.
Either what the Catholic Church teaches is true and Scriptural or it is not. It is not an issue of, You do your thing and I’ll do mine. You came here for something. It does not appear to learn about the Catholic Faith, because you tell us that you know all about it, and even went to the siminary (sic) for a year. It just does not add up.

If you could give real reasons for your postings and back it up, that would solve the “problem”, If I’m wrong in my beliefs I want to know. I’ve read all sorts of Anti-Catholic books, attended lectures, and none so far have been convincing. If you have some way to illuminate me or anyone here, please do so. But so far I just can’t figure out what your postings are aimed at.
 
My grandparents left the Catholic Church do to racism. They were told at a particular parish in Sacramento, CA back sometime in the 60’s or so that they and their children had to sit in the back pews because they were black.
 
Too bad they left the Church over something that happened all over the USA at the time.

In the 1960’s in Los Angeles, (and I’m sure many other places) The public pools were cleaned on Thurday afternoon. When they re-opened on Friday, only Whites could go swimming, It was Whites only until Tuesday, when “Mexicans” could swim, then on Wednesday “Negros” could swim, on Thursday “Orientals” were allowed in. Jews were forbidden from using the Public Pools.

The point being, as with Rev. Kevin, the world has not always been as fair as it is today. It still is not fair. To place the blame on the Catholic Church for the Culture in the U.S. at a point in time, is just dishonest.
 
But what if that inferior energy is coming from an evil source and it is leading you away from divine truth?
You shall know them by their fruits. I observed in reiki attuned people: patience, wisdom, long suffering, faith, temperance. Sound familiar? 😉
p.s. God did not inject his divinity/essence in creation except to those who chose Christ and received the Holy Spirit.
Mmmm. I think I would disagree. And may I suggest reading “The Declaration of the Relationship of the Church to Non-Christian Religions” to understand the Catholic Church’s position on the matter.
What you believe is a form of pantheism.
I don’t think that the above is a form of pantheism. Pantheism is the belief that all things ARE God. That is not taught in reiki.
 
I don’t think that the above is a form of pantheism. Pantheism is the belief that all things ARE God. That is not taught in reiki.
I would like to clarify that statement. That was not what I was taught with reiki. I, of course, cannot speak about all reiki teachers in the world.
 
The nuns are to love the children not abuse them, thats the difference.
I am sorry you had a bad experience with nuns. I have met many wonderful, caring, loving and devout nuns throughout my lifetime. They loved, cared for, and taught the children. They did inumerable charitable works. These nuns left “the world” to work for Jesus Christ. Are there bad nuns? Of course. They are human like you and I.

Love the sinner, hate the sin.
 
I would like to clarify that statement. That was not what I was taught with reiki. I, of course, cannot speak about all reiki teachers in the world.
Reiki is not good.

About Reiki: Answer by Matthew Bunson on 02-08-2009:

You might read the important document released a few years ago by the Vatican on the New Age Movement:

ewtn.com/library/CURIA/PCCPCIDA.HTM

Might I also suggest the following websites for details on this subject:

cuf.org/faithfacts/details_view.asp?ffID=200 [

Reiki and Tantric Magic: Healing or Hell]()

Finally, I would suggest reading Fr. Mitch Pacwa’s book Catholics and the New Age.

source:

ewtn.com/vexperts/showresult.asp?RecNum=566669&Forums=0&Experts=0&Days=2009&Author=&Keyword=reiki&pgnu=1&groupnum=0&record_bookmark=1&ORDER_BY_TXT=ORDER+BY+ReplyDate+DESC&start_at=

and this:

Reiki is NEW AGE. For more information go to this web site:
www.crossveil.org/page2.html
It’s full of information about New Age
The site’s author was on The Abundant Life, Johnette Benkovic’s show on EWTN.

and this:

What can be done to remove Reiki, the most pervasive of popular occult techniques, from Catholic institutions?
  1. We can “tear off the veils” of deception through dissemination of this kind of
    literature
    ."I will tear off your veils and rescue my people from your power, so that they
    shall no longer be prey to your hands.Thus you shall know that I am the Lord,"Ezekiel 13:21
  2. We can sponsor true “centers of healing” in hospitals, colleges & retreat houses that
    include programs in:
  • **the sacraments of reconciliation;
  • Eucharistic adoration in honor of the Holy Face;
  • anointing of the sick blessed with prayers to the Holy Face;
  • orthodox spiritual direction for those in crisis;
  • restoration of those affected by New Age involvement. **
  1. Those Catholics who are especially gifted with the charisms of extraordinary faith,
    healing, deliverance and intercessory prayer can form discernment groups under the
    leadership of a priest experienced in orthodox Roman Catholic spiritual counseling
    in order to inaugurate these ministries.
Just as Jesus expressed just anger at the taking over of His Father’s House, we too should be just as **zealous in reclaiming our loved ones and institutions from these false idols. **

