I didn’t specifically address points made in the blog because its premise has been addressed in my previous posts. Most importantly, the concept that God’s love is “conditional” on us in any way means that His love isn’t perfect. God is perfect and unchanging. To attribute a trait to God that is changing belies an incorrect concept of the Holy One. The Encyclical of PBXVI is entitled “God is Love”. It is what God is, His very nature, the I AM. In PBXVI’s encyclical, the Pope talks about the different forms of love (“storge” (affection), “philia” (friendship), “eros” (sexual or romantic love) and “agape” (selfless love). God’s love in the context of “unconditional love” is perfection of agape (descending love as said by PBXVI) which flows from Him to us without condition.
In my mind, the confusion and focus of the blog is related to philia (friendship) love which is by definition conditional. This is where our sin and lack of humility breaks our bond/relationship with God. But it is important to keep in mind that while English has one word for Love, there are four concepts of love that are distinct as described by storge, philia, eros, and agape. See this quote specifically in PBXVI’s encyclical “As for the term philia, the love of friendship, it is used with added depth of meaning in Saint John’s Gospel in order to express the relationship between Jesus and his disciples.”
My source for the Lenten Address of Pope John Paul II and the Encyclical by Pope Benedict are the Vatican. I’m sorry but I will rely on the translation the Pope puts on his own website. It may not be in the original but it is in the approved translation upon which the faithful are to rely. Using this line of thinking, I could debunk the blog because it uses Scripture verses in English.
But I digress, the Pope’s encyclical talks specifically about how in the original Scripture different words are used for love in different settings. So, you are correct that we need to make sure we are interpreting in light of the original text and intended form of love. However, the blog author made no such distinction. He made the same mistake during his long listing of times God hates.
Lenten Address:
vatican.va/holy_father/john_paul_ii/messages/lent/documents/hf_jp-ii_mes_20030206_lent-2003_en.html
Pope Benedict Encyclical:
vatican.va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/encyclicals/documents/hf_ben-xvi_enc_20051225_deus-caritas-est_en.html
With regard to your comment “what good is it (unconditional love) if you can still go to Hell with it”, I agree it is small consolation. But the fact remains, God will love us perfectly, unconditionally, and eternally even though we have chosen to deny Him and are in Hell. He will accept our decision to choose Hell because out of love He respects our free will.
Finally, there is nothing convenient and wishful in my line of thinking. God is perfect and His Love is perfect. Nothing I have said infers that it ensures our salvation. But this unconditional Love is critical. Nothing we can do can merit our salvation. It is the mediation of Christ to Divine Mercy which allows us a reasonable Hope in Salvation. We have Hope because the Deposit of Faith He left with the Apostles and their successors gives us the means to discern God’s will for us, God’s Love for us, and us to properly respond to this Love.
Unconditional Love is why God made creation, why He became Incarnate, and why He died for us. Praise be to God!!!