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It never ceases to amaze me that people look at Wikipedia as a reliable source
eunuchIt never ceases to amaze me that people look at Wikipedia as a reliable source
No, I’m saying that there is no grounds to deny certain rights to homosexuals. These rights have already been defined - under marriage law and in society as we see it today.So what you’re saying is that homosexual activists are the arbitrators of what is a right and what isn’t as it pertains to homosexual acts?
Good example of when one needs a VERY good reason to withold rights from certain people. When not doing so would cause a real and probably danger to others, then you have just cause to do so. Allowing homosexuals the same rights under marriage does not cause a real and probable danger to others.The deaf who wish to be crossing guards could lobby for it being their “right” to have employment of their choice.
Marriage has been around for a VERY long time and has had a huge variety of inclusive rights and restrictions on who can marry. I can’t speak for all of them in the limited space of this thread, even if I did know everything about all of them.So, what you’re saying is that the whole world has been making a mistake about marriage since the beginning of time (i.e. thousands of years) and not just since the time of Christ? (i.e. the past 2000 years.)
The legal one. When you include more than two parties in a contract that’s designed for two people, things get complicated.My question for you is: Who’s definition of marriage are you using?
Another question? Who invented marriage?
Yes pretty much, due to what I think was a complex hormonal imbalance in the womb, I was born with the body of a male but the “brain-wireing” of a female. Since one cannot change how their brain is wired, my only realistic option to bring my mind more closely inline with my body was to undergo surgery.I’m also concerned about how you view yourself. Just from a couple of comments you’ve made, it seems that you were led to believe that you were your body was physically “mixed up” and that you were born “wrong” and that you needed to get the “right” body parts to fit with how you felt inside.
Nobody. I figured it out for myself for the most part. Two years of visiting a specialist gender clinic in London and living twoand a half years in the role of a female before I had surgery confirmed it.Who told you that you were born “wrong”?
I was given toys usually given to boys and not girls. I was made to wear boys clothes and not girls. I was expected to have male social circles in school. I was made to do physical education with boys and do sports normally associated with males as well as having to change with them (ewwwwww). It was socially unnaceptable for me to wear pink, to have female mannerisms, to like things like chick-flicks and romance, the list goes on.You said you grew up in a “normal” family, but that you were made to do activities that were “masculine”. What kinds of masculine activities were you made to perform?
For the first 21 years of my life, I was physically male. My mind has always been that of a female, since birth. Therefore I had been “wrong” up until the age of 21, which was when I fist started taking hormones and undergoing treatment to change my body. I had the surgery in May last year, which was the final step. I am still not 100% “right”, as someone said earlier my DNA is not female, but that doesn’t matter to me in the slightest, since the law, society, my family friends and co-workers all accept me as a female now.In another reply you indicated you thought you were “male” until you got older (early 20’s, I think). So, were you right or wrong for the first many years of your life?
Seems to happen all too oftenThere’s no credibility to claiming whatever the heck one wants to from a passage in scripture.
Do you have like total ignorance of that passage? Do you like not try and read the Hebrew text and see what things really say, or are you like brainwashed? Do you know what a m’haym-ne is? Like it’s the word that was translated to eunuch in that passage. Why don’t you look it up.Do you know what a eunuch is? It’s someone born without genitals. It has nothing to do without them being homosexual. Look “eunuch” up in the dictionary…
That website is this, I forgot to put it in:homosexualeunuchsandthebible.com/Do you have like total ignorance of that passage? Do you like not try and read the Hebrew text and see what things really say, or are you like brainwashed? Do you know what a m’haym-ne is? Like it’s the word that was translated to eunuch in that passage. Why don’t you look it up.
Anyhow, this website is helpful. And thank you everyone for stating a good argument, because everyone in this forum has very good insight and point of views.
This is incorrect. You really should look at historical and anthropological evidence…which points to marriage having the purpose of raising the next generation (or the biological result of sexual relations between a man and a woman). I would love to see some credible evidence to the contrary.I don’t know who -origionally- had the idea, as I said, there have been many definitions throughout history.
I like your view, some people fail to realize that as time goes by, we learn more about ourselves, which I believe is God’s plan. People believe that religion is so simple, and it’s not. If people just chose to accept things and not question things, we wouldn’t have Christianity and we would all think the world was flat. If you think you are questioning your faith or opposing God when you question somethings,especial in the physical world, your not. Faith is believing in this mystery of God and Jesus, unseen things. What is physical should be questioned. People have different physical appearances, part of the physical, but I believe love and faith and hope are not physical and come from God. Love cannot come from Satan, so if two men love each other, it is not evil because love is not evil. Homosexuality and heterosexuality cannot be evil if your relationship has love and has no fear, I believe it comes from God. There are twisted relationships, like being afraid of your partner because of abuse, masochism, or promiscuous open relationships that are not good. What are the real problems? Anything that is love is not from Satan. Love is from God.Really? You’re claiming to know about every single historic definition of marriage everywhere? Wow, ok. Would like to see some credible evidence of THAT.