(my bolding)
 
Either what the Catholic Church teaches is true and Scriptural or it is not. It is not an issue of, You do your thing and I’ll do mine. You came here for something. It does not appear to learn about the Catholic Faith, because you tell us that you know all about it, and even went to the siminary (sic) for a year. It just does not add up.

If you could give real reasons for your postings and back it up, that would solve the “problem”, If I’m wrong in my beliefs I want to know. I’ve read all sorts of Anti-Catholic books, attended lectures, and none so far have been convincing. If you have some way to illuminate me or anyone here, please do so. But so far I just can’t figure out what your postings are aimed at.
Well it stands you do your thing and I’ll mine what is so hard about that.
I because I thought people of religion would be nice to talk to but you proved me wrong all you get some some people the majority is hate talk like yours.
I lon’t beleive I said I know “all” about the catholic faith. don’t twist my words round to fit your view.
I have given you the real reasons sorry you can’t or won’t see that.
Well as far as all sorts of “anti-catholic” stuff you mentioned, with a closed mind to other beliefs you won’t be convinced.
The question was, why did you leave the catholic religion. I answered it then people like you start to attack because its not what you wan’t to hear. you nit pick at every word.
Like I said what I said was the truth sorry you are too blind or just in denial about what happened the truth is the truth. Your opion don’t matter to me about what happened, I know it did. have a good day
 
I am sorry you had a bad experience with nuns. I have met many wonderful, caring, loving and devout nuns throughout my lifetime. They loved, cared for, and taught the children. They did inumerable charitable works. These nuns left “the world” to work for Jesus Christ. Are there bad nuns? Of course. They are human like you and I.

Love the sinner, hate the sin.
At least there are some who understand that it can happen.
There are bad people everywere no matter what religion they are or who they are.
I’m not saying that all nuns are bad. There are good one’s and most are. I’m just answering the question that was posted truthfully. I’m sorry if it pains some but the truth is the truth and that was one reason.
Thank you
 
Too bad they left the Church over something that happened all over the USA at the time.

In the 1960’s in Los Angeles, (and I’m sure many other places) The public pools were cleaned on Thurday afternoon. When they re-opened on Friday, only Whites could go swimming, It was Whites only until Tuesday, when “Mexicans” could swim, then on Wednesday “Negros” could swim, on Thursday “Orientals” were allowed in. Jews were forbidden from using the Public Pools.

The point being, as with Rev. Kevin, the world has not always been as fair as it is today. It still is not fair. To place the blame on the Catholic Church for the Culture in the U.S. at a point in time, is just dishonest.
Dude you are making no sence at all. What you are doing is justifying what happened to me by pointing to other bad things that happened during that era, and your saying its all right that it happened becaues it happened all over the U.S. its the norm, no problem, other people had problems too, so its ok for a nun to do that to kids. Now were did I say I blame the catholic church for the culture in the U.S… Don’t say something I didn’t say to make you and your point look good. You need to stop being dishonest because I never said that so stop spining the truth around because you are looking like a lier. So in a nut shell you are saying it was the culture back then and that makes it right. See so far you have not denied that is what you are saying. Dude you are one sick puppy.
 
I’m sorry if it pains some but the truth is the truth and that was one reason.
If someone is supposed to represent the truth, but they fall into a passion and do the opposite, it does not mean that the truth is now a lie. It means that a human being who was supposed to represent the truth, fell into sin.

I think that you understand this.
 
My grandparents left the Catholic Church do to racism. They were told at a particular parish in Sacramento, CA back sometime in the 60’s or so that they and their children had to sit in the back pews because they were black.
I’m sorry that happened. I hope you don’t take offence to this but in one of my sermons I read the “I had a dream” speach to a group of white senior citizens and most of them cried because they remember the injustice back then and I got a standing ovation. The reason I read it was my sermon was on loveing your neighbor, and M.L.K. was a very good example of that and his speach proved it.
 
