Gay Marriage and Freedom of Religion

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I’m sorry – I thought you said you were Catholic. If I knew you were Protestant I would have made a different argument.
since when does an observation mean I’m not Catholic?
Did you really just post those two things back-to-back? That’s called cognitive dissonance.
actually, its not. That was to show that even if the church changed its teachings, they wouldn’t be incorrect in terms of absolute (that is, not personal) morality, so why be worried about changing? See my comment about social power in my previous response. It’s easy to say the Church is right therefore it’s right, but that doesn’t make it right (in terms of absolute truth, sure things can be bound and loosed in Heaven, but that doesn’t change truth.)
Yes, the Church is the Body of Christ. She speaks with His authority. She is infallible in her teachings. Question it if you wish, but just know why Catholics believe her. It’s a spiral argument.
Jesus never said questioning was a sin, did he?
I was a left-wing extremist for the first 25 years of my life. I used to believe all of the things you’re currently saying. I even made the same arguments. I’m not scared to step out – I’ve been around the block a time or two. It’s just that your logic is flawed.
Supporting one thing that is the same a left wing extremists does not mean I’m a left wing extremist. And I could just as easily say your logic is flawed. Different does not mean flawed.
 
These personal attacks really need to stop.

Look at it this way. The church is infallible, that is, un changing because it is correct…but only in doctrine (so only partially infallible as a whole?). Ok, so the doctrine comes from the Bible. But the Bible is interpreted literally in some cases (the Eucharist) and symbolically in others (eye for an eye). Who decides what is interpreted as what? The church. So the church claims sole control over interoperation of the source from which it’s claims it’s infallibility. Interesting.

17Jesus replied, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by man, but by my Father in heaven. 18And I tell you that you are Peter,[a] and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades** will not overcome it.[c] 19I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven; whatever you bind on earth will be[d] bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be[e] loosed in heaven.”

So who’s to say the church was not corrupted early on and never even taught the truth about certain aspects (because it didn’t have to have a teaching on them because they weren’t an issue at the time)? But it wouldn’t matter because what every it says is obviously true. And yet it has control over the interoperation of it’s source of infallibility.

You say i’m uneducated and un informed? I say you only look at one side (your articles were from the center of republican news, of course they’re going to show any and every negative aspect of something they don’t agree with) and are scared to step out.

The funny thing is that none of this in any way affects any of our ability to love God.**

Partially infallible? I suppose one could say that. Not every word coming from the Pope’s mouth is infallible, ONLY when he is proclaiming doctrine and dogma regarding Faith and Morals. Also the Church does not depend only on the Bible for its teachings, but also upon the writings of the Early Church Fathers, who were mostly, if not all, direct followers of the apostles. That is to say, they received their instruction from those who were closest to Jesus while he was here on Earth. The Church also bases its teachings on Traditions that have been studied and found not to be in conflict with either the Bible, or the teachings of the Early Church Fathers.

Unless you have Faith in the protection of the Holy Spirit over the teachings of the Chuch, which Jesus sent to the Apostles on Pentecost Sunday, you will keep running in circles trying to understand something that can be accepted only through Faith.
 
NoMoreGames,

In case you’re actually interested in genuine knowledge rather than mere adversarial confrontation…which seems unlikely…here are a few articles to get you started with the anti-brainwashing:

The Dutch Decline - what gay marriage means where it’s legal

Feminist who finds your arguments unpersuasive and ridiculous

What happens when sex-as-procreation is isolated from sex-as-recreation - the Swedish progressiveness. Oh, and Norway, too. And Denmark. And the Netherlands. So yeah.

In short, and hopefully without being mean, you lack the factual and philosophical understanding to meaningfully engage this debate. That doesn’t make you a bad person, just uninformed. The fact that you respond as if you don’t care, however…well…perhaps that’s just my misunderstanding. Please do read the articles and feel free to visit the articles they link to…

…'cuz as it stands, you’re just kicking against the goad.

God Bless,
RyanL
Ryan, gay appologist will not take thier “precious” time to read anything you suggest. They already know everything, didn’t you get the memo? They, that is “gay” appoligist, already have it all figured out, for their libido told them so.