Besides, the point is that we know a lot more about ourselves than we used to. We understand now that there isn’t actually anything wrong with homosexuality. “Marriage” might of once been a term relating to “the purpose of raising the next generation”. It is now a lot more than that. It encompasses things that every couple should have the right to, regardless of sexuality. Whatever you call it, marriage, civil partnership, it doesn’t matter. What matters is everyone having equal rights.
You weren’t born wrong, but you were born different. Different is not wrong. All love comes from God.No, I’m saying that there is no grounds to deny certain rights to homosexuals. These rights have already been defined - under marriage law and in society as we see it today.
Good example of when one needs a VERY good reason to withold rights from certain people. When not doing so would cause a real and probably danger to others, then you have just cause to do so. Allowing homosexuals the same rights under marriage does not cause a real and probable danger to others.
Marriage has been around for a VERY long time and has had a huge variety of inclusive rights and restrictions on who can marry. I can’t speak for all of them in the limited space of this thread, even if I did know everything about all of them.
The legal one. When you include more than two parties in a contract that’s designed for two people, things get complicated.
I don’t know who -origionally- had the idea, as I said, there have been many definitions throughout history.
Yes pretty much, due to what I think was a complex hormonal imbalance in the womb, I was born with the body of a male but the “brain-wireing” of a female. Since one cannot change how their brain is wired, my only realistic option to bring my mind more closely inline with my body was to undergo surgery.
Nobody. I figured it out for myself for the most part. Two years of visiting a specialist gender clinic in London and living twoand a half years in the role of a female before I had surgery confirmed it.
I was given toys usually given to boys and not girls. I was made to wear boys clothes and not girls. I was expected to have male social circles in school. I was made to do physical education with boys and do sports normally associated with males as well as having to change with them (ewwwwww). It was socially unnaceptable for me to wear pink, to have female mannerisms, to like things like chick-flicks and romance, the list goes on.
For the first 21 years of my life, I was physically male. My mind has always been that of a female, since birth. Therefore I had been “wrong” up until the age of 21, which was when I fist started taking hormones and undergoing treatment to change my body. I had the surgery in May last year, which was the final step. I am still not 100% “right”, as someone said earlier my DNA is not female, but that doesn’t matter to me in the slightest, since the law, society, my family friends and co-workers all accept me as a female now.
Seems to happen all too oftenI’ve always wondered how anybody can view scripture as a reliable tool to base their morals on, since thousands of people have been trying to interpret them for thousands of years yet still we cannot decide on their meaning…
“If all the Christians who have called other Christians “not really a Christian” were to vanish, there’d be no Christians left.”
You don’t address what I said at all. I didn’t say I know everything, but I have done enough historical and anthropological reading to know that if you will be hard pressed to find **any **evidence to the contrary. I don’t think you have done ANY research of this kind quite frankly. You are very cavalier about your “facts”, much of which is based on your own “feelings” and what your friends say and not on reality.Really? You’re claiming to know about every single historic definition of marriage everywhere? Wow, ok. Would like to see some credible evidence of THAT.
Besides, the point is that we know a lot more about ourselves than we used to. We understand now that there isn’t actually anything wrong with homosexuality. “Marriage” might of once been a term relating to “the purpose of raising the next generation”. It is now a lot more than that. It encompasses things that every couple should have the right to, regardless of sexuality. Whatever you call it, marriage, civil partnership, it doesn’t matter. What matters is everyone having equal rights.
Thank you for this piece of semi-heretical “theology.” The problem is, disordered love can be disguised as a good, non-love can be disguised as love, and lust can be disguised as love. And all can be rationalized as love, even when not much effort is made to disguise. Our primary helpful accomplice in such disguises and rationalizations is the devil; our secondary accomplice is faulty vision and faulty education.Love cannot come from Satan, so if two men love each other, it is not evil because love is not evil. Homosexuality and heterosexuality cannot be evil if your relationship has love and has no fear, I believe it comes from God…Anything that is love is not from Satan. Love is from God.
No one said she was born wrong. No one said she wasn’t created out of love. All humans are created because of a God who loves them. She’s the one indicating she wasn’t made “right”. What she’s done to her body indicates such…You weren’t born wrong, but you were born different. Different is not wrong. All love comes from God.
Point 1: This is a Christian forum.I don’t think you understand the topic. Listen carefully: You are using religious ideas (5&6) as a means to tell people that may not even believe in those statements they can not get married. This was about governmental/social reasons, yet you insist on bringing up religious values.
On point 1, i understand that roles and physical gender are not the same thing. My questions was why there has to be male and female (even of both roles, which you ever stated can be changed,) to raise a child. as stated in point 3 as well, i know there are fundamental, unchangeable differences between the genders, but why do both have to be present? You have not answered this question without religious beliefs.
On point 4, no kidding love is going to be different between them. not all heterosexual love is the same. I’d argue that no heterosexual love is the same. You will never find two of the exact same relationship. And individual has different forms of love for their spouse than they do their best friend, but does than mean one love is greater than another?
I don’t understand how gay parenting would make it not first world (don’t involve religious beliefs in the answer). If you’re saying that artificially creating life is not first world, it seems that only first world nations are capable of this, so I don’t understand.
