Those are 2 different issues. The 1st issue, the Church doesn’t send anyone to hell
Regarding the 2nd position, The Catholic Church has the responsibility to teach authoritatively. To ensure that authority, The Catholic Church has been given the power to bind and loose directly from God who created the Catholic Church. What the Catholic Church binds here is bound in heaven…etc. That however, doesn’t translate to you personally having that power. But the Church DOES have that power.
Paul isn’t saying they WILL go to hell. He’s saying that those who comit those sins mentioned and remain in them can’t go to heaven. Paul is not closing the door to repentance. Are you going to argue with that? Paul is laying out the consequences of certain behavior. If the consequences to certain behavior is THAT serious, then THOSE sins by definition are mortal sins. If someone corrects their behavior, confesses their wrong, they don’t have that mortal sin on their soul anymore. Heaven is available to them. That’s why Paul WARNS. That doesn’t mean one can be lax about correcting their behavior and confessing a mortal sin. One doesn’t know the time or the second they will die. Untill they rid themselves of mortal sin, they are IN and remain IN mortal sin. And if they die in that state, they will NOT go to heaven. That’s scripture. That’s what the Church teaches.
obedience to Paul = worship?
remember what Jesus said to His apostles? If people don’t listen to YOU they won’t listen to ME or the one who sent ME.
The Church looks at your reference to 1Cor. 14:34–38; as having to do with ordination
catholic.com/thisrock/2002/0201sbs.asp
catholic.com/library/Women_and_the_Priesthood.asp
We don’t ordain women to the priesthood but If you look at who does most of the catechesis of children in the Catholic Church, you’ll proboably see women. And they probably have or run most of the lay ministries