Yes - because a person’s gender does not make them a good parent/role model, etc. There are plenty of heterosexual parents who are violent, harmful and destructive to children. I would most certainly say that is not preferable just because they are heterosexual.
You have, typically, stacked the deck and offered an invalid argument. The issue is not violent parents unless you compare a violent heterosexual with a violent homosexual.
I’ll try to make this a little clearer than I’ve made it so far. Every person on the planet has one mother and one father. The mother is a female, the father is a male. Females are different from males and they each give their children something the other cannot give. A father cannot be a mother; a mother cannot be a father. Children raised by homosexuals are missing one or the other and the result, no matter what you think, is an abnormal upbringing. It begins with telling the child he or she has two mommies or two daddies. That is a lie. When you start with a lie, the game is over. One can indoctrinate the child and get away with it for a time, but eventually the child will catch up. Most of them will accept the lie because children tend to love the people who raise them no matter who they are, but they’re still living with a lie.
Also going along with your argument, you are then asserting that a single parent is harmful to a child’s mental health status.
Another fallacious argument. A single female parent does not pretend she’s a male and doesn’t lie to her child about her role as a parent. Also, most children raised by a single parent know who the other parent is and often spend time with that other parent.
What if a child grows up to homosexual? Would their heterosexual parents then be abnormal to them?
I have no idea what the purpose of that question is, but, sadly, such children would probably, and often do, see the abnormalty in themselves. And they’d be right.
What is normalcy in parenting or in a home environment? The “nuclear family”? Less than 25% of families in the US fit that description, so that can hardly be considered to be the standard or the majority.
You changed horses in mid-stream. What you call ‘the standard’ has nothing to do with normalcy. Because our society has rejected God and lost its way does not change normalty in parenting. The fact you think it does testifies to the weakness of your reasoning throughout just about all of your messages.
Lust and self-gratification are not love.