So, according to scripture, eunuchs were either born that way, or they were castrated by men or they made themselves that way for the sake of the kingdom of heaven, and they were born eunuchs to partake in homosexual activities and … oops, I mistakenly put in something which isn’t there…I never mentioned that everyone who thinks something is a sin is full of hate, and I never mentioned discrimination. Born eunuchs is…Matthew 19:12 “For there are eunuchs who were born that way from their mother’s womb; and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men; and there are also eunuchs who made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. He who is able to accept this, let him accept it.”
And maybe this website might make you think : homosexualeunuchsandthebible.com/
Elizabeth, your arguments are strong and coherent. Thank you for your valuable points.If you’re alluding to Paul’s Letter about the universality of Christ’s message and the seamlessness of his Mystical Body, wow do you misunderstand this passage. (Galatians 3:28?)
Paul was so NOT confused about gender. Nor was he referring to the obliteration, merging, or interchangeability of gender.
It would be so terrific if people referring to Scripture, or quoting it, would get educated about its contextual meaning. The love emanating from God, through Jesus, never included the love of immorality, and never will.
First off, an interpretation CAN be wrong. The Holy Spirit leads all to the truth. There can’t be 2 or 5 or 10 different “truths”. One for each person who has a different way of thinking? Be honest with yourself. Ask yourself if there really is ONE TRUTH or many variations…What does scripture say? If there is ONE TRUTH, do you think it’s going to be accepted by all? Of course not. But there is ONE TRUTH.first off, an interpretation can’t be wrong, it’s an interpretation. Also, I know that it doesn’t mean there is no gender, we can all sleep with whoever, so why don’t you stop assuming, because you know what people who assume make themselves? Anyhows, what I meant is we are all God’s children,
Just want to respond to your response indicating you’re following the legal definition of marriage. But, that doesn’t make sense. There was a legal definition. You guys didn’t like it. You want the law changed. So, you’re actually fighting to change the law according to your beliefs. Then you can actually say you’re using the legal definition of marriage. Until then, you’re not!!!No, I’m saying that there is no grounds to deny certain rights to homosexuals. These rights have already been defined - under marriage law and in society as we see it today.
Good example of when one needs a VERY good reason to withold rights from certain people. When not doing so would cause a real and probably danger to others, then you have just cause to do so. Allowing homosexuals the same rights under marriage does not cause a real and probable danger to others.
Marriage has been around for a VERY long time and has had a huge variety of inclusive rights and restrictions on who can marry. I can’t speak for all of them in the limited space of this thread, even if I did know everything about all of them.
The legal one. When you include more than two parties in a contract that’s designed for two people, things get complicated.
I don’t know who -origionally- had the idea, as I said, there have been many definitions throughout history.
Yes pretty much, due to what I think was a complex hormonal imbalance in the womb, I was born with the body of a male but the “brain-wireing” of a female. Since one cannot change how their brain is wired, my only realistic option to bring my mind more closely inline with my body was to undergo surgery.
Nobody. I figured it out for myself for the most part. Two years of visiting a specialist gender clinic in London and living twoand a half years in the role of a female before I had surgery confirmed it.
I was given toys usually given to boys and not girls. I was made to wear boys clothes and not girls. I was expected to have male social circles in school. I was made to do physical education with boys and do sports normally associated with males as well as having to change with them (ewwwwww). It was socially unnaceptable for me to wear pink, to have female mannerisms, to like things like chick-flicks and romance, the list goes on.
For the first 21 years of my life, I was physically male. My mind has always been that of a female, since birth. Therefore I had been “wrong” up until the age of 21, which was when I fist started taking hormones and undergoing treatment to change my body. I had the surgery in May last year, which was the final step. I am still not 100% “right”, as someone said earlier my DNA is not female, but that doesn’t matter to me in the slightest, since the law, society, my family friends and co-workers all accept me as a female now.
Seems to happen all too oftenI’ve always wondered how anybody can view scripture as a reliable tool to base their morals on, since thousands of people have been trying to interpret them for thousands of years yet still we cannot decide on their meaning…
“If all the Christians who have called other Christians “not really a Christian” were to vanish, there’d be no Christians left.”
Actually, I read the first paragraph of this site. First off, of course the eunuchs were trusted not to sleep with the women…they couldn’t! They were physically incapable of doing that!!!That website is this, I forgot to put it in:homosexualeunuchsandthebible.com/
You said it, I didn’t (no need to emphasis male/female parts ofSo “father” is defined by what is between his legs? What’s that really got to do with bringing up a child? (Unless you’re a catholic preist LOL)
Also what about hermaphrodites? Intersex people? Where do they stand? And transexuals? Gender and sex are not black and white concepts you know. There are variables right across the board.
It sounds to me like you’re saying “A child needs to be bought up by one person with a penis between their legs and one person with a vagina.” Which is really a pretty stupid statement since, as I said, the genetalia of the parents should have no bearing on the upbringing of a child - but the social roles of the parents does, and this is variable and switchable.