Going Through Hell - Need Support

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Dear Teresa
Warmest love to you. I am so sorry your husband has been so cruel and hurt you so much. You are in all our thoughts and prayers.
I have had panic attacks and anxiety for many years of my life but thankfully I have not been suffering them for years now. I do understand how completely out of control your life is feeling.
I agree you should move back to your home,your husband has no right to ‘make’ you move out. If he is not happy he can move out.It is your home and you have every right to live there. If he becomes violent call the police. Get some money from the bank aswell it is your money aswell as his.You need to feel safe and then you can try to feel stronger and more in control of your life. Can you get to see your doctor and tell him/her what is happening in your life and get support? Can you call a priest to talk on the phone about what has happened. I hope your priest will visit you and help you to know what to do.
Remember you are a wonderful person who is loved dearly by God Our Father. You are precious to Him as each one of us are. Your husband is behaving badly and I pray Our Lord will guide him to not be so cruel to you.
God bless you

Dear Lord please help Teresa.Grant her strength and help her to overcome her anxiety and panic attacks. Please guide her to know what to do and how to handle all the hurtful behaviour of her husband. Please guide her husband to open his heart and mind to Your will and that he will not continue to hurt his wife.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
*Pater noster, qui es in cælis, sanctificetur nomen tuum; adveniat regnum tuum; fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra. Panem nostrum cotidianum da nobis hodie, et dimitte nobis debita nostra, sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris; et ne nos inducas in tentationem Sed libera nos a malo. Amen

Ave Maria, gratia plena, Dominus tecum. Benedicta tu in mulieribus, et benedictus fructus ventris tui, Jesus. Sancta Maria, Mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus, nunc et in hora mortis nostrae. Amen.

We fly to your patronage, O holy Mother of God; despise not our petitions in our necessities, but deliver us always from all dangers, O glorious and blessed Virgin.

PRAYER TO THE HOLY FACE OF JESUS*

Be merciful to us, O my God, and reject not our prayers, when amid our afflictions we call on Thy Holy Name and seek with love and confidence Thine adorable Face. Amen.
 
Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†
 
Ophelia23 said:
I can’t even fathom your pain. I have no advice for you except for this: cling to Jesus, and pour your heart to His mother, Mary. She is our peaceful dove who gently carries us as her children to her son, Jesus. Let her hold you and let her hear you.

My prayers are with you!
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Amen
Edmundus1581 said:
Been there (as the husband of an unfaithful wife).

Praying for you…

ps. play hard-ball on any practical or financial matters. Assume that he has left you, and that this is your only chance to get something from your assets. For a start, he has no right to kick you out of your place.
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St_Francis said:
I will give you some advice: **MOVE BACK INTO YOUR APARTMENt!!! this is TOTALLY essential or he will claim you left him. Go back, with a friend if necessary, and tell him if he wants to leave, that’s his decision, but you have not decided to leave. **

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Second, there are all sorts of divorce centers for women who will help you with the legal stuff. If you can’t find one in your phone book, call the Women’s Center at the nearest university and ask them. They may not have the exact help you need, bit adk them for some other organization which may be able to help. You can also try a domestic violence place–they should know about local organizations to help.

If at all possible, withdraw half of the money in your bank account so you will have some money.

**Get a notebook and write everything down so you will have a record. Write down what he says. Write down what anyone who helps you says. **

You absolutely need to move back into your apartment as soon as you possibly can. Just go back there. Do not leave until you have found people who can advise you..
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anonymous_in_fl said:
Please seek legal advice from an attorney. **There is no need for you to move out of the home you two share, unless he is being physically threatening. **

His cruelty is reprehensible---- flaunting his affair and telling YOU to move out is extremely cruel and speaks volumes about here his head is at in all of this.

Please speak to an attorney to protect yourself and your rights.
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tbcrawford said:
Dear Teresa
Warmest love to you. I am so sorry your husband has been so cruel and hurt you so much. You are in all our thoughts and prayers.
I have had panic attacks and anxiety for many years of my life but thankfully I have not been suffering them for years now. I do understand how completely out of control your life is feeling.
**I agree you should move back to your home,your husband has no right to ‘make’ you move out. If he is not happy he can move out.It is your home and you have every right to live there. If he becomes violent call the police. Get some money from the bank aswell it is your money aswell as his.You need to feel safe and then you can try to feel stronger and more in control of your life. **Can you get to see your doctor and tell him/her what is happening in your life and get support? Can you call a priest to talk on the phone about what has happened. I hope your priest will visit you and help you to know what to do.
Remember you are a wonderful person who is loved dearly by God Our Father. You are precious to Him as each one of us are. Your husband is behaving badly and I pray Our Lord will guide him to not be so cruel to you.
God bless you

**Dear Lord please help Teresa.Grant her strength and help her to overcome her anxiety and panic attacks. Please guide her to know what to do and how to handle all the hurtful behaviour of her husband. Please guide her husband to open his heart and mind to Your will and that he will not continue to hurt his wife.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen**
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Amen

The people at CAF are so smart!! They have said it.
I offer prayers, wishes, and hugs.
May God bless and heal you.
 
