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OK, I’ll agree with you that Catholics have always been about “doing.”
But why did it take 47 years for any of you to ask me if I wanted to become Catholic?
I think that’s what’s needed in the Catholic Church.
You call it “proselytzing” and turn up your nose at it. I wish to heaven that someone had “proselytzed me” decades earlier in my life so that I would have had those decades to receive Jesus Christ in the Eucharist!
What is your excuse for not sharing your Catholic faith with me all those years of my life? Why didn’t you ever tell me about your Church? (BTW–it isn’t really “your” Church, is it?) Why did you allow me to continue to languish in a Protestant shanty–and possibly some of you smugly called me “heretic” and considered me “going to hell”–while you lived a life of spiritual luxury in a castle? Why didn’t you tell me how I could live in the castle, too? Why didn’t you TELL ME that JESUS was there waiting for me, in “your” Church?
THAT’S what “Evangelical Catholic” means–not only to live a Christian life and do the works that prove your faith (James 2), but also going out into the world and preaching the Gospel, which means the FULL Gospel, which means leading people to Christ AND HIS CHURCH.
Yes, you can say that the Holy Spirit led me into His Church at the right time, and I agree with you and I trust that the Holy Spirit’s timing is right.
So is THAT an acceptable excuse for NEVER telling anyone about Catholicism? You think you don’t ever need to say anything to anyone about Catholicism because you know that the Holy Spirit will work it all out anyway for all those poor folks who weren’t born Catholic? You think it’s best to just stay quiet and not risk messing it up for the Holy Spirit? You think it’s OK to just keep on doing those good works?
Well, I say that lots of ATHEISTS do good works. Think about that.
And I say that allowing non-Catholics to remain ignorant of the glories of Catholicism and letting the Holy Spirit do all your work for you is…well, it’s not acceptable.
Do you realize the method that the Holy Spirit had to use to get me to look into the Catholic Church was to have me and my family kicked out of our Evangelical Protestant church and shunned by the congregation?
Do you know the pain that ousting caused? To this day, I have major trust issues, and I have a very very difficult time opening up to anyone on this earth. I told my life coach that I don’t have friends, other than my husband and daughters. I have many acquaintances, but no friends, mainly because I don’t trust anyone. I don’t expect this to change. I still have occasional nightmares about that ousting.
And to this day, eleven years later, my younger daughter still doesn’t attend any church because she was so damaged by the ousting that she doesn’t trust any church. I pray for the Mother of God to plead for her to her Son.
A week ago, before my dad’s visitation, our family stopped for lunch at a local restaurant. My two daughters were home (they live in different states) for their grandpa’s visitation and funeral. In that restaurant, we met up with one of the pastors who had been closely involved with our ousting. My husband and I greeted him with civility, but my daughters refused to even say hello to him. My older daughter said, “No way will I talk to him after what he did to us.”
It’s been eleven years, and that’s how badly hurt she was by this. She did convert to Catholicism, but she still can’t bring herself to speak to the pastor who caused so much pain.
That’s what it took. I wish it hadn’t happened this way. I wish some good and kind Catholic would have taken the time and trouble to befriend me and my husband and tell us about the wonderful Catholic Church, her history, and her practices, and invite us to join them at Mass. Again, if that’s proselytizing, I would gladly take it over ousting, shunning, nightmares, and trust issues anytime.
I hope this post has disturbed some of you.
But why did it take 47 years for any of you to ask me if I wanted to become Catholic?
I think that’s what’s needed in the Catholic Church.
You call it “proselytzing” and turn up your nose at it. I wish to heaven that someone had “proselytzed me” decades earlier in my life so that I would have had those decades to receive Jesus Christ in the Eucharist!
What is your excuse for not sharing your Catholic faith with me all those years of my life? Why didn’t you ever tell me about your Church? (BTW–it isn’t really “your” Church, is it?) Why did you allow me to continue to languish in a Protestant shanty–and possibly some of you smugly called me “heretic” and considered me “going to hell”–while you lived a life of spiritual luxury in a castle? Why didn’t you tell me how I could live in the castle, too? Why didn’t you TELL ME that JESUS was there waiting for me, in “your” Church?
THAT’S what “Evangelical Catholic” means–not only to live a Christian life and do the works that prove your faith (James 2), but also going out into the world and preaching the Gospel, which means the FULL Gospel, which means leading people to Christ AND HIS CHURCH.
Yes, you can say that the Holy Spirit led me into His Church at the right time, and I agree with you and I trust that the Holy Spirit’s timing is right.
So is THAT an acceptable excuse for NEVER telling anyone about Catholicism? You think you don’t ever need to say anything to anyone about Catholicism because you know that the Holy Spirit will work it all out anyway for all those poor folks who weren’t born Catholic? You think it’s best to just stay quiet and not risk messing it up for the Holy Spirit? You think it’s OK to just keep on doing those good works?
Well, I say that lots of ATHEISTS do good works. Think about that.
And I say that allowing non-Catholics to remain ignorant of the glories of Catholicism and letting the Holy Spirit do all your work for you is…well, it’s not acceptable.
Do you realize the method that the Holy Spirit had to use to get me to look into the Catholic Church was to have me and my family kicked out of our Evangelical Protestant church and shunned by the congregation?
Do you know the pain that ousting caused? To this day, I have major trust issues, and I have a very very difficult time opening up to anyone on this earth. I told my life coach that I don’t have friends, other than my husband and daughters. I have many acquaintances, but no friends, mainly because I don’t trust anyone. I don’t expect this to change. I still have occasional nightmares about that ousting.
And to this day, eleven years later, my younger daughter still doesn’t attend any church because she was so damaged by the ousting that she doesn’t trust any church. I pray for the Mother of God to plead for her to her Son.
A week ago, before my dad’s visitation, our family stopped for lunch at a local restaurant. My two daughters were home (they live in different states) for their grandpa’s visitation and funeral. In that restaurant, we met up with one of the pastors who had been closely involved with our ousting. My husband and I greeted him with civility, but my daughters refused to even say hello to him. My older daughter said, “No way will I talk to him after what he did to us.”
It’s been eleven years, and that’s how badly hurt she was by this. She did convert to Catholicism, but she still can’t bring herself to speak to the pastor who caused so much pain.
That’s what it took. I wish it hadn’t happened this way. I wish some good and kind Catholic would have taken the time and trouble to befriend me and my husband and tell us about the wonderful Catholic Church, her history, and her practices, and invite us to join them at Mass. Again, if that’s proselytizing, I would gladly take it over ousting, shunning, nightmares, and trust issues anytime.
I hope this post has disturbed some of you.
could not have said it better…