So, I think we are finally getting to the heart of the matter, finally.
It is in our human nature to cry “it’s not fair” whenever we see a “perceived” injustice.
That is what I think is happening here.
Sorry to burst any bubbles- but why is this any of our business?
Why should people in the pews know the personal, private business that happens between a couple and their confessor?
Do we have that little faith in our Priests/Pastors/Bishops that we do not think that they will do what is necessary through the law?
Presumption is a very dangerous thing. One could even say they “presume” that anyone who does not “love their neighbor as themselves” should not be receiving. I see a lot of that in all the threads about AL- the presumption that I have the right to know, and to make judgments of what I think. None of us laity has that right, and I would think that we need to get that idea right out of our heads. Unless & until one is in this particular situation- what difference does it make what happens to someone else? It’s all I can do to keep myself on the right path, and it is way above my pay-grade to worry about such things.