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And what is then the solution if the couple accidentally reads catechism 2384:This ^ is something people already do.
This ^ is too. As a previous poster mentioned, and I can confirm from personal experience; A pastor will work with couples in a ‘do no harm to the couple’ fashion. That does not include accusing them of mortal sin and denying them the Eucharist.
“Contracting a new union, even if it is recognized by civil law, adds to the gravity of the rupture: the remarried spouse is then in a situation of public and permanent adultery:
If a husband, separated from his wife, approaches another woman, he is an adulterer because he makes that woman commit adultery, and the woman who lives with him is an adulteress, because she has drawn another’s husband to herself.”
and 1385:
“Anyone conscious of a grave sin must receive the sacrament of Reconciliation before coming to communion.”
and 1490:
“The movement of return to God, called conversion and repentance, entails sorrow for and abhorrence of sins committed, and the firm purpose of sinning no more in the future. Conversion touches the past and the future and is nourished by hope in God’s mercy.”
and asks:
How can we receive the eucharist, if we cannot have a valid confession prior as we have no firm resolve not to have sex next week?
For me it seems, that for the pastoral approach care has to be taken, that the couple do not gain too much knowledge about church teaching at the wrong time. And that also seems to be tricky, as the scripture passage cited above, already might give them a clue, yet they are going to hear it sooner or later by attending mass.