Given up on happiness

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For renata,you are so brave and we hurt for you in your suffering.We all care about you very much.Love and prayers for you.God bless

Holy Virgin Mary, you are reigning in glory, with Jesus, your Son.
Remember us in our sadness. Look kindly on all who are suffering
or fighting against any difficulty.
Have pity on those who are separated from someone they love.
Have pity on the loneliness of our hearts.
Have pity on the weakness of our faith and love.
Have pity on those who are weeping, on those who are praying, on those who are fearful.
Holy Mother, please obtain for all of us hope and peace with justice.
Amen.

PRAYER WHEN SUFFERING

Jesus, speak to me in these days of suffering to reveal to me, the will of God. “You have kept count of my tossing; put my tears in your bottle.” (Psalm 56:8). “This I know, that God is for me” (Psalm 56:9). Come to my help soon. Cut short the days of suffering. Deliver me from the present adversities. Grant me long life and health to praise You in peace. Lift me up to become a witness for You. Thank You Jesus. Praise You Jesus. Hallelujah.

(Praise God for 5 minutes to know the will of God in your sufferings. Thus you will receive the strength and grace to suffer. God willing, you will get immediate deliverance)
 
He Catches Our Tears In His Hands
There are seasons of life that yield so much pain
that even God’s children might doubt He is there.
For the trial is long and they’ve shed many tears
while sobbing in the midst of their prayers.
Yet, God loves us so much…even in our deep pain
and He’s listening to every word that we say.
He sees the heartache, knowing all we endure
and every unspoken prayer we might pray.
He’s so near to the broken hearts, who carry such sorrow
and His silence means He’s letting us speak.
For He’s still the God who listens…like a Father to His children
every time that we earnestly seek.
And God knows there’s a time for everything on earth
a time for mourning…lament…or great sorrow.
Just as sure as the day comes when the burden is lifted
and His joy brings the sunrise tomorrow.
He treasures every time His children lift their faces
to the heavens for His gracious relief.
For His Spirit gives the comfort & courage to go on
when souls are tired from the load of their grief.
Despite any doubts we might have in our weakness & struggles
and all the miles where we don’t understand,
Our Father is still listening as every teardrop falls
and He catches each one in His hands.
~~ Author Unknown
 
renatas said:
i am praying for a miracle
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Praying for you.

Glorious Apostle, St. Jude Thaddeus
Devoted follower and Friend of Jesus
The name of the traitor has caused many to forget you
But the Church invokes you universally as the Patron of lost cases and of things despaired of
Please pray for Renata that she might have the consolations and succor of heaven in all of
her tribulations, needs and sufferings especially that she find peace and resolution in her marriage and that she can bless God with you and all the elect through out eternity.

Amen
 
Hugs for you renata

Hail Mary full of grace
the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,Jesus
Holy mary Mother of God
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death Amen
 
Hail Mary full of grace
the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,Jesus
Holy mary Mother of God
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death Amen
 
Renatas,
I will keep you in my prayers, I know we spoke 6months or so ago, I too am still praying and waiting for a miracle with my husbands heart. God is so close to the broken hearted.
He is the one there by our side late at night alone in our marital bed. He wipes away our tears and holds us when no one else will. He has sent me wonderfull supportive friends and family. people to pray with and for me and my husband.
at times I too am so filled with so much anger towards my husband and hurt over the way he treats me
Seek him out in the sacraments. I get so much peace from- almost- daily mass. I know that whatever happens with my earthly husband our lord will never leave nor forsake us. I dont know why some are allowed to suffer like this but maybe god has a plan for this. I know that this hell ( 2 years now) has brought me closer to my God in a way I never would have had to cling to.
bask in his love for you. Dont give up on your happiness! God can do miracles. Im still hoping for mine.

God Bless you and your family.
 
