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Partial consent? As in what way?Would giving partial consent, but not full consent, count as rape?
Partial consent? As in what way?Would giving partial consent, but not full consent, count as rape?
It is because you are the one who appears falsely certain of the meaning of “mortal sin”.Would a Catholic who commits an act of mortal sin, knows he has committed an act of mortal sin, and is therefore not in the state of grace, be permitted to receive Holy Communion?
I have asked this question several times on the thread, and I have not seen a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer. It is as though this simple question, which concerns Catholic doctrine, has become confusing for some.
You’ve never been unsure of something? Of whether or not you are doing the right thing?Partial consent? As in what way?
I am sure the priest, in the accompaniment, indicated the need for continence, correct?You’ve never been unsure of something? Of whether or not you are doing the right thing?
Depends on the definition of “rape” you are using.So which would you say is true, that the person(s) in question are giving consent the sexual relations, or are they being raped?
I was asking a question, not trying to explain a situation. Another question would be is it possible to give partial consent in that situation?Partial consent? As in what way?
I was quite surprised by the definition of “grave sin” and “mortal sin” you paraphrased from Fr Hardon’s personal Catechism which predates the Vatican Catechism.I believe you have it backward. Per the Catechism, and per Father Hardon, MORTAL, Deadly, grave, and serious are synonyms, and ALL are involved in killing the relationship of the Soul to God, unlike venial sin in which a state of grace is maintained.
*"The “Revised Draft” leaves open for speculation most of the Church’s irreversible teaching on morality.
The “Revised Draft” is not a summary of Catholic Doctrine, but a compendium of Catholicism, Protestantism, and Theological speculation.
christianorder.com/features/features_2016/features_feb16.html… the meaning of mortal sin is not that of the Church’s universal ordinary magisterium."*
I have already given you the Catechism but I’ll do it again.I was quite surprised by the definition of “grave sin” and “mortal sin” you paraphrased from Fr Hardon’s personal Catechism which predates the Vatican Catechism.
This is because I believe it implicitly contradicts the 1992 Vatican Catechism and also the updated Canon Law of 1984.
I was not therefore wholly surprised to discover from my research on Fr Hardon that he was no fan of the new Vatican Catechism. Nor was he asked to formally assist with its drafting though he was consulted from time to time. He was also silenced from public teaching for the last 16 years of his life I believe. He was still a saintly man and very knowledgable…but clearly he took a somewhat poor tack near the end.
He wrote some hard words against the new Vatican Catechism, including its treatment of “mortal sin”:
christianorder.com/features/features_2016/features_feb16.html
So I am sorry TErgo, if I have to choose between Fr Hardon’s personal Catechism and Pope Benedict’s 1992 Catechism, or between Fr Hardon and Pope Francis…I will go with the Magisterium.
THE DEFINITION OF SIN
1849 Sin is an offense against reason, truth, and right conscience; it is failure in genuine love for God and neighbor caused by a perverse attachment to certain goods. It wounds the nature of man and injures human solidarity. It has been defined as "an utterance, a deed, or a desire contrary to the eternal law."121
1850 Sin is an offense against God: "Against you, you alone, have I sinned, and done that which is evil in your sight."122 Sin sets itself against God’s love for us and turns our hearts away from it. Like the first sin, it is disobedience, a revolt against God through the will to become "like gods,"123 knowing and determining good and evil. Sin is thus "love of oneself even to contempt of God."124 In this proud self- exaltation, sin is diametrically opposed to the obedience of Jesus, which achieves our salvation.125
1851 It is precisely in the Passion, when the mercy of Christ is about to vanquish it, that sin most clearly manifests its violence and its many forms: unbelief, murderous hatred, shunning and mockery by the leaders and the people, Pilate’s cowardice and the cruelty of the soldiers, Judas’ betrayal - so bitter to Jesus, Peter’s denial and the disciples’ flight. However, at the very hour of darkness, the hour of the prince of this world,126 the sacrifice of Christ secretly becomes the source from which the forgiveness of our sins will pour forth inexhaustibly.
III. THE DIFFERENT KINDS OF SINS
1852 There are a great many kinds of sins. Scripture provides several lists of them. The Letter to the Galatians contrasts the works of the flesh with the fruit of the Spirit: "Now the works of the flesh are plain: fornication, impurity, licentiousness, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, anger, selfishness, dissension, factions, envy, drunkenness, carousing, and the like. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things shall not inherit the Kingdom of God."127
1853 Sins can be distinguished according to their objects, as can every human act; or according to the virtues they oppose, by excess or defect; or according to the commandments they violate. They can also be classed according to whether they concern God, neighbor, or oneself; they can be divided into spiritual and carnal sins, or again as sins in thought, word, deed, or omission. The root of sin is in the heart of man, in his free will, according to the teaching of the Lord: "For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, fornication, theft, false witness, slander. These are what defile a man."128 But in the heart also resides charity, the source of the good and pure works, which sin wounds.
