Well, if you’re using marriage as a form of protest, you’re missing the point completely. I do pray for them because it must be so hard having the secular world tell you what you deeply want to hear and to be true, but knowing deep down the truth is you need help and have a hard cross to bear. This is what causes their anger and intolerance; they feel if they can keep anyone from telling them they’re wrong, they’ll be right, but the confusion and pain so many homosexually attracted people feel continues to grow and spread despite widespread acceptance of the lifestyle. Why do you think so many are self-destructive? I will do my best to bear any persecution from them lovingly as Christ would want, but it is so easy to feel that way in the comfort of my own home.