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Yes, but simply being a “person” shouldn’t alone qualify someone for the priesthood. For example, women are “people” but are not qualified. Married men are “people” but are not qualified.Last time I checked, the church did not condemn homosexual tendencies, only acting on them. The thing we are all forgetting here is that whatever disorder they have, homosexuals are people too.
Men having sex with women is not an abomination to God and perversion. Done outside of marriage it would be considered of course immoral. However, it can not be compared logically to men with men. In the Old Testament God condemns this act. It is detestable to Him.I know it sounds corny but its absolutely true. Why should anyone, regardless of their past, be deprived of serving God just as the person next to them? It does’t seem right to me to say that men who have gone out and had sex with women can be priests but those who are homosexual can’t.
However, the church does have a “right” to say who is “qualified” for the priesthood and who is not.They are both sins and we have no right to say that either is more serious because none of us really know that.
One reason I looked up this post this morning is because I am preparing to be confirmed into the Church tomorrow. Last night, I had one of my protestant friends over to visit who does not believe in my decision to join the Church. Well, we were watching TV and this report came on about the Church saying it would not ban gays but they would have to be celibant 3 years. My friend let out a groan and shook her head. I was disappointed as well. But, it was a poor witness to her for the Church. It automatically puts up a road block for many people who may otherwise consider joining the Church. But many simply CANNOT understand why homosexuals, people with a severe weakness that have the potential for damaging others and the church’s reputation itself, are allowed to serve as Holy priests! I was hurt over it because I felt it hurt my witness towards her.
Furthermore, I have 3 boys. Twins who are age 8 and a 9 yr old. I am very afraid and nervous because of this situation with the church. If I did not have such clear direction from God, I would never join in order to protect my boys from the potential of sex abuse in the church. It’s a terrifying thought. And I’ll bet you this, although I may be joining…they will STAY up under me as much as possible. And even then, I know that it can’t be that way when they get older. Sad to think I have to feel that way huh? Do you see how it affects people?
Why, if these men really loved people and loved God, would they want to hurt the Church in this way by joining the priesthood? It seems they would graciously step aside with the understanding of how it affects the Church. If they are celibant and love God wholeheartedly, that should have a clear understanding and submission as to why they should not be a priest. No, I’m not a bigot. I believe people who have this tendency can overcome it with God’s grace and go to heaven. BUT, it doesn’t mean they have to or need to be a priest.