As to caring, they don’t, there is one thing they care about, that is their narcissistic* selves. There are many “homosexuals” that just want to be left alone to live their lives as they see fit, but when it comes to the “gay” appoligist, the “gay” right activist, it is their desire to shove their will done others throats. by their nature they are rapist, and what they want to do is rape society and call it a right.:cool:

** Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, need for admiration, extreme self-involvement, and lack of empathy for others. Individuals with this disorder are usually arrogantly self-assured and confident. They expect to be noticed as superior. Many highly successful individuals might be considered narcissistic. However, this disorder is only diagnosed when these behaviors become persistent and very disabling or distressing.

Complications:

Vulnerability in self-esteem makes individuals with this disorder very sensitive to criticism or defeat. Although they may not show it outwardly, criticism may haunt these individuals these individuals and may leave them feeling humiliated, degraded, hollow, and empty. They may react with disdain, rage, or defiant counterattack. Their social life is often impaired due to problems derived from entitlement, the need for admiration, and the relative disregard for the sensitivities of others. Though their excessive ambition and confidence may lead to high achievement; performance may be disrupted due to intolerance of criticism* or defeat. Sometimes vocational functioning can be very low, reflecting an unwillingness to take a risk in competitive or other situations in which defeat is possible. Individuals with this disorder have special difficulties adjusting to growing old and losing their former ?superiority?.
 
**I was providing you with these verses to *support ***you - not to attack you.

As for Matt. 7 - in this chapter, Jesus isn’t condemning judging others. He is saying they we shouldn’t judge wrongly because we’ll be judged by the same measuring stick by which we judge. That’s why he uses the hyperbole about the splinter and the beam.

That’s why he says in John 7:24 that we are to judge* rightly*. If we can differentiate, we are supposed to judge.
What we are not to do is judge somebody’s heart. Only God sees what’s in the heart.
Im very sorry!

I am sitll rather new, coming to the faith and Jesus through Baptism about 13 or so years ago.

My ability to analyze readings is weak, but improving. My spiritual age is that of a very faithful teen.

I misunderstood your quotes.

Again–very sorry!
 
wow that is ironic. And my paris we call them C&Es, but i guess she’s more of a C&B 😃

Do you still consider attending the reception as you endorsing it? Could you just opt of out the ceremony itself, or maybe even just the vows?
No–as my priest explained it, one can attend a celebration in support of someone as a means of non-judgement and love without endorsing what they do.

My family attended my Catholic wedding. They did it as support though they have issues with the religion.

I can just not go to the ceremony, but we havent gotten there yet.

We have only gotten as far as gaining understanding of why our children would not be in attendance for any portion of the event.
 
corn was designed for eating, and yet now a days we’re making fuel out of it. Houses? Designed for protection from the elements, now used to show off wealth and multiple other things. Just because something isn’t used as it was initially designed doesn’t mean it is an improper use.
Oh boy!

Ethanol is not a valid argument against the biology of the human to justify same-sex union.

People can be utilized as a food source as well–but obviously they are not. Corn is an inanimate object with no soul, no heart, no life line, and certainly lacks the pleasures and ability of intercourse. Just b/c sources once used for food may be used for energy–it isn’t changing their purpose. Corn is still energy–a starch–a sugar–that can be burned by the human body or a gas consuming machine.

They didn’t turn Corn into amino acids.

And shelters have always been designed to be shelter, just some have had more money to make them prettier. Much evidence found in the Bible including scripture quotes of why it is okay for the Vatican to be a beautiful Vatican and not just a shack in the middle of Rome.

You can go back to all of human history and find evidence of this. Even in Jesus’ time.

This really will go too far into territory of which I am not comfortable–but in the end, homosexuals MUST find other means to utilize their biology to fulfill their coupling desires be it for love or promiscuity.

I know often it is referenced that the animal kingdom has many examples of homosexual behavior. But in those instances, again–it is contrary to biology. Also it ignores the fact that humans are the one species who opts into the act for enjoyment. The other species do not.

If we were to accept the behavior of other species to justify human action and human rights, we would find ways to legalize canabalism, rape, assault, and murder. All of these things occur in the animal kingdom.
 
