I guess 1 Tim 3:1-7 is hogwash. Note especially verses 2 and 4.
And then there is Titus 1:6.
I guess the words of an apostle are not good enough for you
The words of an apostle are good enough for me but only a person wearing Protestants lens would see those verses as being a mandate to marry. OMG, some of you Protestants never never cease to amaze me in how you back project your neo-Christian perspective of a secular church to make the apostles appear like married Protestant ministers. It wasn’t like that at all.
This is classic eisegesis Truthstalker - you are seeing things you want to see.
First of all you need to accept some terms. Presbyters/elders are equivalent to what Catholics call “priests” and were ordained. They preached and taught the flock & administered sacraments. The various Bible translations will often mix the terms Elder, Presbyter, Overseer, Bishop, Shepherd, Pastor interchangeably but there was a difference between the ecclesial roles of what we call today bishop and priest. There is a different anointing associated with a bishop since only this level can ordain new priests and bishops.
Also note that the scripture writers avoided using the term “priest” at this time of the early Church history since they were unsure precisely how to organize the Church and because they did not want Jews to revert it back to a pure Judiac form of ecclesial structure. The term priest was initially avoided so Jews would not try to revert it back to a full Judiac high priest temple form of worship again. The history bears out though that the church hiearchy evolves rapidly into a bishop-priest-deacon structure ( like the Catholic Church has - quite naturally since we are the same original apostolic Church.
Apostles having the highest ecclesial rank are bishops – the only ecclesial rank that can ordain their successors.
Ref for terminology comparisons: Acts 15:6,23; 1 Timothy 4:14, 5:22; 1 Timothy 5:17; James 5:13-15
Here is the Titus verse you gave:
Titus 1:6
For this reason I left you in Crete, that you would set in order what remains and appoint elders in every city as I directed you, 6 namely, if any man is above reproach, the husband of one wife, having children who believe, not accused of dissipation or rebellion
With respect to the bit about “the husband of one wife” this is not to be taken as a imperative to be married by any means. This is simply saying that a man, if married, must have only 1 wife to prevent scandals (i.e. in a monagamous relationship not living with another 2nd women or mistress by being divorce etc.). This is also not a requirement to have children but rather saying that if one does have children they must be well behaved. The idea here is just common sense things to not cause scandal through one’s own family. It’s the same old thing then as now - ‘why would anyone be inclined to take instruction from a church leader who could not keep his own household in order’?
Also recollect that The new Church came about quite suddenly. Some of the apostles and disciples were already married. Paul makes it very clear that the preference is not to marry but clearly they are not going to tell anyone to go get a divorce. It is only after the church gets established that the celibacy discipline is self imposed as subsequent generations start replacing the original leaders.
The next verse you reference:
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1 Tim 3:1-7
It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspires to the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do. 2 An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3 not addicted to wine or pugnacious, but gentle, peaceable, free from the love of money. 4 He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity 5 (but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?), 6 and not a new convert, so that he will not become conceited and fall into the condemnation incurred by the devil. 7 And he must have a good reputation with those outside the church, so that he will not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.
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Again, here this is just common sense sort of advice that Paul is giving for married men who are called to be bishops. Paul wants no room for scandals and wants high credibility. So so if a person is married it must be to one woman. This could relate to not divorced as well. Let’s also not forget that the gentiles were a bit on the wild side of the spectrum compared to the Jews and some had shacked up with multiple spouses or had taken more than one spouse (recall the woman at the well story of 5 husbands). This is all just “boilerplate” common sense advise given by Paul and is NOT intended to be a punch list of MUST HAVES. Clearly if a man is not married or is married but has no children he can be installed as an overseer. Clearly a widower would be acceptable too.
For goodness sake the man (Paul) giving the advise was unmarried and advised others to not marry.
1 Corinthians 7:7-9
For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
The Church later established the discipline to remain celibate and unmarried but its a discipline not a hard and fast dogma.
Back to the OP - If anyone wants to call celibate priesthood gnostic then Paul was a closet Gnostic since he was big on celibacy and not defiling oneself with women…
James