Granddaughter Cannot Be Baptized Catholic

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You do realize that your quote was referring to secular authority don’t you?
Yes, but the same applies to the hierarchy of the Church. If it didn’t then by almoners all Papal appointments would not be because of the Holy Spirit, now would they? Or are you saying that the Holy Spirit had nothing to do with the election of all the Popes?
 
Well, couldn’t they simply get her baptized in a Protestant church? Many will do it no problem with little or no requirements, and since the Catholic Church accepts Protestant baptism as long as it’s done in the Trinitarian baptismal formula…

The Catechism of the Catholic Church:

The ordinary ministers of baptism are the bishop and priest and, in the Latin Church, also the deacon. In case of necessity, anyone, even a non-baptized person, with the required intention, can baptize by using the Trinitarian baptismal formula. The intention required is to will to do what the Church does when she baptizes. The Church finds the reason for this possibility in the universal saving will of God and the necessity of baptism for salvation. (CCC 1256)

I must say it’s quite unfortunate that the Priest would take that hard a line. The other option is to simply go to a different Parish or contact the Diocese.
 
You’re accusing a priest of corruption based on the case as presented? I could be wrong, and the OP can correct me, but it sounds like the priest asked, well within the norm of Canon Law, that the child’s baptism be delayed until the parents have their marriage solemnized by the Church. How is it corruption to follow the law? And how would a corrupt priest justify bribery in any case? The ends don’t justify the means, my friend.

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An to answer the questions, no it wouldn’t be corrupt to follow Cannon Law, it might be inmoral, but not corrupt of the Cannon Law, that is. Corruption would be to turn a blind eye to such law after receiving a donation, which would probably be more moral. The corruption of a law does not mean immorality, specially when laws are inmoral.
 
Well, couldn’t they simply get her baptized in a Protestant church? Many will do it no problem with little or no requirements, and since the Catholic Church accepts Protestant baptism as long as it’s done in the Trinitarian baptismal formula…

The Catechism of the Catholic Church:

The ordinary ministers of baptism are the bishop and priest and, in the Latin Church, also the deacon. In case of necessity, anyone, even a non-baptized person, with the required intention, can baptize by using the Trinitarian baptismal formula. The intention required is to will to do what the Church does when she baptizes. The Church finds the reason for this possibility in the universal saving will of God and the necessity of baptism for salvation. (CCC 1256)

I must say it’s quite unfortunate that the Priest would take that hard a line. The other option is to simply go to a different Parish or contact the Diocese.
Probably the priest just does not like the parents, or is waiting for a donation. I like the way you think, outside the box. This is another way to fight unjust laws.
 
Why should the child be denied baptism? I’m surprised at this.
Where have you been? History didn’t start yesterday. Years ago, there wasn’t much required to get a child baptized. Just show up after the noon Mass on Sunday, fill out the paperwork, and VOILA! your child got baptized. The result of this was what was called a “baptism of custom” whereby the day of baptism was the first time the family darkened the doors of the church. After that, the next time they came around was to get the child his first communion. The last time they ever showed up at church was for his confirmation, if that. You can see how it became just a custom. In an attempt to make these sacraments something meaningful, the Church started requiring a demonstration of commitment to the faith. This included some instruction, among other requirements, for parents and potential God-parents.
 
Yes, but the same applies to the hierarchy of the Church. If it didn’t then by almoners all Papal appointments would not be because of the Holy Spirit, now would they? Or are you saying that the Holy Spirit had nothing to do with the election of all the Popes?
I am saying that the clergy, including the Pope are here to serve the Church not the other way around, a close reading of the Last Supper account in the Gospel of John will give you the background.

Do we live in a perfect world? no.

Do we all sin? yes.

Should Christians work to make the Church the best it could possibly be with the guidance of the Holy Spirit? yes.

Do we often fail at this as well? yes.

What is the point of it all? Salvation, so we get up and try harder.
 
Where have you been? History didn’t start yesterday. Years ago, there wasn’t much required to get a child baptized. Just show up after the noon Mass on Sunday, fill out the paperwork, and VOILA! your child got baptized. The result of this was what was called a “baptism of custom” whereby the day of baptism was the first time the family darkened the doors of the church. After that, the next time they came around was to get the child his first communion. The last time they ever showed up at church was for his confirmation, if that. You can see how it became just a custom. In an attempt to make these sacraments something meaningful, the Church started requiring a demonstration of commitment to the faith. This included some instruction, among other requirements, for parents and potential God-parents.
You just described a method of control. Great! Now I don’t have to write about it.
 