Hang on in there renata many people here care about you.God bless

Hail Mary full of grace
the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,Jesus
Holy mary Mother of God
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death Amen
 
Still praying for you

Glorious Apostle, St. Jude Thaddeus
Devoted follower and Friend of Jesus
The name of the traitor has caused many to forget about you
But the Church invokes you universally as the Patron of lost cases and of things despaired of
Please pray for Renata that she might have the consolations and succor of heaven in all of
her tribulations, needs and sufferings especially that she find peace and resolution in her marriage and that she can bless God with you and all the elect through out eternity.

Amen
 
I NEED prayers desparately for the restoration of my marriage to Steve. I am in a desparate state of despair and loss of hope. I have prayed and prayed and to date there is no improvement.
 
Dear God, Mother Mary, St. Jude and all the saints
Please help restore my marriage.
amen
 
Dear Father please hear our prayers for renata and Steve.
I ask You Lord to open the mind of Steve and soften his heart
that he will reconsider his actions and recognise his beautiful
wife and wish to save his marriage.Lord renata is suffering terribly
and loves her husband very much.She has loyally stayed by him
during this difficult period in their marriage.Please we pray that
Steve will cleave to his wife and feel a renewal of love for his wife.
Father may Your Holy Spirit come upon Steve and Renata and heal
them both.Lord if it is Your will heal their marriage.Amen

Hail Mary full of grace
the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,Jesus
Holy mary Mother of God
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death Amen
 
A Novena Prayer to the Sacred Heart of Jesus
Sacred Heart of Jesus, we know that there is but one thing impossible to You: to be without pity for those who are in suffering or distress. Look down on us, we beg of You and grant us the grace which we humbly and earnestly implore, through the Immaculate Heart of Your most sorrowful Mother to whom You confided us as her children, and whose prayers are all powerful with You. Amen.
 
Glorious Apostle, St. Jude Thaddeus
Devoted follower and Friend of Jesus
The name of the traitor has caused many to forget about you
But the Church invokes you universally as the Patron of lost cases and of things despaired of
Please pray for Renata that she might have the consolations and succor of heaven in all of
her tribulations, needs and sufferings especially that she find peace and resolution in her marriage and that she can bless God with you and all the elect through out eternity.

Amen
 
Can someone tell me: I informed by “wonderful” mother-in-law, only because she asked if there was something wrong with me, so YES I told her her “wonderful” son is a cheater. SHe says she thinks I should leave him, and who says I wont: well I am not going to take sides and SHE IS A BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN. What a hypocrite. She also suggested that I pray. Perhaps she should be praying for her own son that is destroying my life and my son, her grandson.

She is so concerned about everyone elses business but she cant stand up and say what a good for nothing son she has. What a good role model my husband is to his two children and our 10 year old.

You would not believe what my son called me tonight???One of Steve’s favourite names and it wasn’t b****.

Dear Lord, what am I going to do. When will there be justice for Steve. When will the tables turn.

??? maybe he will call his “thing” that he is seeing, one and then what, the whole institution will know what Steve is all about…Pls God stop this nonscence now, pls.

But, I am totally grateful to Teresa, Judi, Cassie and the other regulars posting too this very sensitive sitation, God Bless you all.
 
Dear Lord
please hear our prayers for dear renata.She is suffering so badly with abuse and hurt from so many directions.Please grant her strength and intuition to know how to handle all this stuff happening to her.Father please may Your Holy spirit come upon her and guide her which road to take.She and her son are suffering.May she know when she feels in despair of Your great love for her.Through us Your children may we show her all the love and support we can.
Father her pain is real and now.Surround her please with Your love for her.Amen

Hail Mary full of grace
the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,Jesus
Holy mary Mother of God
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death Amen

Hail Mary full of grace
the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,Jesus
Holy mary Mother of God
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death Amen

Hail Mary full of grace
the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,Jesus
Holy mary Mother of God
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death Amen
 
Renatas, I’ve been where you are. One day you’re begging God to fix things. The next day you are hating your husband for his cruelty, hating your MIL for her indifference and support for a man who hurts you, angry at children who are adopting their father’s attitude toward you.

I know the pain.

So does Christ. His was the ultimate rejection of Love. Those who witnessed as He performed miracles treated him with contempt. Those who listened to His words turned a deaf ear on His cries from the Holy Cross.