IV. THE GRAVITY OF SIN: MORTAL AND VENIAL SIN
1854 Sins are rightly evaluated according to their gravity. The distinction between mortal and venial sin, already evident in Scripture,129 became part of the tradition of the Church. It is corroborated by human experience.
1855 Mortal sin destroys charity in the heart of man by a grave violation of God’s law; it turns man away from God, who is his ultimate end and his beatitude, by preferring an inferior good to him.
Venial sin allows charity to subsist, even though it offends and wounds it.
1856 Mortal sin, by attacking the vital principle within us - that is, charity - necessitates a new initiative of God’s mercy and a conversion of heart which is normally accomplished within the setting of the sacrament of reconciliation:
When the will sets itself upon something that is of its nature incompatible with the charity that orients man toward his ultimate end, then the sin is mortal by its very object . . . whether it contradicts the love of God, such as blasphemy or perjury, or the love of neighbor, such as homicide or adultery. . . . But when the sinner’s will is set upon something that of its nature involves a disorder, but is not opposed to the love of God and neighbor, such as thoughtless chatter or immoderate laughter and the like, such sins are venial.130
1857 For a sin to be mortal, three conditions must together be met: "Mortal sin is sin whose object is grave matter and which is also committed with full knowledge and deliberate consent."131
1858 Grave matter is specified by the Ten Commandments, corresponding to the answer of Jesus to the rich young man: "Do not kill, Do not commit adultery, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Do not defraud, Honor your father and your mother."132 The gravity of sins is more or less great: murder is graver than theft. One must also take into account who is wronged: violence against parents is in itself graver than violence against a stranger.
1859 Mortal sin requires full knowledge and complete consent. It presupposes knowledge of the sinful character of the act, of its opposition to God’s law. It also implies a consent sufficiently deliberate to be a personal choice. Feigned ignorance and hardness of heart133 do not diminish, but rather increase, the voluntary character of a sin.
1860 Unintentional ignorance can diminish or even remove the imputability of a grave offense. But no one is deemed to be ignorant of the principles of the moral law, which are written in the conscience of every man. The promptings of feelings and passions can also diminish the voluntary and free character of the offense, as can external pressures or pathological disorders. Sin committed through malice, by deliberate choice of evil, is the gravest.
1861 Mortal sin is a radical possibility of human freedom, as is love itself. It results in the loss of charity and the privation of sanctifying grace, that is, of the state of grace. If it is not redeemed by repentance and God’s forgiveness, it causes exclusion from Christ’s kingdom and the eternal death of hell, for our freedom has the power to make choices for ever, with no turning back. However, although we can judge that an act is in itself a grave offense, we must entrust judgment of persons to the justice and mercy of God.
1862 One commits venial sin when, in a less serious matter, he does not observe the standard prescribed by the moral law, or when he disobeys the moral law in a grave matter, but without full knowledge or without complete consent.
1863 Venial sin weakens charity; it manifests a disordered affection for created goods; it impedes the soul’s progress in the exercise of the virtues and the practice of the moral good; it merits temporal punishment. Deliberate and unrepented venial sin disposes us little by little to commit mortal sin. However venial sin does not break the covenant with God. With God’s grace it is humanly reparable. "Venial sin does not deprive the sinner of sanctifying grace, friendship with God, charity, and consequently eternal happiness."134
While he is in the flesh, man cannot help but have at least some light sins. But do not despise these sins which we call “light”: if you take them for light when you weigh them, tremble when you count them. A number of light objects makes a great mass; a number of drops fills a river; a number of grains makes a heap. What then is our hope? Above all, confession.135
1864 "Therefore I tell you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven."136 There are no limits to the mercy of God, but anyone who deliberately refuses to accept his mercy by repenting, rejects the forgiveness of his sins and the salvation offered by the Holy Spirit.137 Such hardness of heart can lead to final impenitence and eternal loss.
V. THE PROLIFERATION OF SIN
1865 Sin creates a proclivity to sin; it engenders vice by repetition of the same acts. This results in perverse inclinations which cloud conscience and corrupt the concrete judgment of good and evil. Thus sin tends to reproduce itself and reinforce itself, but it cannot destroy the moral sense at its root.
1866 Vices can be classified according to the virtues they oppose, or also be linked to the capital sins which Christian experience has distinguished, following St. John Cassian and St. Gregory the Great. They are called “capital” because they engender other sins, other vices.138 They are pride, avarice, envy, wrath, lust, gluttony, and sloth or acedia.
1867 The catechetical tradition also recalls that there are “sins that cry to heaven”: the blood of Abel,139 the sin of the Sodomites,140 the cry of the people oppressed in Egypt,141 the cry of the foreigner, the widow, and the orphan,142 injustice to the wage earner.143
1868 Sin is a personal act. Moreover, we have a responsibility for the sins committed by others when we cooperate in them:
- by participating directly and voluntarily in them;
- by ordering, advising, praising, or approving them;
- by not disclosing or not hindering them when we have an obligation to do so;
- by protecting evil-doers.