I am saying that the clergy, including the Pope are here to serve the Church not the other way around, a close reading of the Last Supper account in the Gospel of John will give you the background.

Do we live in a perfect world? no.

Do we all sin? yes.

Should Christians work to make the Church the best it could possibly be with the guidance of the Holy Spirit? yes.

Do we often fail at this as well? yes.

What is the point of it all? Salvation, so we get up and try harder.
And your point is?
 
And I can think of one more reason the priest is making them wait. Aren’t the parents committing a mortal sin?

The OP says that the daughter has been married civilly twice, and is in the process of getting the first marriage annulled. Aren’t she and the baby’s father committing adultery?

How can they make the baptismal promises for the baby when their own souls aren’t clean?
 
And your point is?
There is no sense in participating in a jaded perspective of the Church just because not all of the people involved are saints. Any organization, especially one as large as the Church must have rules and processes. It would be best if everyone would participate within the boundaries of these and instead of trying to buck the system or get around the system, treat all with charity, respect and work towards salvation together.
 
And I can think of one more reason the priest is making them wait. Aren’t the parents committing a mortal sin?

The OP says that the daughter has been married civilly twice, and is in the process of getting the first marriage annulled. Aren’t she and the baby’s father committing adultery?

How can they make the baptismal promises for the baby when their own souls aren’t clean?
Ok so now I am very concerned, if I have to have my soul clean before I do any sort of promise, and I need to make a promise of not sinning again in order to receive absolution, then those promises were not valid because my soul wasn’t clean to begin with. How could i ever get absolution in the first place?
Nah, that argument is unconvincing.
Also if this is the case, you’d better go in to confession and confess the sins of your parents and god parents every time.
 
There is no sense in participating in a jaded perspective of the Church just because not all of the people involved are saints. Any organization, especially one as large as the Church must have rules and processes. It would be best if everyone would participate within the boundaries of these and instead of trying to buck the system or get around the system, treat all with charity, respect and work towards salvation together.
I would agree with this but you noted the reason of why I disagree which is the same argument you used, it works both ways. I’d rather work the system that works against me than work with the system and work against my self.
 
Ok so now I am very concerned, if I have to have my soul clean before I do any sort of promise, and I need to make a promise of not sinning again in order to receive absolution, then those promises were not valid because my soul wasn’t clean to begin with. How could i ever get absolution in the first place?
Nah, that argument is unconvincing.
Also if this is the case, you’d better go in to confession and confess the sins of your parents and god parents every time.
:confused: What? This post seems to be defying basic logic.
 
:confused: What? This post seems to be defying basic logic.
Exactly my point. In order to make a promise one does not need to be clean of sin. This applies to god parents and parents alike. The baptism should not be hindered just because there is sin in the life of the persons that are not receiving the sacrament. Imagine going in to confession without being baptised in the first place. Also if I am an adult and would want to be baptised without parents just god parents, do I have to confess my sins first? Isn’t confession for those that are baptised?
 
Great answer. The Hierarchy of the Church forgets about this most of the time, they are the worst example of Charity and Justice, and promulgate laws that only benefit a human organization instead of a supernatural organization that is the Church.
Why don’t you just baptize your granddaughter yourself, you seem to have all the answers. Of course, the truth is, you’d rather force the priest to do whatever it is you want just out of ritual and social reasons. It does not seem that imparting the Catholic faith is something that interests you.
 
Well, couldn’t they simply get her baptized in a Protestant church? Many will do it no problem with little or no requirements, and since the Catholic Church accepts Protestant baptism as long as it’s done in the Trinitarian baptismal formula…

The Catechism of the Catholic Church:

The ordinary ministers of baptism are the bishop and priest and, in the Latin Church, also the deacon. In case of necessity, anyone, even a non-baptized person, with the required intention, can baptize by using the Trinitarian baptismal formula. The intention required is to will to do what the Church does when she baptizes. The Church finds the reason for this possibility in the universal saving will of God and the necessity of baptism for salvation. (CCC 1256)

I must say it’s quite unfortunate that the Priest would take that hard a line. The other option is to simply go to a different Parish or contact the Diocese.
Yes - The Catholic Church recognizes most protestant baptisms. At least the child will be baptized, and at some point could join a Catholic Church.
 
Why don’t you just baptize your granddaughter yourself, you seem to have all the answers. Of course, the truth is, you’d rather force the priest to do whatever it is you want just out of ritual and social reasons. It does not seem that imparting the Catholic faith is something that interests you.
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