Yes Mary Gail, I am curious about a particular couple in my lineage…they left the Church and it has been said they were excommunicated, but I’m not sure. I’ve wondered if the husband, perhaps, had a prior marriage… they joined an evangelical church (which was a rare thing to do at the time), so I wondered if wanting to be remarried was the issue. These people are dead, so I don’t want to overly speculate, yet the man who I am discussing went on to do some very horrible things to his children…so I wonder…
Well, sometimes a man would come to the US alone to send money back to Italy and never go back, or stay away for years at a time.
My Grandmother’s brother disappeared in 1906 circa.
No one ever saw or heard from him. We don’t know if he died and the body was not found (alone in the countryside) if he was killed, or if he left Italy for the US or south America,or Australia.
Also in southern Italy a type of Common law marriage was popular They were not considered married by the state or the Church, but would cohabitate usually until they could get married (lack of money, lack of priest in the town, family objections)
In Sicily, the “fuitina” was common.
A couple would want to marry, but could not due to some reason (often parental objection) but would “elope”. This elopement would consist of running off together and making it known that she had spent alone time or overnight time without chaperones. Then the parents would agree to let the couple marry, in order to save face and reputation. A couple after a “fuitina” would be considered socially married…so they were not considered available to marry another.
BTW some towns have updated their records department, and you might find the record online.
This seems like a very interesting piece of family history for you.