My confessor recently reminded me that rigid approaches and strong set positions in the face of life’s contradictions is usually a sign we are not coping due to limited personal resources.
I have to admit he is probably right.
** Your confessor also would remind you that faith is assent to what God has revealed, as distinct from human-produced ambiguity, no matter how well intended. What has God revealed about marriage and adultery? You already know the answer to that–it’s what the Church has taught for 2,000 years as reiterated in this thread, no matter how “rigid” you may think that is.**
The contradictions are not real, rather we do not yet have the understanding or faith needed to resolve them or wait for them to be resolved.
The contradictions are not real because Pope Francis has neither the intent nor authority to change doctrine. What is real, however, is a humanly-manufactured contradiction embodied in the proposal that what the Church has been teaching about the doctrines at issue is lacking, and that it has been lacking because “we do not yet have the understanding or faith needed to resolve them or wait for them to be resolved.” Forgive me, Blue, but that sounds like some sort of agnosticism.
So often it sounds more like the need to be in complete control of others or even ourselves.
** “Be perfect, as your Heavenly Father is perfect”. No one wants to control you, Blue, but I would love to be perfect someday-- in complete control of myself. That can be done only by acting in accordance with Church teaching as you find it, not as you wish it to be. **