He is our model for how to behave when our love is met with contempt and indifference. He forgave the people while they were doing it. And He turned over the care of each of us ungrateful “children” to His own weeping grieving mother while we were killing her Son.

You have a few issues you need to deal with here. One is the realization you married a man who already had left one woman. He doesn’t seem to have the capacity to return love or give it, or be faithful and keep the most important relationship in his life going. Feel very sorry for him. Eventually he will be alone.

You also need to realize that his mother is his mother. She cannot afford to look at him as he is, because she would have to look in the mirror and admit she raised him. I prayed for my MIL to see the truth about her son. She did. It took a few years. Eventually I was the one she was calling and crying to, the one who brought her food so her diabetes wouldn’t act up when he dumped her at a hotel and told her he never wanted to see her again. I was the one she hugged and wished God’s blessings on. She hurt me. Yes. Have I forgiven her? Not completely. She never admitted what she did was wrong. She never asked forgiveness in her part in destroying my life. But I treated her as if I forgave her. So my children would see MY example. Someday they may need to have that example to survive in their own lives.

You also need to realize your children are young and they are angry and picking up on anger in their parents. They are reflecting back what they are seeing. Your anger is justified, but it is like acid if you pour it near your children. It harms them. Do not let your husband’s bad behavior further hurt your children. Around them try to have peace.

As for your relationship with God… everyone here is right. Sometimes God does not answer our prayers the way we want. I prayed for my family to heal. My ex left me TWICE. God did not heal the marriage. He gave me strength to go on after it was over. God’s answer to your prayer may be to deliver you from a man who treats you cruelly.

He won’t answer your prayers immediately. He will do it in His time according to a picture HE can see but you can’t.

What you need to pray for is wisdom.

And when you are upset, you need to find a place where you go alone and recollect yourself and find peace. At the end of our lives we all die alone. Our relationship with God is the only one that matters at the very last minutes. Pray for your husband. Pray for him to have a conversion of heart. And I would suggest this. Call your MIL. Tell her she is right. Ask her to pray with you for your husband. Ask her to lead the prayer. Listen and say Amen with her. Every night. Call her and ask her to pray for your husband with you. If you and his mother are praying together for him, that is a very powerful thing. She will see that you care for him and his soul.

You don’t want him to go to hell. That would make Christ’s suffering on the Cross in vain. That would crucify Christ anew. Pray for the victory of the cross over your husband.

God bless you.
 
Father I ask You to help Renata in her time of distress.May she feel Your love for her.Grant her wisdom to move on with her life for the best for her safety and sanity and that of her son.I pray the husband will have his mind open and heart soften to change his ways.May Your Holy Spirit fill Renata with love guidance and strength.Amen

Hail Mary full of grace
the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,Jesus
Holy mary Mother of God
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death Amen

Hail Mary full of grace
the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,Jesus
Holy mary Mother of God
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death Amen

Hail Mary full of grace
the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,Jesus
Holy mary Mother of God
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death Amen
 
tbcrawford said:
Renata I am so sorry for your suffering.You have a lot to deal with,with your husband making you feel so miserable and down about yourself.As Trishie has said it is your husband NOT you that has the problems in his chracter.Pray to God for guidance.

I have re-read some of the postings, at times, I wonder, may be it is me. Maybe I am so needy and unloving that he has strayed. He says because of my German background, we are all cold, mean people. I was not even born in Germany, and what does that teach my son, that all Germans are… Yet Steve’s family is perfect. His mother doesnt want to take sides and says “you have to get out of that relationship”. Am I being threatened???
Its only obvious she cant take sides because she cant face the fact that she brought up a cheater. My 10 year old knows…and I will instill in him that it wont be tolerated in his behaviour when he is older. If you dont teach your kinds christian fundamentals, they wont learn when there older. Already my son questions if there really is a God. I have been God fearing right from the get go…I really think this dear MIL should think about all the mistakes she made before preaching to me about letting him go but forgive him. Im sorry I am not ready to forgive him this time. Oh My God, please …
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