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jericho777
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I have been remiss to point out there is the Holy Spirit who upholds us in our circumstances. That’s where faith comes into the equation.There is no doubt maintaining one’s own identity in a greater setting is a more difficult task and requires greater skill. However, it is not impossible and reaps greater rewards. In relation to the Irish, what I said only applies to Irish people who are open-minded. It does not apply to those who are not, and being Irish does not mean you will automatically be open minded. One of the reasons the Irish, similarly to the Chinese, acquired the capacity to maintain their own identity and integrate is because China and Ireland were both poor countries and people traveled in search of work, coming home when they could. Have you been anywhere in the world that does not have a Chinese take-a-way and an Irish pub?
As such, they acquired the skill to both maintain their identity and integrate.
I can’t say I agree with you on inter-marriage. As discussed above, inter-marriage is unquestionably more difficult and places a greater demand on the couple. However, there are people who manage it very well. In my part of the world, a ‘mixed’ marriage is a Protestant and a Catholic. ‘Mixed’ marriages are actually quite prevalent, and there are people who manage it very well. Of course there are those who don’t, but they by and large don’t get married to someone whose views differ from theirs.
In mixed marriages there is someone who will have to compromise their beliefs there is no way around it.