If someone is supposed to represent the truth, but they fall into a passion and do the opposite, it does not mean that the truth is now a lie. It means that a human being who was supposed to represent the truth, fell into sin.

I think that you understand this.
True very true
 
Dude you are making no sence at all. What you are doing is justifying what happened to me by pointing to other bad things that happened during that era, and your saying its all right that it happened becaues it happened all over the U.S. its the norm, no problem, other people had problems too, so its ok for a nun to do that to kids. Now were did I say I blame the catholic church for the culture in the U.S… Don’t say something I didn’t say to make you and your point look good. You need to stop being dishonest because I never said that so stop spining the truth around because you are looking like a lier. So in a nut shell you are saying it was the culture back then and that makes it right. See so far you have not denied that is what you are saying. Dude you are one sick puppy.
Rev. “Dude” I don’t think it is I who does not get it. I spent time reviewing your posts on this thread and others last night. Your behavior, and flip flopping all over the board is the portrait of a sad man, who needs prayer. You go from one post that says that you hold the opposite of what the Catholic Church teaches, be it the Perpetual Virginity of Mary, or a wishy washy flip on Infant Baptism, (I’d like to see you preach about how you now belive in Infant Baptism to your Baptist Congregation.) To how mean God is and how you have lost your faith when people disagree with you. You post things like “Ha, you can’t prove it can you.” when someone replies to your postings and you are not convinced. But when someone is up front about the illogic of your posts, we are mean and non-christian, and you can read our hearts and souls. When stuck because your point is not accepted, you either stomp off like a little hurt child, (if your allegations against the “Nuns” are true, you may be emotionally stuck there.) or you post that, Well you believe what you want and I’ll believe what I want. Can you see the contradiction?

Nope, in reading Rev. “Dude’s” postings I come away less convinced that you are a “Rev,”

Yup it is too bad that there were times when kids were hit for being left handed, or not knowing answers, or any number of things, It’s too bad we needed a Dr. MLK Jr, It is even sadder that we still have to deal with racism, the effects of alcoholism and drug addiction in the world. An honest review of my postings (which I doubt you have the capacity for, due to your state of mind, and self absorption) will show that I never justified the treatment you or any kid got back when corporal punishment was acceptable, nor do I justify racism. What I did say was that it existed everywhere. You blamed the “Nuns” and when I posted that it was not just the “Nuns” you dismissed it and let us know that you did not know about the other abusers. Someone who had some insight and personal development would realize that, he was not the center of the Universe and stop blaming one group, for all the ills in their life and look at how society in general was different then and has changed. Not continue on the Poor me, those bad “Nuns” nothing else matters because they hit me. Don’t judge me, but let me judge you, “Cuz” I’m a Rev. and you have to respect me on a par with your clergy. Wa Wa Wa.

After claiming that I put words in your mouth, which a review of your posts will reveal I did not, you go on to say, “…its all right that it happened becaues it happened all over the U.S. its the norm, no problem, other people had problems too, so its ok for a nun to do that to kids…” Which I did not. I pointed out that your statements about the “Nuns” in your school being a valid reason for leaving the Catholic Church are bogus. That the strict discipline exacted in those days was everywhere, in civic and religious arenas. It in no way justifies what happeded to you or anyone. But to 30 years plus still blame your ills on what was the norm back then and not grow up, or get some therapy for something that you seem to feel caused so much damage, at the very least so you could be a more effective “Rev” is just wallowing in self pity. Most of us did get slapped around. I still have my grandfather’s razor strap, which saw three generations of backsides. I can still feel the sting of it sometimes when I look at it. But you know what, it made me an honest man. It showed me that there are real punishments, for our behavior. Sometimes those punishments are not just, but we can either use them to make ourselves better, or to wallow in self pity, and manipulate others.

I could be wrong, although after reading all your postings on various threads, I’d say you are one who wallows in self pity, and tries to manipulate people. I don’t say this in a disrespectful manner, rather I say it because I think you need help, and sometimes the medicine for people like yourself is a harsh look at reality. If people being up front with you, as many here on the forum have been has not been enough to wake you out of your pitty party, well then I restate my intention to ask our Lady, Mother of God, and perpetual virgin to interceed on your behalf. I to will offer my own prayers for your health, healing and eventual return to the Bosom of Christ and His Church.
 
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