1869 Thus sin makes men accomplices of one another and causes concupiscence, violence, and injustice to reign among them. Sins give rise to social situations and institutions that are contrary to the divine goodness. “Structures of sin” are the expression and effect of personal sins. They lead their victims to do evil in their turn. In an analogous sense, they constitute a "social sin."144
It is just my problem. Maybe I shouldn’t have mentioned it. I guess what grinds my gears is how the word is used, even correctly, when it doesn’t really matter. I think we have lost a sense of authority, as well as what it means to be a disciple. We are supposed to be students. I get the back and forth among ourselves. I also understand trying to come to terms with something we do not understand from the Pope. I do not understand how anyone can think they know better than the Pope though. It is in light of this that I have too often seen the word “prudential” used as an excuse to disregard what we are being taught.That’s interesting, can you explain more…
Admittedly I am using it in a more technical theological sense, that is, a judgement of the “practical intellect” when applying fixed universal principles to particular, concrete realities.
This is the crux of it, and it does not conform to Church dogma relative to the divorced, remarried and adultery. That it does not is what ought to be explained.He might have known it was a grave sin. He might even think he had mortal culpability, in which case, yes, he must receive confession before communion.
But then the priest may say, based on the full story, say that he didn’t sin mortally due to extenuating circumstance.
The pope disagrees with you. Given the choice between Thomas White’s opinion and the pope, I will go with the pope.This is the crux of it, and it does not conform to Church dogma relative to the divorced, remarried and adultery. That it does not is what ought to be explained.
“And he saith to them: Whoever shall put away his wife and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if the wife shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.” --Matthew 10:11-12
Note that this speaks of an “irregular marriage” itself as adultery. And then there is this:
“You have heard that it was said to them of old: Thou shalt not commit adultery. But I say unto you that whosoever shall look at a woman to lust after her, hath already committed adultery with her in his heart.” Matthew 5:27-28
I do not find in these New Testament verses a thing remotely like the “extenuating circumstances” or “nuance to culpability”, relative to conjugal relations, that you rely on in your reply.
When I was in the Diaconate program, the Fr Hardon’s ‘Modern Catholic Dictionary’ was a required text at Sacred Heart Major Seminary. It was the preferred text to cite when defining at Catholic term. It still is so today.I was quite surprised by the definition of “grave sin” and “mortal sin” you paraphrased from Fr Hardon’s personal Catechism which predates the Vatican Catechism.
This is because I believe it implicitly contradicts the 1992 Vatican Catechism and also the updated Canon Law of 1984…
Some people argue that the Bible should not be taken literally. For example, in Matthew 5:29: “If your right eye causes you to lust, pluck it out and throw it away.”“And he saith to them: Whoever shall put away his wife and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if the wife shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.” --Matthew 10:11-12
That is of course your prerogative, but it is hardly my opinion alone.The pope disagrees with you. Given the choice between Thomas White’s opinion and the pope, I will go with the pope.
Actually, I don’t see how it doesn’t conform.This is the crux of it, and it does not conform to Church dogma relative to the divorced, remarried and adultery. That it does not is what ought to be explained.
“And he saith to them: Whoever shall put away his wife and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if the wife shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.” --Matthew 10:11-12
Note that this speaks of an “irregular marriage” itself as adultery. And then there is this:
Yes, it’s objectively wrong situation to be in. That hasn’t changed.“You have heard that it was said to them of old: Thou shalt not commit adultery. But I say unto you that whosoever shall look at a woman to lust after her, hath already committed adultery with her in his heart.” Matthew 5:27-28
Just because something isn’t in the New Testament doesn’t mean it can’t still have value. Should we disregard mitigated culpability because Jesus didn’t address that when discussing lust? The CCC specifically talks about reduced moral culpability for masturbation, and it need not be limited to just that.I do not find in these New Testament verses a thing remotely like the “extenuating circumstances” or “nuance to culpability”, relative to conjugal relations, that you rely on in your reply.
Culpability is not a nuance. It is moral theology and Catholic teaching. By the way, the Scriptures says only that the one who put their spouse away and married another. That is, it only says that the one leaving is the one committing adultery. I don’t think anyone here has argued that dumping your spouse for another person is anything but adultery.I do not find in these New Testament verses a thing remotely like the “extenuating circumstances” or “nuance to culpability”, relative to conjugal relations, that you rely on in your reply.
I can’t speak for anyone but myself, but I am not in any way claiming that I think I know 'better than the Pope.'It is just my problem. Maybe I shouldn’t have mentioned it. I guess what grinds my gears is how the word is used, even correctly, when it doesn’t really matter. I think we have lost a sense of authority, as well as what it means to be a disciple. We are supposed to be students. I get the back and forth among ourselves. I also understand trying to come to terms with something we do not understand from the Pope. I do not understand how anyone can think they know better than the Pope though. It is in light of this that I have too often seen the word “prudential” used as an excuse to disregard what we are being taught.
Maybe we need a little prudence.