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*I don’t know if that passage indicates that, but again, interesting take. I don’t think it’s a celibacy issue…if that were so, why are these scandals mainly involving boys? I could see if priests were having affairs with women of their parishes…that could be related to celibacy moreso…but, it’s not normal for an adult man to gravitate his sexual desires towards boys. And many married men do this, also…so I don’t think it’s wrapped up in celibacy. That tells me that many of these men who went into the priesthood had psychological problems, that were unaddressed before they entered the seminary. I think we have different tests and protocols now that can detect if someone would be unfit for the priesthood, based on their psychological makeup. That is a start to making sure this never happens again, but doing away with celibacy…I don’t see that as being the reason behind the priest sex scandals. *The Word of God says that a pastor should have a wife and children. I have heard some argue that the below verse was addressing polygamy. That may be so, but that is a terribly incomplete interpretation. As Paul was telling Timothy: Having a well run family with obedient children demonstrates a certain level of competence in caring for the church.
“Here is a trustworthy saying: If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer, he desires a noble task. Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect. If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?” (1 Timothy 3:1-5)
I believe that disregarding the Word of God always leads to a bad outcome.