Remembering you in my daily prayers, Teresa. God bless :console:
 
Thank you for all the responses. It means a lot to know that others are praying for me. I am in such a sorry state right now I don’t know if I’m going to make it. The past few years I have gone through so much stuff and I truly don’t think I can handle any more. The one thing I thought I had left seems to be disappearing before my eyes. I don’t even have any friends, mostly because of my panic attacks and not being able to get out. My husband was my only friend.

He told me that we could “maybe” talk tonight. Please pray that this talk will go well.

Thanks for the advice about staying in the apartment, the money, etc. I feel so weak right now I don’t know if I can do any of this. Please pray I will find strength.

My husband is not a Catholic or even a believer. He’s very depressed and unhappy right now. I want to talk to him tonight and just let him know that the path he is choosing right now is not going to be one that will lead to the happiness to desires so much and that staying with your wife and working things out is what will bring lasting happiness. That and of course finding God. I want to save him from what I see as even more pain down the road. But I can’t be his Jesus…
 
Praying that everything will workout. In the mean time, you do have legal rights. Contact your local women’s shelter or local legal aide office and ask some questions. Remember, the Lord helps those that help themselves.
God be with you.
 
Teresa52 said:
Thank you for all the responses. It means a lot to know that others are praying for me. I am in such a sorry state right now I don’t know if I’m going to make it. The past few years I have gone through so much stuff and I truly don’t think I can handle any more. The one thing I thought I had left seems to be disappearing before my eyes. I don’t even have any friends, mostly because of my panic attacks and not being able to get out. My husband was my only friend.

He told me that we could “maybe” talk tonight. Please pray that this talk will go well.

Thanks for the advice about staying in the apartment, the money, etc. I feel so weak right now I don’t know if I can do any of this. Please pray I will find strength.

My husband is not a Catholic or even a believer. He’s very depressed and unhappy right now. I want to talk to him tonight and just let him know that the path he is choosing right now is not going to be one that will lead to the happiness to desires so much and that staying with your wife and working things out is what will bring lasting happiness. That and of course finding God. I want to save him from what I see as even more pain down the road. But I can’t be his Jesus…
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God bless you my friend and prayers continue with much love and hugs

Dear Lord please guide this meeting will go well.Please guide the husband to open his heart and mind to Your will that he will treat his wife well and fairly.Lord please grant special strength to Teresa to get through these most difficult times and especially for the meeting tonight.Lord please fill Teresa with courage faith and strength and guide her to know what to say and do. Lord we thankyou for hearing our prayers for our friend and ask You would be with her in her time of need. Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Saint Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle.
Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray;
and do Thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host -
by the Divine Power of God -
cast into hell, satan and all the evil spirits,
who roam throughout the world seeking the ruin of souls.
Amen.

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Theresa,
I will pray for you to St Terese of Lisieux. I know someone who was recently confirmed who chose St Terese as her patron saint, and St Terese also had emotional difficulties.

Even if you have a panic attack, stick to your guns about staying in the apartment. Just keep hold of that one thing, that if he wants to leave, he has to be the one who leaves. Remember to call those people I suggested.

And you know what? Call those people and tell them everything, even if things seem to go well when you talk with him. Let them advise you even if only to protect you in the future. Be sure to contact them tomorrow no matter how it goes tonight.
 
:gopray:

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning is now ever shall be world without end
Amen.

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy, hear and answer me. Amen

:signofcross:
 
Dear Lord please help Teresa.Grant her strength and help her to overcome her anxiety and panic attacks. Please guide her to know what to do and how to handle all the hurtful behaviour of her husband. Please guide her husband to open his heart and mind to Your will and that he will not continue to hurt his wife.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Praying that the Lord may grant you strength and guidance in this matter. Also praying that you may have relief from panic attacks.

O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fountain of Mercy for us, I trust in You!
 
Praying for you, so very sorry for what you are experiencing.
Memorare

REMEMBER, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession was left unaided. Inspired with this confidence, I fly to thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother; to thee do I come; before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me. Amen.
 
*Pater noster, qui es in cælis, sanctificetur nomen tuum; adveniat regnum tuum; fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra. Panem nostrum cotidianum da nobis hodie, et dimitte nobis debita nostra, sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris; et ne nos inducas in tentationem Sed libera nos a malo. Amen

Ave Maria, gratia plena, Dominus tecum. Benedicta tu in mulieribus, et benedictus fructus ventris tui, Jesus. Sancta Maria, Mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus, nunc et in hora mortis nostrae. Amen.

We fly to your patronage, O holy Mother of God; despise not our petitions in our necessities, but deliver us always from all dangers, O glorious and blessed Virgin.

PRAYER TO THE HOLY FACE OF JESUS*

Be merciful to us, O my God, and reject not our prayers, when amid our afflictions we call on Thy Holy Name and seek with love and confidence Thine adorable Face. Amen.
 
Dear Lord please help Teresa.Grant her strength and help her to overcome her anxiety and panic attacks. Please guide her to know what to do and how to handle all the hurtful behaviour of her husband. Please guide her husband to open his heart and mind to Your will and that he will not continue to hurt his wife.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
:gopray:

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning is now ever shall be world without end
Amen.

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy, hear and answer me. Amen

:signofcross:
 
Our Father, who art in heaven,
hallowed be Thy Name,
Thy Kingdom come,
Thy Will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespassed against us,
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee,
Blessed art thou amongst women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit,
as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be,
world without end.

Amen.
 
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