We should be able to see God in others.
No one is arguing otherwise. But the
manner in which we do that isn’t simply a matter for personal tastes; there are good ways to go about “seeking that vision”, and there are bad ways. I would argue that “gazing in the mirror to look for God” is a strikingly bad way to do it.
Your statement (above) would be an excellent defense of the practice of meditating upon statues and other images of Christ and of the Saints (i.e. “enfleshed images of God”
other than oneself!); but it simply won’t do, if you’re trying to defend “mirror-gazing”. Do remember that egotism (which is a spiritual disease) need not take the form of vanity or arrogance; the cranky hypochondriac is quite egotistical without any sort of “gee, how wonderful I am” flavour to their complaints and outlook. Self-obsession is bad, no matter what flavour it takes, and “mirror-gazing” seems to encourage such by its very nature, regardless of any good initial intentions.
It reminds me a bit of someone trying to “restore their pre-fallen Christian ethos re: the naked body of someone of the other gender” (i.e. to see it without lust or scorn) by frequenting a nudist colony in order to “practice” their new worldview. I’d lay odds on the experiment going awry, frankly…
And if we can’t see God working in ourselves, then we’ll have a hard time to see God in others.
I know of a plenitude of Saints who would not only disagree, but condemn that very idea as promoting the very
antithesis of your otherwise good aim (e.g. St. Martin de Porres, St. Rose of Lima, St. Maximillian Kolbe, St. John Vianney, and most especially St. Therese of Lisieux). We are fallen human persons, and we don’t need to “learn” how to be selfish (think of small children–is it more common to have to teach little Johnny to share his toy truck, or to teach him how not to give it away all the time?); our fallenness handles our tutoring on that point quite nicely. No: we need to learn how to be
unselfish; and mirror-gazing, no matter how noble the motive, seems to be at high risk of playing directly into the hands of our fallenness.
I suppose for most people they already think highly enough of themselves that they don’t need to spend time looking for God in the mirror.
Forgive me, but this is as illogical as it is prejudicial. You assume that those who don’t specifically “look
in the mirror for God” must necessarily be full of themselves; not only could this be seen as an insult toward all non-“mirror-gazers”, but you’re assuming your conclusion (i.e. “mirror-gazing is the way to find God”) in order to prove it… which was a fallacy, last time I checked.
I appreciate your intention (so far as I understand it); but I seriously question this particular means by which you recommend pursuing that end!