I assume that is said ironically. But now that you have entered the discussion, do you think the Episcopalians who spare a thought for Fr. Curie are happy about his becoming an Episcopal priest?
Here is someone who was not faithful to vows he freely took. Now it’s ok with the Episcopal church for him to marry. If he should later prove unfaithful to the marriage vows how would they view him? Still OK?
I think it was said with a question as to what exactly is at work here. I sense, and I am ready to be dead wrong, that some RC’s hope very much that Fr. Cutie cannot convect a valid Eucharist, presumably because they don’t want Episcopalians to have any such claim to this. Perhaps I am wrong. Otherwise I’m at a loss as to why there is all this extraordinary interest in a subject that should be of no real concern to a RC.
As far as I can discern from the Episcopal world, based on blogs, it seems most are taking a wait and see attitude. Fr. Cutie cannot practice as a priest in TEC for a year. He will be lay only. If at the end of that period, he is deemed appropriate for full duty as a priest, I assume that that would be proper. I cannot judge from afar that is certain.
I would agree that Fr. Cutie should have asked for release from his vows, or announced his intent to leave the church before being “caught.” Of course, many Catholic priests have not been faithful to their vows as we know, and most were not initially at least removed from priestly duties.
I see no essential ipso facto conclusion that because he did not follow his vows of chastity (presumably) that he will be at greater risk to be unfaithful in marriage. That is akin to comparing apples and oranges.
You are quite right, it is perfectly fine for a priest in TEC to marry. Most are. Our last priest, who retired left the RCC to marry and was a priest for 30 some years before his retirement. We loved him dearly. Both of our priests at present are married. One to another Episcopal priest and the other, our new rector to is married to someone in business. Both have grown children.
If a priest is unfortunate enough to have a failed marriage, I’m sure mostly we would feel sad. I can’t tell you what steps are gone through on the diocesan level regarding that. I’m not sure if a divorced priest can continue or not frankly. Divorce under any circumstances is sad indeed. We are all failed humans to one degree or another. We recognize that and have sympathy for anyone who is suffering in this manner. Jesus teaches that divorce is not acceptable. Like other things, we do our best, fail sometimes, and are forgiven and do our best not to repeat our failings.