My ability to analyze readings is weak, but improving…
Don’t worry about analyzing, the Church will tell you what the readings mean and you are not able to interpret any other way :rolleyes: Ok, done with the sarcasm, sorry about that.
Partially infallible? I suppose one could say that. Not every word coming from the Pope’s mouth is infallible, ONLY when he is proclaiming doctrine and dogma regarding Faith and Morals. Also the Church does not depend only on the Bible for its teachings, but also upon the writings of the Early Church Fathers, who were mostly, if not all, direct followers of the apostles. That is to say, they received their instruction from those who were closest to Jesus while he was here on Earth. The Church also bases its teachings on Traditions that have been studied and found not to be in conflict with either the Bible, or the teachings of the Early Church Fathers.

Unless you have Faith in the protection of the Holy Spirit over the teachings of the Chuch, which Jesus sent to the Apostles on Pentecost Sunday, you will keep running in circles trying to understand something that can be accepted only through Faith.
So how does the church control what it is fallible on and what it isn’t? Isn’t partial infallibility enough to at least question all of it? I suppose that was my initial confusion.

Protection is one thing, infallibility is something completely different. Let’s go back to the Garden of Eden. Adam and Eve had God’s protection within the garden, didn’t they? And yet they still caused the fall of every human after them. No human con avoid this. The Church is human. To ignore that fact is to ignore one’s own humanity. I’m not saying that Jesus’ words mean nothing, of course they do. But if the first man couldn’t even perfectly avoid temptation, how can any man (Save Jesus and His Mother)?
Oh boy!

Ethanol is not a valid argument against the biology of the human to justify same-sex union.

People can be utilized as a food source as well–but obviously they are not. Corn is an inanimate object with no soul, no heart, no life line, and certainly lacks the pleasures and ability of intercourse. Just b/c sources once used for food may be used for energy–it isn’t changing their purpose. Corn is still energy–a starch–a sugar–that can be burned by the human body or a gas consuming machine.

They didn’t turn Corn into amino acids.

And shelters have always been designed to be shelter, just some have had more money to make them prettier. Much evidence found in the Bible including scripture quotes of why it is okay for the Vatican to be a beautiful Vatican and not just a shack in the middle of Rome.

You can go back to all of human history and find evidence of this. Even in Jesus’ time.
ok so the examples were semi (if not completely) ridiculous 😛 But that doesn’t change the fact that just because something is limited to it’s designed function. When you say corn is energy, so no matter how we use it, it’s ok. Corn does not make that energy to be harvested by humans, it makes it for itself to grow and reproduce.

As far as the Vatican, wouldn’t it make more sense to use those funds to make all of humanity (poor, hungry, sick) more beautiful? But that’s another topic completely 😛
This really will go too far into territory of which I am not comfortable–but in the end, homosexuals MUST find other means to utilize their biology to fulfill their coupling desires be it for love or promiscuity.
Actually, since both aspects of the reproductive system are not present (male and female), it seems that gay sex is about stimulating the nervous system, not necessarily specifically the reproductive nerves (as Ryan put it, slots X, Y, and Z), than it is about the reproductive system. So can it be said that stimulating nervous tissues is a miss use of them?
I know often it is referenced that the animal kingdom has many examples of homosexual behavior. But in those instances, again–it is contrary to biology. Also it ignores the fact that humans are the one species who opts into the act for enjoyment. The other species do not.

If we were to accept the behavior of other species to justify human action and human rights, we would find ways to legalize canabalism, rape, assault, and murder. All of these things occur in the animal kingdom.
Trust me, the animal kingdom justifications frustrate me just as much. But I don’t think it is necessarily right to say that the animals do not do the act for enjoyment. The stimulation make the act desirable, hence they do it because their bodies are telling their brains it feels good.
 
Im very sorry!

I am sitll rather new, coming to the faith and Jesus through Baptism about 13 or so years ago.

My ability to analyze readings is weak, but improving. My spiritual age is that of a very faithful teen.

I misunderstood your quotes.

Again–very sorry!
No problem! I’ve done the very same thing.
I just wanted to make sure that you were confident that you made the right decision.

Your brother’s acceptance of your absence also shows the love and respect you must have for each other - despite this situation.
It’s a shame that others in your family circle can’t see that you’re doing this out of love.

