Going Through Hell - Need Support

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I am in desperate need of prayers and support. My husband of 18 years informed me last Wednesday, completely out of the blue, that he wanted a separation. Two days later he drove 6 1/2 hours down south to visit his new friend. When he got back he informed me that they had had sex. I am devastated.

On top of that, he asked ME to move out of our apartment so I am now staying with my elderly parents and brother. I have NO money - he won’t let me touch the bank account.

This weekend he agreed to drive me to visit my birthmother who is dying of cancer. This was a 7 hour drive which was very difficult for me because I suffer from panic attacks and agoraphobia. The drive was so stressful - it rained the entire time and he stopped every hour or so to smoke a cigarette and text his girlfriend right in front of me. I visited my birthmom, which was emotionally draining, and then we went back to the motel and then he left me there while he went to have a coffee and chat on the phone with the girlfriend. I had a huge panic attack in the motel room, it was awful. On the way home I again had to endure watching him text her. He is being so cold to me.

He’s acting crazy, not himself at all. I don’t know if this is a midlife crisis or something more. He seems so anxious and not the man I’ve known and loved for all these years.

I don’t know what to do. He is flaunting this affair in my face, has left me with no income or home, not even our car. I don’t have any friends or support here in my town, mostly due to my panic attacks and my inability to get out of the house by myself.

Most of my stuff is still at our apartment. I am still in shock and don’t know what to do.

I feel so lost and alone and really need some help and support. I am completely overwhelmed.

Thanks.
I know what your going through i would say its a mid life crisis may god give you the help to get over this and open your husbands eyes to the pain and hurt he is causing you god bless you
 
Dear Lord please help Teresa.Grant her strength and courage as she faces such emotional turmoil and help her to overcome her anxiety and panic attacks. Please guide her and protect her and help her to move forward in her life.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
O Sacred Heart of Jesus,
we place our trust in Thee,
Whatever may befall us O Lord,
though dark the hour may be;
In all our woes, in all our joys,
though naught but grief we see,
O Sacred Heart of Jesus,
we place our trust in Thee!
 
*Pater noster, qui es in cælis, sanctificetur nomen tuum; adveniat regnum tuum; fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra. Panem nostrum cotidianum da nobis hodie, et dimitte nobis debita nostra, sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris; et ne nos inducas in tentationem Sed libera nos a malo. Amen

Ave Maria, gratia plena, Dominus tecum. Benedicta tu in mulieribus, et benedictus fructus ventris tui, Jesus. Sancta Maria, Mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus, nunc et in hora mortis nostrae. Amen.

We fly to your patronage, O holy Mother of God; despise not our petitions in our necessities, but deliver us always from all dangers, O glorious and blessed Virgin.

PRAYER TO THE HOLY FACE OF JESUS*

Be merciful to us, O my God, and reject not our prayers, when amid our afflictions we call on Thy Holy Name and seek with love and confidence Thine adorable Face. Amen.
 
Dear Lord please help Teresa.Grant her strength and courage as she faces such emotional turmoil and help her to overcome her anxiety and panic attacks. Please guide her and protect her and help her to move forward in her life.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
O Sacred Heart of Jesus,
we place our trust in Thee,
Whatever may befall us ,Lord,
though dark the hour may be;
In all our woes, in all our joys,
though nought but grief we see,
O Sacred Heart of Jesus,
we place our trust in Thee!
 
Dear Lord please help Teresa.Grant her strength and courage as she faces such emotional turmoil and help her to overcome her anxiety and panic attacks. Please guide her and protect her and help her to move forward in her life.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen.!
 
Dear Lord please help Teresa.Grant her strength and courage as she faces such emotional turmoil and help her to overcome her anxiety and panic attacks. Please guide her and protect her and help her to move forward in her life.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
O Lord,
please give Teresa the grace she needs
for the trials she is going through right now,
You know, Lord, exactly what these are
and I have faith that in Your mercy, You will
provide for her.
In Jesus Name, I pray,
Amen
 
Dear Lord please help Teresa.Grant her strength and courage as she faces such emotional turmoil and help her to overcome her anxiety and panic attacks. Please guide her and protect her and help her to move forward in her life.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Almighty and Eternal God,
Healer of those who trust in You,
through the merits of Jesus Christ Your Son,
hear our prayers
 
Dear Lord please help Teresa.Grant her strength and courage as she faces such emotional turmoil and help her to overcome her anxiety and panic attacks. Please guide her and protect her and help her to move forward in her life.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Almighty and Eternal God,
Healer of those who trust in You,
through the merits of Jesus Christ Your Son,
hear our prayers
 
Holy Mother, please intercede for us.
Hold the sorrowful, strengthen the fearful,
give aid to all needing help or healing,
assist those who are sick, in pain or suffering,
be with those needing peace, console the lonely,
comfort the lost or hopeless, guard the unborn,
pray for those who are dying or who have died,
soften those with hardened hearts,
enlighten those who do not yet see truth,
help us be brave enough to let our hurt and anger go,
show us the way to do the right thing,
protect those who are in danger,
and guide us from every evil.
May all who keep your sacred commemoration
experience the might of your assistance.
Amen
 
Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen.!
 
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