Wm Scott -
Matthew 10:38 - And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. (ESV)
Greek uses “Stauros” (Strongs Number 4716) which according to Strongs was the Cross…
Matthew 16:24 -
Then Jesus said to his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” (NIV)
Greek uses “Stauros” (Strongs Number 4716)…
Matthew 27:32 -
As they went out, they found a man of Cyrene, Simon by name. They compelled this man to carry his cross. (ESV)
Greek uses “Stauros” (See above)
Matthew 27:40-42 -
“Look at you now!” they yelled at him. “You said you were going to destroy the Temple and rebuild it in three days. Well then, if you are the Son of God, save yourself and come down from the cross!” The leading priests, the teachers of religious law, and the elders also mocked Jesus. * He saved others,” they scoffed, “but he can’t save himself! So he is the King of Israel, is he? Let him come down from the cross right now, and we will believe in him!"* (NLB)
Greek uses “Stauros” ( See above)
Mark 8:34 -
Then Jesus called the crowd to himself along with his disciples. He said to them, “Those who want to follow me must say no to the things they want, pick up their crosses, and follow me." (GOD’S WORD)
Greek uses “Stauros” (See above)

Mark 15:21 -
They pressed into service a passer-by coming from the country, Simon of Cyrene (the father of Alexander and Rufus), to bear His cross. (NASB)
Greek uses “Stauros” (See above)
Mark 15:30-32 - Well then, save yourself and come down from the cross!” The leading priests and teachers of religious law also mocked Jesus. “He saved others,” they scoffed, “but he can’t save himself! Let this Messiah, this King of Israel, come down from the cross so we can see it and believe him!” Even the men who were crucified with Jesus ridiculed him. (NLT)
Greek “Stauros” (See above)
I want you to note that the word our Lord used for what we need to carry (or the one the Divinely Inspired Apostles believed translated what He said) is the same for what he was nailed to. Either our Lord meant what he said (& what the Apostles & the Church believe He meant), or he believed we were to carry around a bunch of stakes!
I think we know the answer to that, because only one really makes any sense.
Your Brother & Servant in Christ, Michael