Anyway - God bless!
 
could you lighten up on the color? if you can not see into some ones heart, how can you judge at all. I think what was supposed to be mean was that you have your beliefs, but do not measure people by how they fit into your beliefs. How can you judge a specific individual on any level if you can not know their heart?
Your partially right - if John 7:24 was the only scripture verse dealing with judging, but it’s not. Therefore it must be taken in context with others.

Matthew 7:16 emphatically says that, "You will know them by their fruits."
We are not to judge a person’s heart - but by their actions - their fruits.
 
Your partially right - if John 7:24 was the only scripture verse dealing with judging, but it’s not. Therefore it must be taken in context with others.

Matthew 7:16 emphatically says that, “You will know them by their fruits.”
We are not to judge a person’s heart - but by their actions - their fruits.
you will know them by their fruits. You will know the type of life they live by their actions, but knowing isn’t judging. And that passage is about avoiding false prophets, not judging others. You can know the actions of a false prophet and therefore avoid them all without judging.
 
ok so the examples were semi (if not completely) ridiculous 😛 But that doesn’t change the fact that just because something is limited to it’s designed function. When you say corn is energy, so no matter how we use it, it’s ok. Corn does not make that energy to be harvested by humans, it makes it for itself to grow and reproduce.
An orifice designed remove waste and using it as an entry point–is changing the function. Using corn to justify taking an organ and making it…ummmm…perform a biological function by means other than a vagina is changing the function of the item utilized to perform that function.
As far as the Vatican, wouldn’t it make more sense to use those funds to make all of humanity (poor, hungry, sick) more beautiful? But that’s another topic completely 😛
I brought it up b/c it was actually on Catholic Answers Live this week. We are commanded by God to bring him glory (not as in 10 commandments, but as in asked–given permission yada yada yada).

The priest during this Q&A quoted some scripture that I am afraid that I have not memorized.

God is okay with beauty in worship. Now this does not mean that the we has humans should neglect those who suffer. But it doesn’t mean that God expects all of us to live as paupers to make everything equal. God wants us to treat people just and fair. This is what Jesus would do.

I dont have any scripture quotes handy–but I do not recollect that Jesus held in contempt those who had much. His issue was those who chose not to share or shared but a pittance. Then he speaks of the poor woman who gave all that she had even though it was not much. This wasnt to chastize the rich from being rich. It was chastizing their lack of fairness in sharing of what they had. Had they given half of what they had, Jesus probably would not have made an example of them. But the issue was that they gave practically nothing.

While the Catholic Church has millions upon millions of value in precious art, relics, structure, and money–Their giving is pretty high as well.

Why would we hold those chosen by Jesus himself and the Holy Spirit that continue to be disciples of Christ in higher esteem to help the poor than Jesus himself did?

Here is some Catechism of the subject. I began reading it but do not have time to review it in a manner at which I can fairly point to chatechism to illustrate the point.

vatican.va/archive/catechism/p3s2c2a7.htm

However–it is part of the nature of the church to care for the poor and they do.
I am not certain of any scriptural reference or of Jesus’ own words that would direct them to liquidate assets to accomplish this task in full.
Actually, since both aspects of the reproductive system are not present (male and female), it seems that gay sex is about stimulating the nervous system, not necessarily specifically the reproductive nerves (as Ryan put it, slots X, Y, and Z), than it is about the reproductive system. So can it be said that stimulating nervous tissues is a miss use of them?
We are the only species that mates outside of the purpose of reproduction. IOW–we are the only species or mates for personal gratification.
Trust me, the animal kingdom justifications frustrate me just as much. But I don’t think it is necessarily right to say that the animals do not do the act for enjoyment. The stimulation make the act desirable, hence they do it because their bodies are telling their brains it feels good.
This is fascinating–and I will explain this. Women who have no issues that would otherwise be present, will naturally tend to be “in the mood” around the time of ovulation.

**Note, I Am in line with the Church on the subject of abstinence, but this next statement is a matter of biology and not faith and morality.
Part of the problem of teen pregnancy is that teens do not realize they usually ovulate prior to their first menstrual cycle. Then when they are pregnant, they are shocked.

People talk of teenage hormones and while it makes me ill to use that as an excuse to not teach morality, hormones is what drives a woman to be “in the mood”. Unlike men, we dont really have an on-off switch. But when we are " in the mood" where if we do not keep our minds in control of this physiological phenomen, it is a good indicator that the body is ovulating.

This is pretty much what is required in most of the animal kingdom.

And we are also pretty much the only species who has control over this part of our physiology from a physical/mental standpoint. We use the act as part of love or as part of sin or as part of whatever our free will conscience allows.

Dogs, cats, bunnies, mountain lions, bears–heck even the Emperor penguin do not. Mating is to continue the species and while there is compelling evidence that I do believe that there are social desires at play in how a species might choose a mate–there are seasons and times at play. The Emperor penguin migrates during mating season, picks their partner and voila.

Our now neutured rabbit–anytime any place even though he now lacks capacity. That’s why bunnies—multiply so quickly. :eek: No emotion, no nothing. A biological function that continues the species.

From a pure religion standpoint, you have again brought in the point that permits the church to discuss free will and all the other stuff that holds your partnership in contempt when you point to the emotional aspects of the act.
 
you will know them by their fruits. You will know the type of life they live by their actions, but knowing isn’t judging. And that passage is about avoiding false prophets, not judging others. You can know the actions of a false prophet and therefore avoid them all without judging.
I think these were later clarified that they supported what I was saying in that you love the sinner but hate the sin. (The part how I am not direct by the church to judge my brother.)
 
you will know them by their fruits. You will know the type of life they live by their actions, but knowing isn’t judging. And that passage is about avoiding false prophets, not judging others. You can know the actions of a false prophet and therefore avoid them all without judging.
Sorry, but you’re wrong.
Not only has this been taught by the Catholic Church for 2000+ years - this is also taught by just about every mainline Protestant denomination.

We are called upon to judge, to discern - but we cannot judge a person’s heart.
 
Obviously you’ve never been married.
ROFLOL!!

Now *that *gets to the heart of the matter… Marriages are not, primarily, for pleasure. It is this colossal mistake in thinking that fuels divorce as we know it…and the Gay “marriage” debate for that matter.
 
ROFLOL!!

Now *that *gets to the heart of the matter… Marriages are not, primarily, for pleasure. It is this colossal mistake in thinking that fuels divorce as we know it…and the Gay “marriage” debate for that matter.
I agree that they are not primarily for pleasure, and that this idea had indeed fueled divorce rate in modern times, but I don’t think it’s accrete to say those who support gay marriage do it only for pleasure. I’d hope we agree that marriage is at least partially for pleasure, I mean if you were miserable in your relationship I doubt you would get married in the first place, but that in no way means that pleasure is the argument supporting gay marriage.
 
Why is it not possible that the mistranslation and misinterpretation of the Bible’s mention of homosexuality is a failure of man?
The translation and interpretation have to be set in historical context, and given Jewish morality, which Christians shared, homosexuality is definitely condemned by Paul. Homosexuality is identified as a pagan practice related to the temple worship of foreign gods, which involved the use of temple prostitutes, male and female. When King Josiah instituted religious reforms, he banished both idols and prostitutes from the premises of Solomon’s temple.
 
The translation and interpretation have to be set in historical context, and given Jewish morality, which Christians shared, homosexuality is definitely condemned by Paul. Homosexuality is identified as a pagan practice related to the temple worship of foreign gods, which involved the use of temple prostitutes, male and female. When King Josiah instituted religious reforms, he banished both idols and prostitutes from the premises of Solomon’s temple.
Isn’t the concept of a monogamous same sex couple completely different than using prostitutes as worship to a pagan god?
 
I agree that they are not primarily for pleasure, and that this idea had indeed fueled divorce rate in modern times, but I don’t think it’s accrete to say those who support gay marriage do it only for pleasure. I’d hope we agree that marriage is at least partially for pleasure, I mean if you were miserable in your relationship I doubt you would get married in the first place, but that in no way means that pleasure is the argument supporting gay marriage.
Ok. So you tell me…what purpose does formalized same sex “marriage” serve?
 
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